Amanda, pay attention. this is one of the most important life lessons to be learned. Your self-worth does NOT depend on what others think or say about you. Self esteem is based on what YOU believe about YOURSELF.
That is something I have just never worried about. I have to say most people just like me……don’t know why. If they don’t that’s okay. I’m not here to please everyone!!
I spent a fair amount of my childhood wondering why people didn’t like me. I figured it out eventually. It was because I was annoying to a lot of kids. I learned to keep a low profile. It helped a lot.
seanfear 10 days ago
hehe i know these kinda “justification” conversations pretty well
blunebottle 10 days ago
Amanda, pay attention. this is one of the most important life lessons to be learned. Your self-worth does NOT depend on what others think or say about you. Self esteem is based on what YOU believe about YOURSELF.
And it took me about 45 years to learn that…
azkfwecho Premium Member 10 days ago
No, Amanda. Just no. See what blunebottle said. Take it to heart.
Perkycat 10 days ago
That is something I have just never worried about. I have to say most people just like me……don’t know why. If they don’t that’s okay. I’m not here to please everyone!!
Teto85 Premium Member 10 days ago
Comparing yourself to others is a waste of time. Just do your best in any situation.
mistercatworks 10 days ago
I don’t expect people to like me. Not part of my life goals.
willie_mctell 9 days ago
I spent a fair amount of my childhood wondering why people didn’t like me. I figured it out eventually. It was because I was annoying to a lot of kids. I learned to keep a low profile. It helped a lot.
greenlynn Premium Member 9 days ago
Not sure of Amanda’s strategy here. She should go with, “You are an amazing person, and anyone who does not think so is a moron.”
BJIllistrated Premium Member 9 days ago
Everyone has something special about them that you would like. It’s just buried deep so sometimes you have to dig a little further to find it.