hmm.. yup. it is manipulative. so is going shopping, so is entering a coffee shop to drink a premium coffee, so is watching TV. Unless we were caveman and every thing we did was intended to survive, most of what we do is because we expect a reward even if is not necessary. The problem is when we get in the way of others to criticize because not everybody else expect the same rewards as us.. then we became douche bags
hmm.. yup. it is manipulative. so is going shopping, so is entering a coffee shop to drink a premium coffee, so is watching TV. Unless we were caveman and every thing we did was intended to survive, most of what we do is because we expect a reward even if is not necessary. The problem is when we get in the way of others to criticize because not everybody else expect the same rewards as us.. then we became douche bags