Some people look physically old at 45; some never seem to age.Genetics plays a big role. Hard work, an outdoor life, stress, and illness can make a body age faster.But so what?
I’ve known a few people who stayed what we would call “youthful” in spirit and mind well beyond the point where their bodies betrayed them.
Our culture is far too judgmental about chronological age. We call those who remain curious, who care about others, exercise their minds, and show gratitude for their lives “youthful,” while in other cultures, the same qualities are admiringly attributed to becoming older and wiser.
@TonyMy mother-in-law is 75 and looks younger than I do at 60. My hubby is 55 and has less gray in his hair than his 2 younger brothers. I guess it’s all genetic.
" How old is old? " I believe that depends on what is being aged. I mean work gets old really quickly, whereas fun never gets old. Confusion comes if you have fun at work.
You familiar with the phrase, “I’m just pulling your leg”? When I was a bank teller, I had a lot of customers who would wait in my line for me even though other tellers were available. One of my regulars was the owner of a Chrysler Dealership. He had one artificial leg and everyone knew that. We were talking and joking, and I said to him, “Oh Ed, I’m just pulling your leg”. I was SO EMBARRASSED, and felt like an a@@. He was laughing and said, “No problem, don’t worry about it! I thought it was funny.” He was really nice about it, but to this day some 30 years later, I still feel bad and dumb. Our friendship continued with no problems until he passed away.
tmt over 9 years ago
Well, you en’t wrong, Spork.
Last Rose Of Summer Premium Member over 9 years ago
@Tony@Bev@everybody else
77 IS NOT OLD !!!!!
Last Rose Of Summer Premium Member over 9 years ago
I don’t look it, I certainly don’t act it, ergo I must not be it!
Say What Now‽ Premium Member over 9 years ago
I’m almost as old as my parents. I’m catching up to them.
cdward over 9 years ago
I finally caught up with my dad, and my son has caught up with me. We’re all 30, and that seems about right.
SusanSunshine Premium Member over 9 years ago
Some people look physically old at 45; some never seem to age.Genetics plays a big role. Hard work, an outdoor life, stress, and illness can make a body age faster.But so what?
I’ve known a few people who stayed what we would call “youthful” in spirit and mind well beyond the point where their bodies betrayed them.
Our culture is far too judgmental about chronological age. We call those who remain curious, who care about others, exercise their minds, and show gratitude for their lives “youthful,” while in other cultures, the same qualities are admiringly attributed to becoming older and wiser.
ladykat over 9 years ago
@TonyMy mother-in-law is 75 and looks younger than I do at 60. My hubby is 55 and has less gray in his hair than his 2 younger brothers. I guess it’s all genetic.
whiteheron over 9 years ago
" How old is old? " I believe that depends on what is being aged. I mean work gets old really quickly, whereas fun never gets old. Confusion comes if you have fun at work.
GROG Premium Member over 9 years ago
30. And I’m 54 – at least 24 years too old.
Plods with ...™ over 9 years ago
I live by the philosophy that growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional.
King_Shark over 9 years ago
I think I’ve got as old as I’ve any intention of getting. 44.
DaveBNM over 9 years ago
And you Spork, are about to become homeless.
neverenoughgold over 9 years ago
I think I aged well, like a fine vintage wine….where the cork cracked many years ago!
damifid0 over 9 years ago
I’ll be 70 in a couple days,going on a ride,i hope. I’ve been ‘down’ and ‘abused’ but still kick’n and being kicked. :) Peace.
Dani Rice over 9 years ago
I’ll be 73 in July and have been told that I don’t look it, although some days I feel all that and plenty more.
Dry and Dusty Premium Member over 9 years ago
Yeah, Spork, that is much worse. Start packing your bags, you just wore out your welcome.
Dry and Dusty Premium Member over 9 years ago
2nd question
You familiar with the phrase, “I’m just pulling your leg”? When I was a bank teller, I had a lot of customers who would wait in my line for me even though other tellers were available. One of my regulars was the owner of a Chrysler Dealership. He had one artificial leg and everyone knew that. We were talking and joking, and I said to him, “Oh Ed, I’m just pulling your leg”. I was SO EMBARRASSED, and felt like an a@@. He was laughing and said, “No problem, don’t worry about it! I thought it was funny.” He was really nice about it, but to this day some 30 years later, I still feel bad and dumb. Our friendship continued with no problems until he passed away.
bob.2119 over 9 years ago
Chi’llin, listen up.I’m on my way to 87 and walk two miles a day and still find time to follow you guys, daily.
Saucy1121 Premium Member over 9 years ago
I seem to remember reading a study (don’t ask me where cuz I don’t remember) that “old” is 10-15 years older than your current age.
jbmlaw01 over 9 years ago
Definition of “Old”: the first time you walk into a room and wonder what you intended to do there.
Dry and Dusty Premium Member over 9 years ago
Yeah, and I dang near “feel off” the limb! :-D
He was a good guy, and didn’t take offense at all, but I felt like an idiot as soon as the words left my mouth! :-(
ob1knob2 over 9 years ago
I feel exactly the same way.
My mother said when I was young I told her ’I’m never going to grow up.’
Said she didn’t know I meant it. Ü