I raised 6 kiddoes myself and, most of the time, the living room floor couldn’t be seen under all the lego, GI Joes soldiers and equipment, cardboard box houses and Barbie doll clothes. Now my kids are grown and scattered and I barely see them and they’re long long past the age when these things pleased them. Ellie should enjoy these days while they’re happening. They are too soon over and become nothing but a memory.
the empty nest didn’t hurt as much as the empty arms did as they grew, then along came the grandbabies and I got to hug and hold again. Now for the most part they are also grown and no longer have much use for granny.
Elly ought to train them to pick up after themselves, and John ought to help. It should never be left to one person to do everything. You don’t need kids to have a messy house, sometimes all you need is a husband and 4 cats! LOL
I hate that Elly is being chastised for merely wanting her family to clean up after themselves. That is the bare minimum, not exactly a burden or above & beyond the call of duty to pick up after yourself. When I was a child, anything I didn’t pick up was thrown out — so I learned quickly to pick up after myself. No-one cleaned up after me & I don’t allow messes in my house. I’d rather an empty house than a messy one! I don’t tolerate being made to act like a servant & clean up other people’s messes.
When I find two socks together, in the same place, I compliment the seven-year-old on keeping them together. Just bought her (and me) net bags to put our socks in. The washer/dryer make them gnarly, but at least they’re matched.
Dad taught us to clean up our own messes. “You make a mess, you clean it up. You take it out, you put it away”…..we did it, because we knew at the time we would get spanked it if we disobeyed!
Reya85 about 11 years ago
Good answer
Can't Sleep about 11 years ago
Got that in one.
luckylouie about 11 years ago
Don’t worry, Elly, a day will come when you won’t have any little shoes and pants and socks laying around — and you’ll wish they were there.
onetrack0246 about 11 years ago
So very true
kfccanada about 11 years ago
I raised 6 kiddoes myself and, most of the time, the living room floor couldn’t be seen under all the lego, GI Joes soldiers and equipment, cardboard box houses and Barbie doll clothes. Now my kids are grown and scattered and I barely see them and they’re long long past the age when these things pleased them. Ellie should enjoy these days while they’re happening. They are too soon over and become nothing but a memory.
ghek about 11 years ago
The empty nest hurts, big time.
jeanie5448 about 11 years ago
the empty nest didn’t hurt as much as the empty arms did as they grew, then along came the grandbabies and I got to hug and hold again. Now for the most part they are also grown and no longer have much use for granny.
alondra about 11 years ago
Elly ought to train them to pick up after themselves, and John ought to help. It should never be left to one person to do everything. You don’t need kids to have a messy house, sometimes all you need is a husband and 4 cats! LOL
sbchamp about 11 years ago
P2: Precedent has been set. Ever train a pet?
Poollady about 11 years ago
Wise words from a little girl.
brulemonster about 11 years ago
From the mouths of babes comes-babble.
rowena28 Premium Member about 11 years ago
I hate that Elly is being chastised for merely wanting her family to clean up after themselves. That is the bare minimum, not exactly a burden or above & beyond the call of duty to pick up after yourself. When I was a child, anything I didn’t pick up was thrown out — so I learned quickly to pick up after myself. No-one cleaned up after me & I don’t allow messes in my house. I’d rather an empty house than a messy one! I don’t tolerate being made to act like a servant & clean up other people’s messes.
danlarios about 11 years ago
she has an empty look on her face
curmudgeon68 about 11 years ago
Troll.
Nancy J Stout about 11 years ago
It’s not the mess they miss, it’s the people who make the mess they miss.
Gokie5 about 11 years ago
When I find two socks together, in the same place, I compliment the seven-year-old on keeping them together. Just bought her (and me) net bags to put our socks in. The washer/dryer make them gnarly, but at least they’re matched.
rekam Premium Member about 11 years ago
From the mouths of babes.
hcr1985 about 11 years ago
Reminds me of a saying I saw on Facebook, “If I had no kids, my house would be clean, my wallet would be full, but my heart would be empty!!”
hippogriff about 11 years ago
M2MM: “Turn around and she’s a young mom with babes of her own” – Malvina Reynolds
BandGeek121 about 11 years ago
Dad taught us to clean up our own messes. “You make a mess, you clean it up. You take it out, you put it away”…..we did it, because we knew at the time we would get spanked it if we disobeyed!
tammyspeakslife Premium Member about 11 years ago
Lizzy said a mouthful!
tonyacsims about 11 years ago
From the mouth of babes