While cleaning out our Mom’s house, we discovered that she had kept every Christmas card, and every birthday card she ever got. Never looked at any of them, as far as we know.
It does seem heartless to toss personal cards and mail right after looking at them. However I don’t have a garage any more. Fortunately most everything I get these days is email. I haven’t sent cards for years.
S.I. contains cool articles that are fun and sometimes informative to read again later. What’s fun about re-reading “Hi, from Carol and Bob. Merry Christmas!”.
I keep cards with something either especially meaningful, like cards with hand written notes, or from people I especially love! Yes- sometimes I do look at them. Sometimes when I am discouraged, sad, or need a boost. And now some ofthose people I especially loved are gone. When I read the especially nice cards with their messages I realize those I have lost are still in my heart. Their messages are still alive to remind me and I feel encouraged, loved, and inspired to finish my own life doing my best as those I loved who loved me would want me to.
Touche nancy, touche. But talk about a double standard: nancy keeps christmas cards as keepsakes for sentimental value. But she chides frank for keeping sports illustrated—-no doubt the S.I. for the articles..haha
I have kept several ones that were particularly warm and meaningful. Those people are no longer in my life, but I can look back and be reminded of what once was.
Throw it out! Useless boxes of paper like greeting cards and magazines are a fire hazard and will eventually become a massively horrific nightmare for Brad and Luann to sort through and throw away, costing them their jobs and relationships from the sheer time commitment involved in dealing with millions of pieces of paper.
His marriage aside, I think Frank and Bernice make a better match! Yes, there is a 25-30 year age difference, but you cannot ignore the fact that their ability to kill the fun out of others is a sign that they are a near perfect couple. :P
I used to save them and then I got the idea. I have a scanner and a computer, so I scanned them all into the computer. I also scanned in all my important information that is on paper. And I did the same with all the old and new family photos.
I’ve begun to hang onto “special” Christmas cards. Unusual, or very pretty ones, as well as ones with an actually note written in them by people I love. Since so many folks no longer send cards and I love displaying cards at Christmas as part of my holiday decorations, I actually have begun to display some of the older “special” cards among what handful of “new” cards I get for the year. That makes my display look beautiful and provides an excuse to hang onto those cards. -——I’m also glad that over the last 10 years, I hung onto every Christmas and Birthday card from my Dad. He’s no longer with us, but it makes me smile to read and display his cards….as though he is still here.
I save ours until the next December when I get together with other church ladies for a potluck lunch. Before we eat, we make Christmas place mats for people in the retirement facility. We take those with some more useful items on their wish lists so they have them for Christmas. We have a lot of fun and those simple place mats are well liked. We made 175 this year. I do frame a few cards as well.
I wish I had kept all the comic books from when I was a kid, I’d be rich! I still keep stuff, but I am slowly clearing out, Before I throw old mail or books out I have to take one last look to make sure I REALLY don’t get joy out of it anymore.
They ones I keep are the ones with pictures of kids. I like to see how they’ve grown in the past year. That being said, it’s because I don’t live near any of them and there are only 3 families. So, all of them since 2004 fit into a shoebox.
I don’t get many paper cards, but I keep my best birthday and Christmas cards until the next year’s batch comes in. With a very rare exception, last year’s gets tossed after I reread them. A few I’ll keep forever if they are the very last from a dead loved one or they make me smile.
Things are much easier to toss after they have been moved a couple different places. First from the mantle to the kitchen counter, then to the laundry room, then out to the garage. After they’ve been in the garage a few years they are easier to toss.
We usually get somewhere around 40 to 45 cards a year at Christmas. I tried to think of something better than standing them up on the buffet in the main dining room. About 6 years ago, I happened to spot a flat Christmas tree – it is about 7 feet tall, and at the bottom, it is a little over 4 feet wide, but is only 6 inches thick from front to back, so it fits flat against a wall. It is pre – lighted, I put on a sparse amount of small red balls, and I put all the Christmas cards on the tree, so it became the Christmas card tree.
I kept cards and letters (the written kind) for close to 50 years, and finally went through them a couple years ago and shredded most. Kept a few from family members no longer here, and old friends that I had forgotten we used to have a pretty good correspondence going (where are they now?). It was very bittersweet reading those old cards/letters, but there was just no reason to keep them forever plus I don’t want my sisters to have to deal with all that junk when I’m gone.
We have two kids and we have two two – story houses (free and clear) in a desirable area of town, so when we pass on, each kid gets a house. Because they get the house for free, their job will be to get rid of what they do not want. Small task on their part to get a free house, especially since we are not hoarders. I’d take that deal any day…
Interestingly enough, the topic of the sermon during this morning’s service at church was about clutter and getting rid of it. As much as I can understand the logic of keeping both used Christmas cards and back issues of Sports Illustrated, like the pastor said this morning, if you haven’t used it in more than a year or so, you probably never will. Out it goes.
His collection fills up 2/3 of the Garage. Hers only a couple shelves.
Although both collections are much smaller since that family of Rats that they haven’t noticed yet moved in and began chewing the collections up to make nests out of.
Templo S.U.D. almost 5 years ago
She got you there in the end of the conversation, mister.
GreasyOldTam almost 5 years ago
While cleaning out our Mom’s house, we discovered that she had kept every Christmas card, and every birthday card she ever got. Never looked at any of them, as far as we know.
Brdshtt Premium Member almost 5 years ago
Guess I better go out in the garage and check on my “The Yellow Kid” comics collection.
Counterpoint almost 5 years ago
Touché !
Mordock999 Premium Member almost 5 years ago
Don’t fight, Frank. You one of the few happily married couples in the Strip.
Let it go, it’s not worth it.
Because if it was, I’d tell you ask Nancy how come HER clothes take up 90% of the walk-in closet space. ;)
[DUCKS]
Lucy Rudy almost 5 years ago
I have 25 years of TV Guide Fall Preview guides, until the year they stopped making them small. It is interesting to look back at them.
kenhense almost 5 years ago
It does seem heartless to toss personal cards and mail right after looking at them. However I don’t have a garage any more. Fortunately most everything I get these days is email. I haven’t sent cards for years.
Enter.Name.Here almost 5 years ago
S.I. contains cool articles that are fun and sometimes informative to read again later. What’s fun about re-reading “Hi, from Carol and Bob. Merry Christmas!”.
jea9hrkr almost 5 years ago
I keep cards with something either especially meaningful, like cards with hand written notes, or from people I especially love! Yes- sometimes I do look at them. Sometimes when I am discouraged, sad, or need a boost. And now some ofthose people I especially loved are gone. When I read the especially nice cards with their messages I realize those I have lost are still in my heart. Their messages are still alive to remind me and I feel encouraged, loved, and inspired to finish my own life doing my best as those I loved who loved me would want me to.
gnmnrbl almost 5 years ago
Touche nancy, touche. But talk about a double standard: nancy keeps christmas cards as keepsakes for sentimental value. But she chides frank for keeping sports illustrated—-no doubt the S.I. for the articles..haha
Joe1962 almost 5 years ago
Frank it’s not worth it.
Namrepus almost 5 years ago
Better Sports Illustrated than a different kind of magazine.
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace almost 5 years ago
Swimsuits are sports related.
Rhetorical_Question almost 5 years ago
Nancy 1 Frank zero. Remember Nancy doesn’t need to justify, but Frank does!Silence is golden.
Orcatime almost 5 years ago
Tit for tat.
Rhetorical_Question almost 5 years ago
School break is over; bring back Tiffany; it time to see the new roommates!
BJShipley1 almost 5 years ago
Hehehe. Well done, Nancy.
blunebottle almost 5 years ago
I have kept several ones that were particularly warm and meaningful. Those people are no longer in my life, but I can look back and be reminded of what once was.
sallymargret almost 5 years ago
Scan everything and put it in chronological order. Changes your perspective.
Need coffee almost 5 years ago
Throw it out! Useless boxes of paper like greeting cards and magazines are a fire hazard and will eventually become a massively horrific nightmare for Brad and Luann to sort through and throw away, costing them their jobs and relationships from the sheer time commitment involved in dealing with millions of pieces of paper.
Throw it all out!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aladar30 Premium Member almost 5 years ago
Sometimes Frank can be pretty annoying. But the Sundays strips with him and Nancy are very good. So real life.
Don Draper almost 5 years ago
His marriage aside, I think Frank and Bernice make a better match! Yes, there is a 25-30 year age difference, but you cannot ignore the fact that their ability to kill the fun out of others is a sign that they are a near perfect couple. :P
NeedaChuckle Premium Member almost 5 years ago
I used to save them and then I got the idea. I have a scanner and a computer, so I scanned them all into the computer. I also scanned in all my important information that is on paper. And I did the same with all the old and new family photos.
dlkrueger33 almost 5 years ago
I’ve begun to hang onto “special” Christmas cards. Unusual, or very pretty ones, as well as ones with an actually note written in them by people I love. Since so many folks no longer send cards and I love displaying cards at Christmas as part of my holiday decorations, I actually have begun to display some of the older “special” cards among what handful of “new” cards I get for the year. That makes my display look beautiful and provides an excuse to hang onto those cards. -——I’m also glad that over the last 10 years, I hung onto every Christmas and Birthday card from my Dad. He’s no longer with us, but it makes me smile to read and display his cards….as though he is still here.
Auntie Socialist almost 5 years ago
“Hey, not fair! I only keep one issue out of the year!”
Schrodinger's Dog almost 5 years ago
not the same
jrankin1959 almost 5 years ago
…especially the swimsuit editions…
Ellis97 almost 5 years ago
I keep my back issues of Nickelodeon Magazine in shoeboxes.
Grutzi almost 5 years ago
I save ours until the next December when I get together with other church ladies for a potluck lunch. Before we eat, we make Christmas place mats for people in the retirement facility. We take those with some more useful items on their wish lists so they have them for Christmas. We have a lot of fun and those simple place mats are well liked. We made 175 this year. I do frame a few cards as well.
Thorby almost 5 years ago
That’s a fair trade, Frank; work on the National Geographic collection next.
Bill The Nuke almost 5 years ago
All except the Swimsuit editions!
eladee AKA Wally almost 5 years ago
Frank pick your battles! This one isn’t worth it. It’s hard to just toss out cards from friends and family.
jonesbeltone almost 5 years ago
Touche’. And by the way, close your pie hole before you fall into it.
luann1212 almost 5 years ago
I wish I had kept all the comic books from when I was a kid, I’d be rich! I still keep stuff, but I am slowly clearing out, Before I throw old mail or books out I have to take one last look to make sure I REALLY don’t get joy out of it anymore.
sueb1863 almost 5 years ago
One good reason to keep the cards is so you know who sent you a card last year and who didn’t, so you can pare down your list.
Queen of America almost 5 years ago
They ones I keep are the ones with pictures of kids. I like to see how they’ve grown in the past year. That being said, it’s because I don’t live near any of them and there are only 3 families. So, all of them since 2004 fit into a shoebox.
marilynnbyerly almost 5 years ago
I don’t get many paper cards, but I keep my best birthday and Christmas cards until the next year’s batch comes in. With a very rare exception, last year’s gets tossed after I reread them. A few I’ll keep forever if they are the very last from a dead loved one or they make me smile.
locake almost 5 years ago
Things are much easier to toss after they have been moved a couple different places. First from the mantle to the kitchen counter, then to the laundry room, then out to the garage. After they’ve been in the garage a few years they are easier to toss.
KEA almost 5 years ago
That’s silly! …uh, but don’t touch my 50 years of Road & Track.
KEA almost 5 years ago
I don’t save cards. I scan or photograph them and keep the digital versions which I use for screensavers in later years.
zmech13 Premium Member almost 5 years ago
Don’t toss magazines like that till you’ve at least checked eBay first. Sometimes those things can be worth money.
Teto85 Premium Member almost 5 years ago
My favourite SI issues are those with the reactions to the yearly swimsuit issue. And the swimsuit issues.
ktrabbit33 almost 5 years ago
I cut the card fronts into bookmarks…sometimes add a ribbon. Recycle those babies!
Brdshtt Premium Member almost 5 years ago
We usually get somewhere around 40 to 45 cards a year at Christmas. I tried to think of something better than standing them up on the buffet in the main dining room. About 6 years ago, I happened to spot a flat Christmas tree – it is about 7 feet tall, and at the bottom, it is a little over 4 feet wide, but is only 6 inches thick from front to back, so it fits flat against a wall. It is pre – lighted, I put on a sparse amount of small red balls, and I put all the Christmas cards on the tree, so it became the Christmas card tree.
AuxArx Premium Member almost 5 years ago
I kept cards and letters (the written kind) for close to 50 years, and finally went through them a couple years ago and shredded most. Kept a few from family members no longer here, and old friends that I had forgotten we used to have a pretty good correspondence going (where are they now?). It was very bittersweet reading those old cards/letters, but there was just no reason to keep them forever plus I don’t want my sisters to have to deal with all that junk when I’m gone.
Brdshtt Premium Member almost 5 years ago
We have two kids and we have two two – story houses (free and clear) in a desirable area of town, so when we pass on, each kid gets a house. Because they get the house for free, their job will be to get rid of what they do not want. Small task on their part to get a free house, especially since we are not hoarders. I’d take that deal any day…
JPuzzleWhiz almost 5 years ago
“I Stand Collected”
“Oh, For Keepsake!”
“Boxed Card — Will He?”
“This Old Card Of Mine” (♪♫)
“Bundle Of Oy”
jmworacle almost 5 years ago
Ball is in your court.
asrialfeeple almost 5 years ago
The right Sports Illustrated can fetch a pretty penny, if I’m not mistaken.
BlitzMcD almost 5 years ago
Interestingly enough, the topic of the sermon during this morning’s service at church was about clutter and getting rid of it. As much as I can understand the logic of keeping both used Christmas cards and back issues of Sports Illustrated, like the pastor said this morning, if you haven’t used it in more than a year or so, you probably never will. Out it goes.
Ignatz Premium Member almost 5 years ago
Scan the Christmas Cards. You get to keep them without taking up space.
Daniel II almost 5 years ago
Just cleaned out my mom’s house, had 70 years of old cards. Christmas, birthdays, mothers & fathers days and anniversary cards. What a waste.
STACEY MARSHALL Premium Member almost 5 years ago
Been there, done that, still doing it!
bakana almost 5 years ago
His collection fills up 2/3 of the Garage. Hers only a couple shelves.
Although both collections are much smaller since that family of Rats that they haven’t noticed yet moved in and began chewing the collections up to make nests out of.
Schrodinger's Dog almost 5 years ago
Tomorrow: Inspector Clouseau or Nancy Drew?
Sisyphos almost 5 years ago
Happy the family that hoards together!
Cstimpy25 almost 5 years ago
both make good arguments on why do they have so many this or that.