No truer words where spoken.
Michel De montaigne; ” Marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds outside desperate to get in, and the birds inside desperate to get out”.
Harold J. Morowitz , a science essaist, once commented on this. He called it the paradox of paradoxes : “Aquiring an intimate familiarity involves sufficient commitment to compromise one’s objectivity. In order to grasp meaningfully a mode of existence, one must immerse oneself within the framework for a meaningfull length of time. This requires belief and discipline. By the time an individual gains enough experience to evaluate a metaphysical system of beliefs, He/ She is asking questions within the vocabulary and thought patterns of the mode, and the answers will be contingent upon the questions”.
hope there is some meat on the bones, and they flesh out the story till it’s well done, and juicy…