It is absolutely toxic when unequal power dynamics exist, such as when one is an employee serving a customer. The employee is literally trapped into being nice and trying to avoid getting a customer complaint just because someone can’t understand boundaries. This is especially more difficult when the employee is a woman, because we can, and do, have people who will literally wait for us to get off and stalk us to our cars, demanding our attention or worse, at a higher rate than happens to men.
The last I checked, the word “No” still meant “No” and it doesn’t matter one whit if a girl is dressed in a mini skirt or a caftan. Victim blaming is not cool, people. I don’t like Tiff much, but she is NOT the one at fault here.
must be an orange baby