AND, she’s an enabler, I was married to an alcoholic for 60 yrs. and their personality is still there even if they are sober. I, wasn;t an enabler though, lived my own life and am enjoying myself now that he’s dead. Go ahead call me a heartless b***h.
They are feral cats, they are 11 1/2 yrs old , and yes , they go out in the daytime in nice weather and are in every night before dark. We got them from our backyard at birth and my intention was not to tame them but that didn’t last long as they were so sweet, but they are still feral and they are different.
I owned a bar for 17 yrs and we raised a lot of money for local and national charoites.