you sound very bitter. My mother was like that when we were young, and I only realized much later it was because she felt she was being judged for being a stay-at-home mom. Please don’t feel judged and please don’t retaliate by judging others, it only perpetuates the cycle. Everyone gets by as best they can <3
Childhood and adolescence don’t count. 90 – 20 / 2 = 35, + 20 = 55.