I just had an old friend die after going on hospice with kidney failure. He had lived for seven years on dialysis but he also had his own home machine and his wife was trained to use it. He was also not old, but was in kidney failure mainly because of being massively obese, which may have given him an advantage over people who are very elderly.
Is it really indexed to inflation in the real world, though? I keep hearing that grocery prices are up 4% or something, when mine have literally tripled. In all seriousness I just check and groceries are supposed to be up 25%, in other words they cost $125 for what used to cost $100. But if I look at individual prices of items, many have tripled or quadrupled. I’m not sure how their indexing works but it isn’t functioning in a reality-based way.
In all seriousness I had one of these moments. I was suffering from undiagnosed lupus at the time and could barely walk without my heart racing because of inflammation. It was New Year’s Eve and I decided to make Hoppin John because of the belief that each black eyed pea you eat on New Year’s means a happy day in the new year, but I couldn’t even walk to the back of the store without sitting down and they were out of peas. So here I am sitting by the magazine racks at the front of the all-night Walmart when I see a couple of kids hiding behind the racks pointing and giggling at a man with two bionic arms. He called for them to come out and explained that he had been an electrician when he ended up being burned by a live wire, and that he was so lucky to be alive and to have two wonderful bionic arms. He was so cheerful and so happy that I felt terribly weak for being so pessimistic, and I resolved to try to do better. And then the stocker brought me some peas he found in the back!
I don’t know if you’re like me, but if you are, it helps to remind yourself that worrying isn’t a magical spell that makes bad things less likely to happen. It’s just as likely to be okay if you take a deep breath and find ways to distract yourself than if you spend all day crying! Worry doesn’t help!
I have so many online friends who I first met while they were spending a bunch of time online while healing from carpal tunnel surgery. All are okay. Hopefully your husband will be too. Praying for you!
I just had an old friend die after going on hospice with kidney failure. He had lived for seven years on dialysis but he also had his own home machine and his wife was trained to use it. He was also not old, but was in kidney failure mainly because of being massively obese, which may have given him an advantage over people who are very elderly.