In fall 2016, we were visiting a city that we enjoy, and my husband said, “what would you think about moving here?” We spent the next 6 months starting to downsize and constantly talking the pros and cons (but not telling any friends yet). Finally in summer 2017, we put our house on the market, told folks the news, sold the house, got rid of a ton more stuff, and moved in October 2017. Don’t regret it at all – especially the downsizing part.
Husband over the decades has planned to retire to Lancaster, PA, Williamsburg, VA, and Hagerstown, MD (between the other two locations) as this is where we normally go (went) on trips every year. About 15 years ago he quit job early due to burn out.
We are still here. On the now rare occasions he mentions moving – I stand and look around me and say to him “We can’t move – we have too much stuff that we are still using and can’t get rid of as we need it” He will hem and haw and then drop the subject.
Both our families are here. While his parents have both passed on, my mom is 94. Our sisters and their families are here. (Never fortunate enough to have children of our own.)
The amount of work it would take to pack almost everything and figure out what to do with the rest (little of it valuable other than to us) exhausts me just to think about it. We have been part time working craft artists for decades – that is a lot of supplies which cannot be replaced (trust me, I needed something in a different color and nothing like is sold anymore) plus our inventory and personal pieces. He has a major wood shop in our garage – some of the tools can no longer be purchased and shipping the larger power tools would cost a fortune. We are looking to get the foot to my sewing machine remade (he found someone) as for a decade or more I have been doing all the sewing by hand as I LOVE that machine and none of our others work the same. Plus we have an extensive library on several subjects we are interested – 18th century history, James Bond, Louisa May Alcott, movies, in addition to our craft book library – plus other categories. And my substantial teddy bear collection would have to come along also.
alasko about 1 year ago
Arlo is a go.
uhohlol about 1 year ago
Where is Ludi? He should be in the drawer or suitcase.
flagmichael about 1 year ago
I hear a lot of “pie in the sky” talk from my wife when we are vacationing. It may pop up for years afterward, although it is nowhere near our budget.
Jason Allen about 1 year ago
Arlo, sometimes you’re as smooth as loose gravel.
Sephten about 1 year ago
Been there, forgotten that!
Rhetorical_Question about 1 year ago
Smooth Talker?
jarvisloop about 1 year ago
She’s not buying his attempted recovery.
MuddyUSA Premium Member about 1 year ago
He does not seem excited…..
Skeptical Meg about 1 year ago
That’s not what he meant.
ahnk_2000 about 1 year ago
Arlo, Arlo, Arlo. Insert foot A into mouth B.
rj11111111 about 1 year ago
Where’s Luddie??
raybarb44 about 1 year ago
Nice attempt at a save but no cigar…..
LakeBill about 1 year ago
Quick thinking, Arlo!
SpacedInvader Premium Member about 1 year ago
We know what you were leading to Arlo and so does she. Not a good save.
raybarb44 about 1 year ago
It’s a long term plan and not necessarily a short one by definition…..
donwestonmysteries about 1 year ago
Maybe the strip will go Florida and the kids will add to the storylines.
BlzBob about 1 year ago
Christmas with the kids at Gus’s condo?
ChattyFran about 1 year ago
In fall 2016, we were visiting a city that we enjoy, and my husband said, “what would you think about moving here?” We spent the next 6 months starting to downsize and constantly talking the pros and cons (but not telling any friends yet). Finally in summer 2017, we put our house on the market, told folks the news, sold the house, got rid of a ton more stuff, and moved in October 2017. Don’t regret it at all – especially the downsizing part.
mafastore about 1 year ago
Husband over the decades has planned to retire to Lancaster, PA, Williamsburg, VA, and Hagerstown, MD (between the other two locations) as this is where we normally go (went) on trips every year. About 15 years ago he quit job early due to burn out.
We are still here. On the now rare occasions he mentions moving – I stand and look around me and say to him “We can’t move – we have too much stuff that we are still using and can’t get rid of as we need it” He will hem and haw and then drop the subject.
Both our families are here. While his parents have both passed on, my mom is 94. Our sisters and their families are here. (Never fortunate enough to have children of our own.)
The amount of work it would take to pack almost everything and figure out what to do with the rest (little of it valuable other than to us) exhausts me just to think about it. We have been part time working craft artists for decades – that is a lot of supplies which cannot be replaced (trust me, I needed something in a different color and nothing like is sold anymore) plus our inventory and personal pieces. He has a major wood shop in our garage – some of the tools can no longer be purchased and shipping the larger power tools would cost a fortune. We are looking to get the foot to my sewing machine remade (he found someone) as for a decade or more I have been doing all the sewing by hand as I LOVE that machine and none of our others work the same. Plus we have an extensive library on several subjects we are interested – 18th century history, James Bond, Louisa May Alcott, movies, in addition to our craft book library – plus other categories. And my substantial teddy bear collection would have to come along also.
Just thinking about moving exhausts me too much.