My goodness… are you guys serious??For a woman meeting a man, especially in a bar…it’s MUCH safer to ask for his number than give him hers!
His age has nothing to do with it… she’s not being rejected… she’s the one in control… and yes, four guys hope she will call them.
She doesn’t have to insult anybody by giving the “cute” one her number and not the “dork” (in Lila’s view)She doesn’t have to wait, hoping he’ll call…. she can choose the time of day, and in what order…she knows who she’s talking to, instead of trying to place the voice..And after the conversation, if she decides not to go out with him, or has one date with him and doesn’t want a second, unless she forgets to turn off her outgoing caller ID, it ends right there.
Thanks rekam… actually i used to comment on lila quite a bit, the first time through. This is just a bit past where i cane in, that time. .. it’s been nice to read the parts i never saw.
I actually Knew someone, once upon a time, who decided to wear Lingerie to the bar one night.Then, walked Home in 40 degree weather wearing it, also. (She’d Lost her jacket somehow)She came down with Pneumonia.While in hte Hospital being treated for the pneumonia, she had time to Think and “meditate” on all the Other bad things that Could have happened that night. (She said it was a Very Unsafe neighborhood that she lived in at the time) .So, as soon as her doctor said the Pneumonia was gone, she transferred herself to the Psychiatric Wing to try to figure out if she was Suicidal or just plain Crazy for doing what she had done.
Eric Salinas Premium Member about 9 years ago
Why did she GET four numbers instead of giving out her phone number. Are there four men who expect Lila to call them?
SusanSunshine Premium Member about 9 years ago
My goodness… are you guys serious??For a woman meeting a man, especially in a bar…it’s MUCH safer to ask for his number than give him hers!
His age has nothing to do with it… she’s not being rejected… she’s the one in control… and yes, four guys hope she will call them.
She doesn’t have to insult anybody by giving the “cute” one her number and not the “dork” (in Lila’s view)She doesn’t have to wait, hoping he’ll call…. she can choose the time of day, and in what order…she knows who she’s talking to, instead of trying to place the voice..And after the conversation, if she decides not to go out with him, or has one date with him and doesn’t want a second, unless she forgets to turn off her outgoing caller ID, it ends right there.
SusanSunshine Premium Member about 9 years ago
Disclaimer: I do NOT meet men in bars… but this strategy works everywhere.I would never hand a strange man my number!
blackdawne about 9 years ago
And which bar is this?
codedaddy about 9 years ago
She doesn’t normally wear lingerie? (!}
whenlifewassimpler about 9 years ago
Wow I am glad I old and married….feel bad for all of you!
SusanSunshine Premium Member about 9 years ago
Thanks rekam… actually i used to comment on lila quite a bit, the first time through. This is just a bit past where i cane in, that time. .. it’s been nice to read the parts i never saw.
Tarredandfeathered about 9 years ago
I actually Knew someone, once upon a time, who decided to wear Lingerie to the bar one night.Then, walked Home in 40 degree weather wearing it, also. (She’d Lost her jacket somehow)She came down with Pneumonia.While in hte Hospital being treated for the pneumonia, she had time to Think and “meditate” on all the Other bad things that Could have happened that night. (She said it was a Very Unsafe neighborhood that she lived in at the time) .So, as soon as her doctor said the Pneumonia was gone, she transferred herself to the Psychiatric Wing to try to figure out if she was Suicidal or just plain Crazy for doing what she had done.