If she used this, she had an episiotomy. It did help me. I had this procedure with my first but not with the second, thank goodness. If the birthing woman did not have a perineal tear, she would not need this ring pillow. I read that the teaching hospitals are encouraging gyn doctors not to do this unless absolutely necessary, same with induced births just to get a preferred birthdate or timing.
I had a c-section with both (the first was an emergency one, which necessitated the need for the second). For the second, my husband worked the week that I was in the hospital so he could take the next week off to help me at home. Our older daughter, who was 2, was also extremely helpful. While the ladies of our church made our dinners for that week & brought it over every day, that was the only “outside” help we got…or wanted.
I had the episiotomy for the first one and tearing for the second. In both cases I was pretty numb from the waist down (saddle block for one and spinal for the other) so I felt neither the tearing/incision nor the sewing. I didn’t use a donut pillow. I guess I didn’t know about them.
My daughter (age 10 at the time) asked if it hurt to have a baby. I was honest, told her I didn’t feel anything! She now has five, so I guess her question has been answered.
Templo S.U.D. over 6 years ago
Michelle Tanner once called that thing “tooshee doughnut” in a “Full House”/“Hanging with Mr. Cooper” crossover.
Odd Dog Premium Member over 6 years ago
In the service we simply called it a rhoid-ring.
howtheduck over 6 years ago
Elly: Doctor, it hurts when I grab my butt like this. What should I do?
Doctor:Don’t grab your butt like that. Here, have a doughnut.
Elly: Hey! This tastes terrible.
capricorn9th over 6 years ago
If she used this, she had an episiotomy. It did help me. I had this procedure with my first but not with the second, thank goodness. If the birthing woman did not have a perineal tear, she would not need this ring pillow. I read that the teaching hospitals are encouraging gyn doctors not to do this unless absolutely necessary, same with induced births just to get a preferred birthdate or timing.
Nachikethass over 6 years ago
Thanks to all you mothers who commented here. Even as a middle-aged bachelor, I appreciate all of you ladies for being!
Rosette over 6 years ago
One of the many joys of motherhood – pain in childbearing.
Wren Fahel over 6 years ago
I had a c-section with both (the first was an emergency one, which necessitated the need for the second). For the second, my husband worked the week that I was in the hospital so he could take the next week off to help me at home. Our older daughter, who was 2, was also extremely helpful. While the ladies of our church made our dinners for that week & brought it over every day, that was the only “outside” help we got…or wanted.
dlkrueger33 over 6 years ago
C-section(s)….after 72 hours of labor. 9 and 8 pound babies!
Jan C over 6 years ago
I had the episiotomy for the first one and tearing for the second. In both cases I was pretty numb from the waist down (saddle block for one and spinal for the other) so I felt neither the tearing/incision nor the sewing. I didn’t use a donut pillow. I guess I didn’t know about them.
Tyge over 6 years ago
My wife toughed it out at the advice of her mother, eschewed the cushion. She was convinced she got over it faster.
Tyge over 6 years ago
The last panel is a great example of the cartoonist art.
summerdog86 over 6 years ago
I really had forgotten all the things you had to do after a regular delivery. It’s been a long time.
tuslog64 over 6 years ago
My daughter (age 10 at the time) asked if it hurt to have a baby. I was honest, told her I didn’t feel anything! She now has five, so I guess her question has been answered.
Argythree over 6 years ago
@"DOCTOR" YARPYARPYARP: Sure hope you have no daughters. Or a wife, for that matter…
rebelstrike0 over 6 years ago
Elly looks constipated in panel four.
Lisa Marie Chamberlain over 6 years ago
Is this the beginning of this strip or its a flashback of where Elly tells her kids about what happen?