At the gym I go to almost all of the members & staff hold the door for anyone coming or going no matter which way that person is going. Also almost everyone says thank you & you’re welcome. That includes the young,younger & my group the seniors. I attend a Silver Class & the whole class is not only friendly but watches out for each other. You see someone with an armload of one piece of equipment while another has a different set. Sometimes we might end up with duplicates as we’re all so busy helping each other.
Kudos to the lady for holding the door the right way: pulling it open & standing back out of the way so the other person can go through. When the door opens outward, you go through first & hold the door while standing back out of the way.
FULL DISCLOSURE: I’m a 60-something woman who’s always liked holding doors for other people. Don’t ask me why…maybe just because it’s such an easy thing to do & always gets a smile & thanks.
I’ve always believed that the first person to arrive at the door should open it and hold it for anyone who is close behind them, male or female. The only exception to this is with my husband. He insists on opening the door for me all the time, so I wait patiently to one side of the door while he opens the door. And I always say “thank you”!
Oh man! My Mother was Old School. We were taught, on no uncertain terms, that we always held the door open for a lady or the elderly. I still do this. Always. And, sadly, have noted a distinct absence of people simply saying “thank you” as they pass by. And anyone under 30? Forget about it. You’ll receive neither thanks or anyone holding a door open for you. We have become a nation of vulgarians.
Templo S.U.D. about 5 years ago
if she was just entering the store as he was exiting, good timing
Baarorso about 5 years ago
A plugger does this because a plugger knows that it’s uncouth to let the door slam in the face of the person after him or her.:D
Display about 5 years ago
Real Pluggers follow one rule – treat others as you would expect to be treated.
zerotvus about 5 years ago
it’s called manners…..
Breadboard about 5 years ago
Nothing like “Please” and “Thank-You” ! Those two sayings make life better for all :-)
ctolson about 5 years ago
Alas, the younger generation has forgotten all of the above.
WDemBlk Premium Member about 5 years ago
At the gym I go to almost all of the members & staff hold the door for anyone coming or going no matter which way that person is going. Also almost everyone says thank you & you’re welcome. That includes the young,younger & my group the seniors. I attend a Silver Class & the whole class is not only friendly but watches out for each other. You see someone with an armload of one piece of equipment while another has a different set. Sometimes we might end up with duplicates as we’re all so busy helping each other.
anomalous4 about 5 years ago
Kudos to the lady for holding the door the right way: pulling it open & standing back out of the way so the other person can go through. When the door opens outward, you go through first & hold the door while standing back out of the way.
FULL DISCLOSURE: I’m a 60-something woman who’s always liked holding doors for other people. Don’t ask me why…maybe just because it’s such an easy thing to do & always gets a smile & thanks.
Jan C about 5 years ago
I’ve always believed that the first person to arrive at the door should open it and hold it for anyone who is close behind them, male or female. The only exception to this is with my husband. He insists on opening the door for me all the time, so I wait patiently to one side of the door while he opens the door. And I always say “thank you”!
Space & Kitten about 5 years ago
It’s Simply Common Courtesy and Respect,of which We Need More Of ! Less of " It’s All About Me ! ". :-) You-all Have a Great Day and Be Safe !
Dorothy Ownbey Premium Member about 5 years ago
Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just gone unisex!
Soo5002 about 5 years ago
Oh man! My Mother was Old School. We were taught, on no uncertain terms, that we always held the door open for a lady or the elderly. I still do this. Always. And, sadly, have noted a distinct absence of people simply saying “thank you” as they pass by. And anyone under 30? Forget about it. You’ll receive neither thanks or anyone holding a door open for you. We have become a nation of vulgarians.
gorgolo_chick about 5 years ago
I always like to say that my mother raised her daughter (me) to be a gentleman.