ButMad — Maybe, if he’s in an open relationship, and dates both sexes, or even if he’s cheating, but his girlfriend knows he has previously dated men. But IF he’s flat-out lying to her about his sexuality (and we don’t know that he is,) then in my book he’s a closeted gay man.
….if Ted is bisexual in in an open relationship,I have no problem with this…but being closeted is no excuse to cheat on your spouse or to date someone in a relationship…I know that in the age of bathhouses this seems terribly naive …but shouldn’t be….
ButMadNNW79 over 13 years ago
Or maybe Ted is bisexual polyamorous. He doesn’t have to be a “closeted gay man”.
SusanSunshine Premium Member over 13 years ago
ButMad — Maybe, if he’s in an open relationship, and dates both sexes, or even if he’s cheating, but his girlfriend knows he has previously dated men. But IF he’s flat-out lying to her about his sexuality (and we don’t know that he is,) then in my book he’s a closeted gay man.
3hourtour Premium Member over 13 years ago
….if Ted is bisexual in in an open relationship,I have no problem with this…but being closeted is no excuse to cheat on your spouse or to date someone in a relationship…I know that in the age of bathhouses this seems terribly naive …but shouldn’t be….
imbaldeagle over 13 years ago
So why did Ted bring his girlfriend along – regardless of who he was meeting? Wouldn’t it still be cheating? Or maybe 3 ISN’T a crowd.
Evirtinkelbell over 13 years ago
Ted is on the down low.