I learned 3+ decades ago not to fall in that trap. Better to own it, and talk about your feelings as soon as possible. Say, “Ok, you may think I’m pretending or acting stupid, or whatever, but I can’t help how your words make me feel.”
Appear vulnerable, if you have to act, act sincere, and let her maternal instinct take it from there. (Sexist, I know, but you got to do what you got to do. Married 32 years today, and a person picks up a few things.)
Brutus has many characteristics and his shortcomings (for example, choosing wives). However, calling him Stupid is DEFINITELY assuming facts not in evidence…..
One thing about the cartoon I dislike; how Brutus is treated with so much disrespect. I understand because he’s the “Born Loser”; I still dislike it, though. Especially when Brutus is supporting the wench.
Renatus Profuturus Frigeridus Premium Member about 4 years ago
There is something demonic about the way Gladys turns words in her favor .
Baarorso about 4 years ago
Gladys, when DON’T you hurt Brutus’ feelings????
Ahuehuete about 4 years ago
Another Red Pill day on the Born Loser
charliefarmrhere about 4 years ago
He should have added to the I am not acting: “& I am not stupid either”.
GROG Premium Member about 4 years ago
You put your foot in it that time…but it’s not the first time, nor the last.
LookingGlass Premium Member about 4 years ago
Another example of engaging mouth before your brain is in gear!!
;-^)
Jeff0811 about 4 years ago
I learned 3+ decades ago not to fall in that trap. Better to own it, and talk about your feelings as soon as possible. Say, “Ok, you may think I’m pretending or acting stupid, or whatever, but I can’t help how your words make me feel.”
Appear vulnerable, if you have to act, act sincere, and let her maternal instinct take it from there. (Sexist, I know, but you got to do what you got to do. Married 32 years today, and a person picks up a few things.)
David in Webb Premium Member about 4 years ago
Catcha’
Michael G. about 4 years ago
The defense rests …
KEA about 4 years ago
oops
raybarb44 about 4 years ago
Brutus has many characteristics and his shortcomings (for example, choosing wives). However, calling him Stupid is DEFINITELY assuming facts not in evidence…..
MuddyUSA Premium Member about 4 years ago
“Gotcha!!”
ChessPirate about 4 years ago
This funny comic reminds me of that classic Laurel and Hardy scene from “Helpmates”:
Stan: “If I had any sense, I’d walk out on you!”
Ollie: “Well, it’s a good thing you haven’t any sense!”
Stan: “It certainly is!”
Followed by Stan trying to work out if he’s been insulted or not. (for several minutes…) ㋡
cuzinron47 about 4 years ago
At least it dawned on him that he insulted himself, there’s some hope for him.
Buckeye67 about 4 years ago
Once again Brutus learns (strike learns) is made aware that speaking before thinking is a losing proposition.
heathcliff2 about 4 years ago
She reads too much.
heathcliff2 about 4 years ago
Experience observing her mother is also possibly not the best influence.
princesshickory Premium Member about 4 years ago
One thing about the cartoon I dislike; how Brutus is treated with so much disrespect. I understand because he’s the “Born Loser”; I still dislike it, though. Especially when Brutus is supporting the wench.