I hate that this is true. However, the zing of resentment is sometimes a good thing, because sometimes it’s even stronger than the worry emotions. When 5hat realization pops in my head, I feel a little thankful at the person who just made me mad.
Actually, I find that worrying can help me chart multiple flowpath options through the “stuff”, depending on what actually happens. So I’m left better prepared, if at the cost of the angst.
ikini Premium Member over 2 years ago
Yeah. Thanks for the advice. If I could stop, I WOULD!
ncrist over 2 years ago
I hate that this is true. However, the zing of resentment is sometimes a good thing, because sometimes it’s even stronger than the worry emotions. When 5hat realization pops in my head, I feel a little thankful at the person who just made me mad.
fuzzybritches over 2 years ago
Actually, I find that worrying can help me chart multiple flowpath options through the “stuff”, depending on what actually happens. So I’m left better prepared, if at the cost of the angst.
Buoy over 2 years ago
Darn spider web-like thoughts, so sticky and hard to get off.