The day after our wedding when we had the reception at my new in-laws’ house. Husband and FIL are in the kitchen doing dishes. FIL tells my husband: This is my best advice. It’s always the husband’s fault. Husband: What’s my fault. FIL: What is not important. It’s always your fault. From my perspective, it’s been difficult. How can you have a good fight, if one of you always says, “you’re right, it’s all my fault”?
Cause a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do, and I’m going to do what you tell me to, dear, because I’m top dog around here, but I’ve been neutered – from the man song
We always do what he wants to do. Then later he says to me “You were right – again. We shouldn’t have done that.” So even if I am right 50% of the time, it does not matter we always do what he wants. It is his parents we lived near – not mine – nor I did want to live near either set of parents.
that’s the best way to get a divorce. Because at some point, the husband is going to say he’s right and stand his ground. If the wife is so conditioned to always being right, she’ll be angry and feel betrayed. And neither will be wrong.
Templo S.U.D. about 2 years ago
uh… okay
suv2000 about 2 years ago
That is pretty much what women believe
sergioandrade Premium Member about 2 years ago
Also if you’re a husband and for some reason you are right, apologize immediately.
jaydogg187 about 2 years ago
Or as Jef Foxworthy put it: “If she ain’t happy, you ain’t happy.”
Catherine Spencer-Mills Premium Member about 2 years ago
The day after our wedding when we had the reception at my new in-laws’ house. Husband and FIL are in the kitchen doing dishes. FIL tells my husband: This is my best advice. It’s always the husband’s fault. Husband: What’s my fault. FIL: What is not important. It’s always your fault. From my perspective, it’s been difficult. How can you have a good fight, if one of you always says, “you’re right, it’s all my fault”?
Jacob Mattingly about 2 years ago
… Shockingly Sexist.
Doug K about 2 years ago
Appropriate responses include: “Yes, dear.” “Of course, dear.” and “What ever you want, dear.”
[Traveler] Premium Member about 2 years ago
Cause a man’s gotta do what a man’s gotta do, and I’m going to do what you tell me to, dear, because I’m top dog around here, but I’ve been neutered – from the man song
ajr58(1) about 2 years ago
My first wife’s notion of compromise: do it her way.
The Orange Mailman about 2 years ago
Unmarried people always have such helpful advice for married couples.
RitaGB about 2 years ago
I’m so tired of that sexist trope.
goboboyd about 2 years ago
He will never give up the remote… but you can still change the channel with the app on your phone. (Just sneak it in when he’s ‘resting his eyes’. )
eced52 about 2 years ago
Exactly right Tia
GaryCooper about 2 years ago
Tia Carmen and my wife have the same beliefs about marriage.
raybarb44 about 2 years ago
Especially when she’s wrong. Sooner a guy learns it the better……
DaBump Premium Member about 2 years ago
(sigh) as an old bachelor, I say to you married men, if that’s what it takes…
mafastore about 2 years ago
We always do what he wants to do. Then later he says to me “You were right – again. We shouldn’t have done that.” So even if I am right 50% of the time, it does not matter we always do what he wants. It is his parents we lived near – not mine – nor I did want to live near either set of parents.
Timothy Madigan Premium Member about 2 years ago
that’s the best way to get a divorce. Because at some point, the husband is going to say he’s right and stand his ground. If the wife is so conditioned to always being right, she’ll be angry and feel betrayed. And neither will be wrong.