We were told that when we were adults we could do whatever we wanted. Balderdash! You still have to obey authority (job, police, laws) and you still have to give yourself a bedtime if you’re going to get enough rest to get up and go to work. You can’t buy anything you want because you don’t have enough money. You have more autonomy about what to eat (you don’t have to eat what Mom fixes or do without like when you were a kid) but as you age you can’t eat like you did when you were a kid. And you have all those responsibilities!. There are some good things, I can decide what to wear, how to wear my hair, etc., mommy doesn’t control that anymore but at least then I didn’t have to worry about paying the bills.
Well Aunty, If you don’t have Adult understanding and Adult expectations of what being an Adult it, then of course, you going to fail at being an Adult.
The irony.. As kids, we haven’t been around long enough to be affective adults. As adults, we’ve been around too long to ever be an amazed kid again. Kinda sad!
The difference between being a child and being an adult is not a matter of age. The real difference is an adult does what they have to do, regardless of how dirty, painful, or difficult, while a child will strenuously seek escape. The world has a disappointing number of full grown children.
silberdistel over 1 year ago
(Has she got a folding ladder in her trolley?)
Yes, my parents told me lots of times. But I refused to believe them. Until live taught me otherwise. ;-)
seanfear over 1 year ago
such conclusions always come late – like all the rest of my experiences
TStyle78 over 1 year ago
When you are a kid you dream of being an adult. When you are an adult, you dream of being a kid again.
The Reader Premium Member over 1 year ago
Maybe you’re doing it wrong.
Macushlalondra over 1 year ago
We were told that when we were adults we could do whatever we wanted. Balderdash! You still have to obey authority (job, police, laws) and you still have to give yourself a bedtime if you’re going to get enough rest to get up and go to work. You can’t buy anything you want because you don’t have enough money. You have more autonomy about what to eat (you don’t have to eat what Mom fixes or do without like when you were a kid) but as you age you can’t eat like you did when you were a kid. And you have all those responsibilities!. There are some good things, I can decide what to wear, how to wear my hair, etc., mommy doesn’t control that anymore but at least then I didn’t have to worry about paying the bills.
FreyjaRN Premium Member over 1 year ago
If they did, we would not have believed them.
dflak over 1 year ago
In many ways I am still a three-year old. I try to find new wonders in the world every day.
There are some things we are expected to do as adults. The challenge is to do them in a fun way.
Just-me over 1 year ago
My parents did warn me, I just didn’t understand what they were telling me.
Daltongang Premium Member over 1 year ago
Well Aunty, If you don’t have Adult understanding and Adult expectations of what being an Adult it, then of course, you going to fail at being an Adult.
ladykat over 1 year ago
You got that one right, Auntie!
CorkLock over 1 year ago
Being an adult means maturity and living as such. Apostle Paul – when I became a man I put away childish things.
assrdood over 1 year ago
Well, to state the obvious, we don’t really have a choice in the “growing up” matter….the physical part anyway.
pheets over 1 year ago
The irony.. As kids, we haven’t been around long enough to be affective adults. As adults, we’ve been around too long to ever be an amazed kid again. Kinda sad!
rilla7979 over 1 year ago
We were warned. We just didn’t listen.
Holden Awn over 1 year ago
The difference between being a child and being an adult is not a matter of age. The real difference is an adult does what they have to do, regardless of how dirty, painful, or difficult, while a child will strenuously seek escape. The world has a disappointing number of full grown children.
paranormal over 1 year ago
When we were kids we thought it would be great to be an adult, but it’s really disappointing…
cuzinron47 over 1 year ago
I do what I want to do, with certain physical limitation.
andersjg Premium Member over 1 year ago
I would like to be 10 again for one summer day on my grandparents farm.
rbullfogg over 1 year ago
Hence, the way people are feeling! The mental stability of the human race is in question! I wonder if it’s COVID vaccine related!