My son always went with the beat of a different drum, same with his childhood friends. Bullies in school learned to leave him alone, a few years of instilling confidence in many forms of the Martial Arts was worth the expense. Today he is a Brown Belt in BJJ and MMA.
Agree! My youngest, who’s now 35, was a black belt (child version) in Korean Taekwondo by the time he was 9. It took much more serious training to do that as an adult.. but he had lots of friends growing up. He did not pursue the training as an adult due to health issues. (type 1 diabetes and multiple sclerosis.)
FreihEitner Premium Member 7 months ago
Wholeheartedly agree.
Wilde Bill 7 months ago
As if he really has a choice.
The dude from FL Premium Member 7 months ago
He’ll be getting some black eyes
Doctor Toon 7 months ago
I raised my son to be himself and not worry about what people think
I did a great job, he is a first class oddball just like his father
My granddaughter is turning out pretty quirky too
Smeagol 7 months ago
My son always went with the beat of a different drum, same with his childhood friends. Bullies in school learned to leave him alone, a few years of instilling confidence in many forms of the Martial Arts was worth the expense. Today he is a Brown Belt in BJJ and MMA.
sbenton7684 7 months ago
Agree! My youngest, who’s now 35, was a black belt (child version) in Korean Taekwondo by the time he was 9. It took much more serious training to do that as an adult.. but he had lots of friends growing up. He did not pursue the training as an adult due to health issues. (type 1 diabetes and multiple sclerosis.)
Malph 7 months ago
More poor parenting advice.
Brass Orchid Premium Member 7 months ago
Unless you know you CAN land safely when you go off the cliff because everybody else is.
boardgamenerd2026 Premium Member 7 months ago
Why don’t people realize how dumb they sound when they say that?
grocks 7 months ago
Oh, Mom, better phrasing next time.
jbarnes 7 months ago
Making it a binary choice (either cool and popular or be yourself) is going to make most kids pick the first option.
Teto85 Premium Member 7 months ago
Always be yourself. Unless you can be Batman. Always be Batman.
Grumpy Old Guy 7 months ago
When the enticement of Participation Trophies no longer works…..
pripley 7 months ago
Well… she’s not wrong.
markkahler52 7 months ago
You’ll be more yourself once popular and cool
markkahler52 7 months ago
Run for office, immediately, also!
FireAnt_Hater 7 months ago
My mom taught me to laugh at myself. Valuable advice…
mpolo11 Premium Member 7 months ago
“You would know, Mom”
locake 7 months ago
“Same to you Mom”
xaingo 7 months ago
Your tactics aren’t working Mom, I still have more followers than you. The real me is demographic poison.
eddi-TBH 7 months ago
I was never into cool and popular. I preferred educated.
comixbomix 7 months ago
Leading by example
aussie399 Premium Member 4 months ago
Why is she shouting?