This too shall pass. You need to get your mind off of being sad ~ do something different. Maybe you and Dan need to go visit Mom & Dad. Or go off on a romantic weekend. I know I’m making it sound easy ~ but, I know how hard it is.
Is this from four years ago during covid? Or is something going on now? I hope whatever it is you can work through it. Maybe get out of the house and get some fresh air. That helps my wife and I some, just getting away. Or a trip to DQ, or a kitten.
This week was the year anniversary of my sister’s memorial…I have felt choked with sadness, and everything – even a trip today to see friends haven’t seen in years – feels totally overwhelming and scary. But even without the loss there’s often free-floating sadness… I feel you – you are not alone.
Sadness comes to us, unbidden, a sombre beast, then it lies to us, saying it is a permanent state of being. Lots of care sent your way from our family.
As has already been said above, we’re all with you in our hearts, and minds as we read this. I join you in wishing for more joy in your life, be it a baby, either yours or someone else’s who couldn’t take care of it or give it the love it would receive from you, Dan and the kitties. I know your’re a strong lady and you will persevere no matter what comes your way.
That happens to me often. The brain is an organ just like the heart, liver, stomach and skin are. We don’t blame the individual when that happens the way we often put the blame on depression on the person suffering from it.
Have a cuppa Tulsi tea or take the supplement- Holy Basil, don’t ask me why they have different names.
Exercise, it really does help.
Eat one chopped raw meal a day-or a week, get a body happy-it’s a thing! It really is. Co regulate, talk to someone trustworthy who understands, like God
Read Boundaries, it helped me! Most of this stuff did.
Turn your eyes upon Jesus, Look full in his wonderful face, and the things of Earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His Glory and Grace ♪♫
Don’t forget that relationship with Him. Ask for His guidance. Keep communicating. Recite the 23rd Psalm. It makes me feel calm. Count your blessings. Give thanks in all circumstances. Find someone you can help.
baraktorvan about 2 months ago
Well my dear one, you can always count on us to make you happy again! Step outside for a moment and tell us what you see!
DirkTheDaring Premium Member about 2 months ago
You make us happy, maybe that’ll help.
parkedKia6015 about 2 months ago
Not a doctor, but a patient. Changing meds helped me. And God is listening.
blunebottle about 2 months ago
Thank you that you are real with us.
Brass Orchid Premium Member about 2 months ago
Have you tried not paying attention?
Calvin Nelson Nelson Premium Member about 2 months ago
Bravo! For putting yourself out there Amanda.Things will turn around and yo7 can take some small comfort that we all feel ya.
Rick Parkhurst Premium Member about 2 months ago
Between you and me, I think you got this! Don’t worry, at least half of us will always have faith in you!
RonnieAThompson Premium Member about 2 months ago
We’re here for you Amanda. We love you. Sending hugs and prayers.
Rcwhiting about 2 months ago
Sounds like depression. Three options. Therapy, pharmaceuticals and exercise. Best result is all three taken together.
Perkycat about 2 months ago
This too shall pass. You need to get your mind off of being sad ~ do something different. Maybe you and Dan need to go visit Mom & Dad. Or go off on a romantic weekend. I know I’m making it sound easy ~ but, I know how hard it is.
Mr. Impatient about 2 months ago
Is this from four years ago during covid? Or is something going on now? I hope whatever it is you can work through it. Maybe get out of the house and get some fresh air. That helps my wife and I some, just getting away. Or a trip to DQ, or a kitten.
Comicsandcookies about 2 months ago
This week was the year anniversary of my sister’s memorial…I have felt choked with sadness, and everything – even a trip today to see friends haven’t seen in years – feels totally overwhelming and scary. But even without the loss there’s often free-floating sadness… I feel you – you are not alone.
Mary Ellen about 2 months ago
Me too. Sending hugs.
itsacatsworld Premium Member about 2 months ago
Sadness comes to us, unbidden, a sombre beast, then it lies to us, saying it is a permanent state of being. Lots of care sent your way from our family.
Elizabeth.Pearl_5511 Premium Member about 2 months ago
From South Dakota to North Dakota……Amanda, we love you <3
BJIllistrated Premium Member about 2 months ago
As has already been said above, we’re all with you in our hearts, and minds as we read this. I join you in wishing for more joy in your life, be it a baby, either yours or someone else’s who couldn’t take care of it or give it the love it would receive from you, Dan and the kitties. I know your’re a strong lady and you will persevere no matter what comes your way.
splinterexpert about 2 months ago
Hagen Daaz
w*st Premium Member about 2 months ago
Glad you’re doctoring and talking about it.
Judeeye Premium Member about 2 months ago
Sending hugs. Life is often a painful journey. I maintain some of my sanity by reading comics. Thanks for your part in helping me deal with life.❤️
greenlynn Premium Member about 2 months ago
That happens to me often. The brain is an organ just like the heart, liver, stomach and skin are. We don’t blame the individual when that happens the way we often put the blame on depression on the person suffering from it.
PaintTheDust about 2 months ago
I ask the same question a lot…
First – it is bio-psycho-social, so “it’s complicated”.
Two, it doesn’t matter that much – you are still you.
tammyspeakslife Premium Member about 2 months ago
Stimulate your vagus nerve, gargle, sing.
Have a cuppa Tulsi tea or take the supplement- Holy Basil, don’t ask me why they have different names.
Exercise, it really does help.Eat one chopped raw meal a day-or a week, get a body happy-it’s a thing! It really is. Co regulate, talk to someone trustworthy who understands, like God
Read Boundaries, it helped me! Most of this stuff did.Turn your eyes upon Jesus, Look full in his wonderful face, and the things of Earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His Glory and Grace ♪♫
Janet Davis Premium Member about 2 months ago
Don’t forget that relationship with Him. Ask for His guidance. Keep communicating. Recite the 23rd Psalm. It makes me feel calm. Count your blessings. Give thanks in all circumstances. Find someone you can help.