Because you are buying into your wife’s perspective. Next time you have an argument, begin every sentence with the phrase…“Look, I’m not the bad guy here…”. For example, “Look, I’m not the bad guy here… we’re not going to your mother’s for Christmas. Look, I’m not the bad guy here, No, you’re an idiot.”
Because you are buying into your wife’s perspective. Next time you have an argument, begin every sentence with the phrase…“Look, I’m not the bad guy here…”. For example, “Look, I’m not the bad guy here… we’re not going to your mother’s for Christmas. Look, I’m not the bad guy here, No, you’re an idiot.”
See how well that works?