Umm. no. So tired of this old sexist canard. Think of it this way, what if Elly was in his shop, and she was “helping?” So she puts the sockets back in the chest wrong, all the tools in the wrong the drawers, tried to use a wood blade to cut a piece of metal, didn’t wipe up the oil that spilled, and then tried to use a tack cloth, and tried to use finishing nails to fasten a miter? John would be just as “frustrated” The truth is, they are married, John is a capable adult, who lives in that kitchen every day, so there is no reason he should not ask and learn how Elly has set up her “shop” so it works best for her.
Umm. no. So tired of this old sexist canard. Think of it this way, what if Elly was in his shop, and she was “helping?” So she puts the sockets back in the chest wrong, all the tools in the wrong the drawers, tried to use a wood blade to cut a piece of metal, didn’t wipe up the oil that spilled, and then tried to use a tack cloth, and tried to use finishing nails to fasten a miter? John would be just as “frustrated” The truth is, they are married, John is a capable adult, who lives in that kitchen every day, so there is no reason he should not ask and learn how Elly has set up her “shop” so it works best for her.