The key point in Tif’s rant is her dad GAVE her a unlimited credit card and never griped about how much money Tif spent. (Granted, Tif is spoiled by that.) No doubt, Tom does not care now. It is Ann that “cares.” Ann is making a power play to control Tif by controlling Tif’s money. Tif cannot easily get out of Ann’s control without, getting control of HER money. Tif’s first move should be to max out the card she has as a Cash Advance; then pay cash for everything, so Ann cannot see where Tif spends money. Second move, Tif should get a job so she has a second cash stream Ann does not control. Then, she can work on how to get Tom out of Ann’s clutches. Ann, les’ mother, must be in her middle 40s, a bit long in the tooth for a Trophy Wife. (A nice twist would be the onset of menopause and sex goes away, so Tom dumps her for a nubile, fecond replacement.)
The key point in Tif’s rant is her dad GAVE her a unlimited credit card and never griped about how much money Tif spent. (Granted, Tif is spoiled by that.) No doubt, Tom does not care now. It is Ann that “cares.” Ann is making a power play to control Tif by controlling Tif’s money. Tif cannot easily get out of Ann’s control without, getting control of HER money. Tif’s first move should be to max out the card she has as a Cash Advance; then pay cash for everything, so Ann cannot see where Tif spends money. Second move, Tif should get a job so she has a second cash stream Ann does not control. Then, she can work on how to get Tom out of Ann’s clutches. Ann, les’ mother, must be in her middle 40s, a bit long in the tooth for a Trophy Wife. (A nice twist would be the onset of menopause and sex goes away, so Tom dumps her for a nubile, fecond replacement.)