I can’t really understand your first two paragraphs…. but as for “How are straight people with gay relatives and friends supposed to talk about gay culture with gays?”
How about talking to them the same way you talk to anybody else, without trying to focus special attention on the fact that they’re gay?And …um…. maybe don’t tell them “Don’t be so “Gay”,” OK?
BJRobin….
I can’t really understand your first two paragraphs…. but as for “How are straight people with gay relatives and friends supposed to talk about gay culture with gays?”
How about talking to them the same way you talk to anybody else, without trying to focus special attention on the fact that they’re gay?And …um…. maybe don’t tell them “Don’t be so “Gay”,” OK?