Brad probably couldn’t care less what kind of wedding they have as long as Toni’s happy with it. He’s assuming she wants the big wedding and is trying to be helpful. Typical male, he’s gone into problem-solving mode instead of asking her how she feels about it.
Yes Gunther, listen to the people here who want you to take the nice safe option and live your life according to other people’s expectations.
Be warned though: when you’re an old man you won’t be thinking how wonderful it was that you did the safe thing, you’ll be wondering what could have happened if you’d been bold and taken a chance and a trip to Peru.
I see the donkey was the smart one of the pair.