After I started my current job, I had a woman at work say to me, you are well-groomed, smart, funny, dress stylishly and clearly go to the gym regularly…you must be gay. I actually am gay and didn’t like the presumption of this woman. But it made me think that straight guys need to up their game. If women think a guy with those characteristics is some kind of straight unicorn or “must really be gay”, it seems to me like straight guys must not really be trying.
After I started my current job, I had a woman at work say to me, you are well-groomed, smart, funny, dress stylishly and clearly go to the gym regularly…you must be gay. I actually am gay and didn’t like the presumption of this woman. But it made me think that straight guys need to up their game. If women think a guy with those characteristics is some kind of straight unicorn or “must really be gay”, it seems to me like straight guys must not really be trying.