I feel I need to clarify a few things. Night before last, roommate fell asleep and I had nurse turn off TV. Last night she was still awake. No , there is no “quiet time”. Wish there was. She is two feet away and it is hard for me to explain these things in a phone call where she can hear. No matter what I feel, I was raised not to be rude and embarrass someone. I prefer emails anyway. I can answer them at my convenience and if I send one I am not interrupting someone else’s day. They can answer at their convenience. I am tired, working on only a couple of hours sleep. I am still trying to heal and being able to interact when I feel like it or have the time to really give someone my attention makes me happier. I have appreciated and enjoyed the calls I have gotten, but we are all from that generation where we will take a call just to keep from being rude. I hope I have not hurt anyone or made you think a have not loved getting to know some of you. Please know, I will keep in touch with those the have asked, but it will be with emails. That way I can concentrate on spending my time getting better and when I feel like it give each and every one of you the time you deserve, but yes, on my terms. I hope that isn’t terribly selfish of me. I have friends coming by t and I hope they understand that I am still recovering from major surgery and do not need a three hour visit. It wears me out and I am really hoping for a nap today. I will have PT at least once today and that wears me out also. I have not been bright eyed and bushy tailed for a long time and it still will not happen over night. I am so glad to have the Ten Cats community on my side. I hope you all understand, I am sure you do or you would not be a member of the TC community.Wish me luck on the nap. :-)
I feel I need to clarify a few things. Night before last, roommate fell asleep and I had nurse turn off TV. Last night she was still awake. No , there is no “quiet time”. Wish there was. She is two feet away and it is hard for me to explain these things in a phone call where she can hear. No matter what I feel, I was raised not to be rude and embarrass someone. I prefer emails anyway. I can answer them at my convenience and if I send one I am not interrupting someone else’s day. They can answer at their convenience. I am tired, working on only a couple of hours sleep. I am still trying to heal and being able to interact when I feel like it or have the time to really give someone my attention makes me happier. I have appreciated and enjoyed the calls I have gotten, but we are all from that generation where we will take a call just to keep from being rude. I hope I have not hurt anyone or made you think a have not loved getting to know some of you. Please know, I will keep in touch with those the have asked, but it will be with emails. That way I can concentrate on spending my time getting better and when I feel like it give each and every one of you the time you deserve, but yes, on my terms. I hope that isn’t terribly selfish of me. I have friends coming by t and I hope they understand that I am still recovering from major surgery and do not need a three hour visit. It wears me out and I am really hoping for a nap today. I will have PT at least once today and that wears me out also. I have not been bright eyed and bushy tailed for a long time and it still will not happen over night. I am so glad to have the Ten Cats community on my side. I hope you all understand, I am sure you do or you would not be a member of the TC community.Wish me luck on the nap. :-)