ElDo, you might as well give it up.
Elderberries has a huge following and BL doesn’t.
Telling any man to ditch his paying job and devote all his time to a sideline, because you think his career is boring and his sideline is cool, just isn’t going to cut it unless you pay his bills.
I like BL better myself, but a waste of breath is a waste of breath (and saying it daily is not that entertaining for your readers, either).
ElDo, you might as well give it up. Elderberries has a huge following and BL doesn’t. Telling any man to ditch his paying job and devote all his time to a sideline, because you think his career is boring and his sideline is cool, just isn’t going to cut it unless you pay his bills. I like BL better myself, but a waste of breath is a waste of breath (and saying it daily is not that entertaining for your readers, either).