It’s okay to feel too much, son.Just don’t take it personally.It is only a mechanical universe, full of things.We are only shadows that drift through, attached to bags of meat.
You want feelings? Don’t miss “Inside Out.” We saw it last night, and it’s charming and relevant. I’ve always been in the “feeling nothing is better than hurting” camp, but I realized some time ago that I was cheating myself out of a lot of life’s experiences. It’s still hard -vary hard – but I’ll keep working at it.
“Traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies: The past is alive in the form of gnawing interior discomfort. Their bodies are constantly bombarded by visceral warning signs, and, in an attempt to control these processes, they often become expert at ignoring their gut feelings and in numbing awareness of what is played out inside. They learn to hide from themselves.” (p.97)” ― Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Meh~tdology, fka Pepelaputr over 9 years ago
Being soulless means never having to say you’re sorry.
*Hot Rod* over 9 years ago
Take a deep breath in, hold it, and feel motivation. Assertive as apposed to passive and aggressive.
*Hot Rod* over 9 years ago
German roots = high pain threshold.
Sisyphos over 9 years ago
Happy Father’s Day, I guess.Feeling is slowly returning….
Arianne over 9 years ago
Just try weeping openly and see how many girls you get. It’s absolutely not fair, but there it is. Double standards work both ways.
Brass Orchid Premium Member over 9 years ago
It’s okay to feel too much, son.Just don’t take it personally.It is only a mechanical universe, full of things.We are only shadows that drift through, attached to bags of meat.
The Old Wolf over 9 years ago
You want feelings? Don’t miss “Inside Out.” We saw it last night, and it’s charming and relevant. I’ve always been in the “feeling nothing is better than hurting” camp, but I realized some time ago that I was cheating myself out of a lot of life’s experiences. It’s still hard -vary hard – but I’ll keep working at it.
Brass Orchid Premium Member over 9 years ago
Feelings are only a type of awareness.Awareness is the currency of reality.Would no currency be better than too much currency?
knock-kneed bedwetter over 9 years ago
“Traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies: The past is alive in the form of gnawing interior discomfort. Their bodies are constantly bombarded by visceral warning signs, and, in an attempt to control these processes, they often become expert at ignoring their gut feelings and in numbing awareness of what is played out inside. They learn to hide from themselves.” (p.97)” ― Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Rotifer FREE BEER & BATH MATS ON FEB. 31st Thalweg Premium Member over 9 years ago
Elektra King’s son visits daddy in prison (alternate ending to The World Is Not Enough).
judyparka over 9 years ago
If you put a sponge on your head it conducts electricity better. Wait. Isn’t that advice for an electric chair?
wilburgarrod over 9 years ago
daddy-daddy the frogs are jumping and swimming around.
Jkiss over 9 years ago
But if you can’t touch me, I can’t touch you. Took me a long time to figure that one out, but I’m feeling much better now.