Young women tend to look at future mates the way a real estate investor looks at farmland; not worth much now, what can I do with it? Men tend to look at future mates thinking, “I am going to get lucky every night for the rest of life.” Both will be disappointed most of the time.
That is the problem with women: They are of the opinion that they HAVE to change a man. Why can’t a woman change to accept a man and make only MINOR (and I STRESS minor) alterations to make him better than what he is.
A defined syndrome found in a lot of women, so common it was used in a Seinfeld episode, the women who are only attracted to men who they know will be bad for them. The man who would be a loving partner for life…? These women are not attracted to them at all.
Girl meets boy they fall in love /She says he’s everything she’s dreamed of /But when they get married before he’s aware /She changes his habits the way he combs his hair /She changes him to someone he’s never been /And then complains he’s not like other men /Now really I find this most illogical
Three early 19th century authors had different ideas on how a woman could change a manJane Austin: I can make him betterCharlotte Bronte: I can make him worseMary Shelley Wollenscroft: I can make him
dadthedawg Premium Member over 1 year ago
She wears the pants in that pair…..
C over 1 year ago
Death by a thousand concessions
Superfrog over 1 year ago
We all have potential.
Uncle Kenny over 1 year ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjXOO81_Cdc&ab_channel=TheOldGlobe
littlejohn Premium Member over 1 year ago
But will you be the girly girl for him?
LeftCoastKen Premium Member over 1 year ago
Women marry men hoping they’ll change but they never do. Men marry women hoping they won’t change but they always do.
Dean over 1 year ago
That Depends™.
preacherman Premium Member over 1 year ago
Unless she brings some really great qualities herself to the table, this relationship is doomed.
saylorgirl over 1 year ago
Men never change nor do women.
hfergus Premium Member over 1 year ago
I’ve heard the following: Men want a woman who won’t change. Women want a man who will change.
Doug K over 1 year ago
Does he know about this yet?
ladykat over 1 year ago
I never saw any need to change my late husband.
Free or Not? Premium Member over 1 year ago
Women look at their man and say “He will change”.Men look at their women and say “She will never change”.
Both are usually disappointed.
david_42 over 1 year ago
My wife says for someone who accepts her as she is I changed her more than anyone else in her life.
tpcox928 over 1 year ago
Young women tend to look at future mates the way a real estate investor looks at farmland; not worth much now, what can I do with it? Men tend to look at future mates thinking, “I am going to get lucky every night for the rest of life.” Both will be disappointed most of the time.
'IndyMan' over 1 year ago
That is the problem with women: They are of the opinion that they HAVE to change a man. Why can’t a woman change to accept a man and make only MINOR (and I STRESS minor) alterations to make him better than what he is.
asmbeers over 1 year ago
A defined syndrome found in a lot of women, so common it was used in a Seinfeld episode, the women who are only attracted to men who they know will be bad for them. The man who would be a loving partner for life…? These women are not attracted to them at all.
rickmac1937 Premium Member over 1 year ago
Love green it’s your color, also nice rack
BearsDown Premium Member over 1 year ago
People are NOT fixer-uppers!
rshive over 1 year ago
He’s under construction.
jslabotnik over 1 year ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5O7L9oTsxk
Girl meets boy they fall in love /She says he’s everything she’s dreamed of /But when they get married before he’s aware /She changes his habits the way he combs his hair /She changes him to someone he’s never been /And then complains he’s not like other men /Now really I find this most illogical
mistercatworks over 1 year ago
I use to date women for their potential. It took a relatively long time to discover that everybody has “potential”, by definition.
The Brooklyn Accent Premium Member over 1 year ago
It’s only fair for a woman to expect a man to change. He should change his underwear occasionally, at least.
raybarb44 over 1 year ago
Good luck…..
T... over 1 year ago
If you try to change him, he may be loose change, live with it…
comicalUser over 1 year ago
Forever shall I remain single. Forever, shall I remain.
Bill The Nuke over 1 year ago
Sounds like my daughter.
jmcenanly over 1 year ago
Three early 19th century authors had different ideas on how a woman could change a manJane Austin: I can make him betterCharlotte Bronte: I can make him worseMary Shelley Wollenscroft: I can make him
gopher gofer over 1 year ago
the women i dated kept hoping (praying?) that i’d change for the better. their disappointment was palpable…
eddi-TBH over 1 year ago
The last bit of domestication.
C over 1 year ago
The gulf between what women feel they want and what they’re actually attracted to. So the stereotypical fantasy that they can change a guy.
I don’t have to admit failure if I manage to change him!
DaBump Premium Member over 1 year ago
oh no