Start assigning chores, Elly. Both John and Elizabeth should be helping out and even little April can be learning how to make her bed and pick up her toys.
From Lynn’s Comments: There is some satisfaction in seeing my daughter doing and saying these exact same things; yet another joy of having grandchildren.
My wife managed a successful career and managed and kept the home full time with no complaint while I was a road warrior for my company. In retirement I am trying to even up the score a little.
I was raised by a SAHM and my dad. I had three brothers and we all shared in helping out around the house both indoors and outdoors. Both my mom and dad cooked. It was good training for all of us. My wife along with all my sister-in-law’s all have complimented my parents for raising men who willingly share all the household responsibilities.
I remember when I was a preteen, besides washing dishes, I did make up my own bed and keep my bedroom straight because I didn’t want anybody “messing around” in MY ROOM.
I must be getting old. I remember that my brothers and I had chores to help our SAHM, but the only one I really remember is doing the dishes. Perhaps that’s because it was the only chore that involved all three of us – one to wash, one to rinse and one to dry. We rotated those positions every week and Mom had to keep a calendar for it because we all wanted to be the “rinser”, the easiest of the three jobs. Before she started keeping that calendar, we argued about it a lot.
snsurone76 9 months ago
And every day she b!tches about it, but does nothing to change the situation!!
Surprising how the rest of the family can stand her “martyrdom” and career as a drama queen!!
testdma 9 months ago
So, Elizabeth … get the heck in there and help her.
Farside99 9 months ago
Elizabeth’s turn will come soon enough.
Macushlalondra 9 months ago
Start assigning chores, Elly. Both John and Elizabeth should be helping out and even little April can be learning how to make her bed and pick up her toys.
Gizmo Cat 9 months ago
From Lynn’s Comments: There is some satisfaction in seeing my daughter doing and saying these exact same things; yet another joy of having grandchildren.
French Persons Premium Member 9 months ago
Long past time to start assigning chores..
M209T 9 months ago
Time for a vacation!!
SquidGamerGal 9 months ago
Why aren’t YOU cleaning up YOUR mess?
one more ole man 9 months ago
My wife managed a successful career and managed and kept the home full time with no complaint while I was a road warrior for my company. In retirement I am trying to even up the score a little.
chks 9 months ago
I was raised by a SAHM and my dad. I had three brothers and we all shared in helping out around the house both indoors and outdoors. Both my mom and dad cooked. It was good training for all of us. My wife along with all my sister-in-law’s all have complimented my parents for raising men who willingly share all the household responsibilities.
jango 9 months ago
You need to re-assess your coaching, Elly
Chris 9 months ago
yeah, charged with rage…
g04922 9 months ago
Meanwhile her two capable daughters just watch….
Angry Indeed Premium Member 9 months ago
I remember when I was a preteen, besides washing dishes, I did make up my own bed and keep my bedroom straight because I didn’t want anybody “messing around” in MY ROOM.
ladykat 9 months ago
Liz, you could try helping by picking up after yourself and doing the dishes.
JanLC 9 months ago
I must be getting old. I remember that my brothers and I had chores to help our SAHM, but the only one I really remember is doing the dishes. Perhaps that’s because it was the only chore that involved all three of us – one to wash, one to rinse and one to dry. We rotated those positions every week and Mom had to keep a calendar for it because we all wanted to be the “rinser”, the easiest of the three jobs. Before she started keeping that calendar, we argued about it a lot.
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] 9 months ago
And after Elly is through, two dogs with muddy feet will enter the house….
trainnut1956 9 months ago
Well, shouldn’t have said “I do” and/or have had an eternal headache. Just sayin’
r.feinberg 9 months ago
Use your words, Lynn.
sherreemac Premium Member 9 months ago
It wasn’t all that long ago that she was grieving Mike being away at college and she couldn’t clean up after him…..I guess she got over it!
Daltongang Premium Member 9 months ago
Now might not be the time for gawking girls.
kamoolah 9 months ago
All those bean meals sure gave Elly extra energy. On top of that she is getting plenty of exercise.
Unlike some fat and lazy people who end up in the waiting room, you won’t see Elly be a drain on OHIP!
rbullfogg 9 months ago
Yes, the kids should have chores and responsibilities.
CoreyTaylor1 9 months ago
It’s not so hard to flit around so rapidly when there’s no SOUL weighing you down!
viniragu 9 months ago
Parenting is preparing children for adulthood! Delegate positions of responsibility!
Willywise52 Premium Member 9 months ago
"Fully"charged…