I suppose there are different types of grudges. One type is the “active grudge”, where one complains and dwells on being wronged, simmering in the stew of resentment. The other type is the “passive grudge”, where one simply writes the other person out of their own life. I do the latter.
It’s like that old saying “A woman will forgive you but, she’ll never forget about it. Whereas a man will never forgive you but, he’ll forget about it.”
Yakety Sax about 6 hours ago
Carry too many grudges too long and you will wear yourself down.
“Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.”—-Mark Twain
Gent about 3 hours ago
Yes me can bearly remembers these days too.
Guy from southern Indiana about 2 hours ago
I suppose there are different types of grudges. One type is the “active grudge”, where one complains and dwells on being wronged, simmering in the stew of resentment. The other type is the “passive grudge”, where one simply writes the other person out of their own life. I do the latter.
some idiot from R'lyeh Premium Member about 1 hour ago
I’ve always found the grudge is remembered long after the cause was forgotten.
dsidney49 27 minutes ago
Being ADD has it’s advantages…“Dag-NAB-it!! I’m so mad I could just… OOOOooo!! Shiny thing…!!”
juicebruce 5 minutes ago
The grudge thing depends on how you were raised ;-)
oxlid1963 3 minutes ago
It’s like that old saying “A woman will forgive you but, she’ll never forget about it. Whereas a man will never forgive you but, he’ll forget about it.”