Aunty Acid by Ged Backland for December 03, 2024

A form of ‘gaslighting.’ Ulterior motive(s).

Projection and deflection.

What Freyja said.

Really? Maybe she needs to reflect on that some more.

[Perhaps she needs to look in the mirror.]

I understand them all too well. Avoid them at all costs

Some people rather have a grievance than a solution.

They enjoy playing the role of victim.

Deja Vu Auntie?

Don’t even try, walk out of their lives. Disappear and depending on how often they pulled that stunt, keep your distance, and don’t waste your time plotting any revenge or holding a grudge. As Oscar Wilde quoted, “Always forgive your enemies, for nothing annoys them so much.”

Yup. Not uncommon for each side to eventually ask “what in the he// are we fighting for?”

That is a classic narcissist behavior, It’s one of their attention mechanism’s. They will do anything for attention even if it is negative or self destructive attention. Stay away from them, even if they are family.

Gaslighter’s motto: Hurt/belittle them a lot before they hurt/call you out a little.

Neither will I, Aunty.

Dysfunctional!!!!!!!

It hurts them when you don’t react to their hurtfulness.

They’re called abusers. They have a special place in h311.

I avoid them as much as possible.