Don’t even try, walk out of their lives. Disappear and depending on how often they pulled that stunt, keep your distance, and don’t waste your time plotting any revenge or holding a grudge. As Oscar Wilde quoted, “Always forgive your enemies, for nothing annoys them so much.”
That is a classic narcissist behavior, It’s one of their attention mechanism’s. They will do anything for attention even if it is negative or self destructive attention. Stay away from them, even if they are family.
rob.home about 1 month ago
A form of ‘gaslighting.’ Ulterior motive(s).
FreyjaRN Premium Member about 1 month ago
Projection and deflection.
blunebottle about 1 month ago
What Freyja said.
Doug K about 1 month ago
Really? Maybe she needs to reflect on that some more.
[Perhaps she needs to look in the mirror.]
milnerdd2 Premium Member about 1 month ago
I understand them all too well. Avoid them at all costs
dflak about 1 month ago
Some people rather have a grievance than a solution.
They enjoy playing the role of victim.
CorkLock about 1 month ago
Deja Vu Auntie?
Strider Keninginne Premium Member about 1 month ago
Don’t even try, walk out of their lives. Disappear and depending on how often they pulled that stunt, keep your distance, and don’t waste your time plotting any revenge or holding a grudge. As Oscar Wilde quoted, “Always forgive your enemies, for nothing annoys them so much.”
jango about 1 month ago
Yup. Not uncommon for each side to eventually ask “what in the he// are we fighting for?”
nul bit Premium Member about 1 month ago
That is a classic narcissist behavior, It’s one of their attention mechanism’s. They will do anything for attention even if it is negative or self destructive attention. Stay away from them, even if they are family.
pheets about 1 month ago
Gaslighter’s motto: Hurt/belittle them a lot before they hurt/call you out a little.
ladykat about 1 month ago
Neither will I, Aunty.
rockyridge1977 about 1 month ago
Dysfunctional!!!!!!!
cuzinron47 about 1 month ago
It hurts them when you don’t react to their hurtfulness.
ThreeDogDad Premium Member about 1 month ago
They’re called abusers. They have a special place in h311.
Smeagol about 1 month ago
I avoid them as much as possible.