Every parent should have a discussion with their high school kids to discuss what he/she wants to do for a living. Then choose a higher education venue (whether college or trade school) that can best provide the skills and papers needed to make a successful start in that career.
If your kid is good with tools and wants to work on cars, then put him on track to be a top-notch mechanic. The good ones make good money. Don’t force college on someone who won’t actually make use of the classes or the degree.
Of course, Norm is Norm. If his best abilities will lead him to serving ice cream out of a truck (honest work, but probably not very lucrative unless you own the business), then you might as well forget all the higher education and teach him to drive a truck.
Get a marketable skill; get a job. College is unnecessary to success, and the way colleges are run these days, often seem to hamper success, offering a multitude of unmarketable “soft” degrees that cost more than they’ll ever pay out for the overwhelming majority of the people that get them.
You shouldn’t be going to College, unless you have a plan to do something with the education you are going to receive, which you don’t apparently. Now what?…..
College is not job-training. Nope. College is about broadening one’s outlook on life. In the process, we learn to do independent critical thinking. That’s the essence of college.
dadthedawg Premium Member over 3 years ago
An ironclad reasonable argument…..
Baarorso over 3 years ago
He’s got a point. ;D
jagedlo over 3 years ago
Do you mean the money that he’ll have to use to support you until you find out what you want to do with your life, Norm?
BearsDown Premium Member over 3 years ago
No sense throwing pearls before swine. (Sorry Norm.)
shamino over 3 years ago
Every parent should have a discussion with their high school kids to discuss what he/she wants to do for a living. Then choose a higher education venue (whether college or trade school) that can best provide the skills and papers needed to make a successful start in that career.
If your kid is good with tools and wants to work on cars, then put him on track to be a top-notch mechanic. The good ones make good money. Don’t force college on someone who won’t actually make use of the classes or the degree.
Of course, Norm is Norm. If his best abilities will lead him to serving ice cream out of a truck (honest work, but probably not very lucrative unless you own the business), then you might as well forget all the higher education and teach him to drive a truck.
ChattyFran over 3 years ago
Ok, if he’s not in college or trade school, he needs to get a job and pay market-rate rent to his parents.
BlueKnight1966 over 3 years ago
Get a marketable skill; get a job. College is unnecessary to success, and the way colleges are run these days, often seem to hamper success, offering a multitude of unmarketable “soft” degrees that cost more than they’ll ever pay out for the overwhelming majority of the people that get them.
cuzinron47 over 3 years ago
Now he’ll think about all the money wasted on tuition.
raybarb44 over 3 years ago
You shouldn’t be going to College, unless you have a plan to do something with the education you are going to receive, which you don’t apparently. Now what?…..
papjimbob over 3 years ago
College is not job-training. Nope. College is about broadening one’s outlook on life. In the process, we learn to do independent critical thinking. That’s the essence of college.
ElJorro over 3 years ago
My dad only half joked that I could have gone to trade school much cheaper and with job opportunities.
Chris over 3 years ago
you gaved up too easily.
pbr50138 over 3 years ago
Ralph has HIS priorities straight.