Fortunately I started to develop a better relationship with my Dad in the last few years of his life.
I will be honest, because of the changes in our relationship I had a bit of a hard time letting him go. I miss you Dad. Fortunately I have faith that we will see each other again.
I think Rat might’ve taken a lot after his old man, resulting in a very strained relationship. Either that, or they used to be quite close, but the bond got destroyed, resulting in a major falling out. Now that he’s gone, he probably regrets never reconciling with him.
As much as The Count dislikes getting serious on here… The Count is absolutely channeling Rat. And/Or Visa Versa. Yo, Rat, bro… The Count would bet the ranch and livestock that, just like The Count, when you do reminisce like this you realize He Was RIGHT!
That’s a little hard for me to do as my dad is buried halfway across the country in Poplar Bluff, MO. The last time I was there was when my mother and I took him there in 1994, and we went to his 50th high school reunion in his place.
The last year of my dad’s life, I got to spend just about every day hanging out with him and picking his brain about life, the wisdom he had, and his own story. That year is probably one of my most treasured memories, and the time that did the most to shape me into a decent person and a good father and husband.
sadly, i won’t get to go to heaven since i will never forgive that bas***d for what he did to my mom and our family. THANKS DAD. sorry folks. some feeling s unresolved still. obviously
Our personality and behavior is the result of genetics (the genes we inherit) and epigenetics (the environment). There is increasing scientific evidence that our free will is limited, if at all present, so let’s give each other so slack and do the best we can to get along.
He already knows; don’t worry. He was a Dad. Dads aren’t necessarily a biological father. Dads are Dads. That’s why I often refer to God the Father as my Heavenly Dad in my prayers. It’s what He is……
Make peace while you can. Had struggled with my relationships with some of my immediate family in recent years and have done my best to smooth things over on my end.
Also, my mom passed away in 2006 and I miss her all the time.
Say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear) You can listen as well as you hear It’s too late (it’s too late) when we die (it’s too late when we die) To admit we don’t see eye to eye
Not long before my father died, he called up the relatives he was close to (like me, for instance) and old friends to apologize for anything he may have done to hurt them in the course of his long life. Of course, I told him that he had nothing to apologize for, that he had been the best of fathers. And it was the truth.
It is sad when a parent dies that was emotionally abusive to the children. All children want to know their parent loves them. A parent passing when the child doesn’t know if they were loved is the worst. There is no way for them to ever really know if their parent loved them or not. I actually feel for Rat today.
It’s been 4 years since I lost my dad. He was the world to me. He did everything he could for my comfort. This comic hit me right in the heart. Miss you Baba!
BE THIS GUY about 1 year ago
Never thought I would say this because of Rat:
Excuse me, I have something in my eye.
BasilBruce about 1 year ago
Nothing to say here.
DanielRyanMulligan1 about 1 year ago
Um, does this comic strip provide the evidence to implicate Rat for Rat’s father’s death/murder?! Dan aka…ps hmmm….
Liam G.P about 1 year ago
Oh Lord, I almost teared up, I swear. I pray that there would be an afterlife, so I wouldn’t be worried.
Baarorso about 1 year ago
H-oly cow! What a GUTPUNCH in the last panel!
Wilde Bill about 1 year ago
Somehow, I knew that was the reason.
marilynnbyerly about 1 year ago
All of us who have lost our dad know this feeling.
The dude from FL Premium Member about 1 year ago
Don’t we all, they were so smart!
David_the_CAD about 1 year ago
Fortunately I started to develop a better relationship with my Dad in the last few years of his life.
I will be honest, because of the changes in our relationship I had a bit of a hard time letting him go. I miss you Dad. Fortunately I have faith that we will see each other again.
orinoco womble about 1 year ago
The saddest thing is when someone dies and all their family feels is a sense of relief. Some people never change, unfortunately.
Johnny Q Premium Member about 1 year ago
Someone said that after your parent dies, you become more like him/her…
Bilan about 1 year ago
The Rat doesn’t fall far from the tree.
MichaelAxelFleming about 1 year ago
My dad was called Jack. I’m Michael, Jack’s son.
carlsonbob about 1 year ago
Rat being serious and reflective. A nice change.
salakfarm Premium Member about 1 year ago
My dad and I get along the same way.
Imagine about 1 year ago
I was very fortunate to learn that before my Dad passed away. The last few years of his life were the greatest time we had together. I miss him.
ivanprime93 about 1 year ago
A little close to home, but nice.
Binky about 1 year ago
( ◜‿◝ )❤
blunebottle about 1 year ago
Saw that coming.
iggyman about 1 year ago
A whole different side of Rat..
hariseldon59 about 1 year ago
Nice to see Zebra again.
Darth Stevious about 1 year ago
I’d like to see Zebra more.
unclebob53703 Premium Member about 1 year ago
Aw, man!
Geophyzz about 1 year ago
Cody Johnson says it best:
https://www.youtube.COM/watch?v=v2LixP7n_hM
stringer831 about 1 year ago
Weirdly enough, today would have been my father’s 102nd birthday.Let’s just say he was a very difficult man.
cdward about 1 year ago
Aww.
Ellis97 about 1 year ago
I think Rat might’ve taken a lot after his old man, resulting in a very strained relationship. Either that, or they used to be quite close, but the bond got destroyed, resulting in a major falling out. Now that he’s gone, he probably regrets never reconciling with him.
ladykat about 1 year ago
Aww, rat.
Count Olaf Premium Member about 1 year ago
As much as The Count dislikes getting serious on here… The Count is absolutely channeling Rat. And/Or Visa Versa. Yo, Rat, bro… The Count would bet the ranch and livestock that, just like The Count, when you do reminisce like this you realize He Was RIGHT!
Aficionado about 1 year ago
Profound, Mr Pastis. Well done.
jel354 about 1 year ago
Rat rarely struck me as the sentimental type, until today.
pheets about 1 year ago
Loss is hard.
Cameron1988 Premium Member about 1 year ago
I figured Rat’s father had to be deceased
uniquename about 1 year ago
Rat with some real introspection. No matter what happened between you in real life Rat, your dad left you a gift.
Goat from PBS about 1 year ago
Awwww. We truly never know what we have… until it’s gone.
DaBump Premium Member about 1 year ago
Aw! Didn’t expect to be touched by a strip featuring Rat like this!
[Anonymous Account] about 1 year ago
R.I.P Rat’s dad
mikenassour Premium Member about 1 year ago
I know the feeling. Thank you, Stephan.
royq27 about 1 year ago
Rat has never been so right…
Charlie Tuba about 1 year ago
That’s a little hard for me to do as my dad is buried halfway across the country in Poplar Bluff, MO. The last time I was there was when my mother and I took him there in 1994, and we went to his 50th high school reunion in his place.
Radish... about 1 year ago
Leave some pizza.
davidlwashburn about 1 year ago
The last year of my dad’s life, I got to spend just about every day hanging out with him and picking his brain about life, the wisdom he had, and his own story. That year is probably one of my most treasured memories, and the time that did the most to shape me into a decent person and a good father and husband.
Shinrinder Premium Member about 1 year ago
I miss my dad.
HOTLOTUS1 about 1 year ago
sadly, i won’t get to go to heaven since i will never forgive that bas***d for what he did to my mom and our family. THANKS DAD. sorry folks. some feeling s unresolved still. obviously
figuratively speaking about 1 year ago
Poor Rat.
TheBigPickle about 1 year ago
Darn dust in my eye…
ShadowBeast Premium Member about 1 year ago
Just lost my father last month.
InuYugiHakusho about 1 year ago
A surprisingly human moment for Rat.
The Fly Hunter about 1 year ago
So many questions I wish I had asked my father…. “sigh”….
elgrecousa Premium Member about 1 year ago
Our personality and behavior is the result of genetics (the genes we inherit) and epigenetics (the environment). There is increasing scientific evidence that our free will is limited, if at all present, so let’s give each other so slack and do the best we can to get along.
LaughterIsJoyMuliplied about 1 year ago
These words are wholly inadequate but, thanks Steph.
raybarb44 about 1 year ago
He already knows; don’t worry. He was a Dad. Dads aren’t necessarily a biological father. Dads are Dads. That’s why I often refer to God the Father as my Heavenly Dad in my prayers. It’s what He is……
oakie817 about 1 year ago
know the feeling
patrickab7 about 1 year ago
Make peace while you can. Had struggled with my relationships with some of my immediate family in recent years and have done my best to smooth things over on my end.
Also, my mom passed away in 2006 and I miss her all the time.
I'm Sad about 1 year ago
Harry Chapin.
Otis Rufus Driftwood about 1 year ago
I feel the same way with my father gone. Every now and then, it is good for Pastis to show Rat is not completely callous.
delennwen about 1 year ago
Say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear) You can listen as well as you hear It’s too late (it’s too late) when we die (it’s too late when we die) To admit we don’t see eye to eye
zeexenon about 1 year ago
Thank goodness for Shawn Woods and Mousetrap Monday.
B.comics.61 Premium Member about 1 year ago
❤️
Spacehog about 1 year ago
It is good to see Zebra again, Zebra is my favorite character besides Pig
Hank Bordowitz42 Premium Member about 1 year ago
That may be the saddest thing I’ve ever seen in the funnies.
MarshaOstroff about 1 year ago
Oh, Rat, I feel for you. Time for a chat with my late daddy-dear.
itsacatsworld Premium Member about 1 year ago
<3 oxox
CamiSu Premium Member about 1 year ago
I so wish I really missed my mother.
David Rickard Premium Member about 1 year ago
Goddammit, it’s gotten dusty in here…
Jaime Jean M about 1 year ago
Now, that was depressing.
KEA about 1 year ago
my dad died when he was 58… there are so many adult conversations I would have liked to have with him.
MarshaOstroff about 1 year ago
Not long before my father died, he called up the relatives he was close to (like me, for instance) and old friends to apologize for anything he may have done to hurt them in the course of his long life. Of course, I told him that he had nothing to apologize for, that he had been the best of fathers. And it was the truth.
Chris Sherlock about 1 year ago
It’s nice to see Rat has more than one dimension to his personality.
billdaviswords about 1 year ago
Who woulda thought… Rat has a heart.
Ukko wilko about 1 year ago
That’s the only way I’ve had to talk to my Dad since 1962.
jearnold15 about 1 year ago
Made me cry. I lost my parents a number of years ago, and it still stings. Thank you for your sensitivity.
Tom in WV about 1 year ago
Good job, Pastis. The last time PBS moved me like this was when Junior Croc went off to college.
pchemcat about 1 year ago
It is sad when a parent dies that was emotionally abusive to the children. All children want to know their parent loves them. A parent passing when the child doesn’t know if they were loved is the worst. There is no way for them to ever really know if their parent loved them or not. I actually feel for Rat today.
John Jorgensen about 1 year ago
Rarely does Rat come out with something so touching. And come to think of it, rarely does Zebra show up at all these days.
Courage the Cowardly Dog! about 1 year ago
It’s been 4 years since I lost my dad. He was the world to me. He did everything he could for my comfort. This comic hit me right in the heart. Miss you Baba!
mholding about 1 year ago
awww Rat..
shelly about 1 year ago
What a lovely message
Snoots about 1 year ago
Geeminy… sometimes Pastis has a great way of tugging those heart strings.
My favorite of all time: “You were the best thing that ever happened to me.” I tear-up every time I think about it… and not ashamed to admit it.
Perhaps someone here can figure out the link to the original strip.
chriscc63 about 1 year ago
the first bit of loving emotion shown by Rat Jr.
Sisyphos about 1 year ago
Aww. Rat has a soft spot in his heart (who knew?) for Rat Senior. Such pathos….
c001 about 1 year ago
“…und viel mehr Blumen während des Lebens, denn auf den Gräbern sind sie vergebens.”
(…and many more flowers while you’re on life’s lane, because on the graves, they are in vain)
DebUSNRet about 1 year ago
Miss my Pop too, Rat.
Swirls Before Pine about 1 year ago
Please stop chopping onions, Rat.
Swirls Before Pine about 1 year ago
The 10 year anniversary of my Dad’s passing was four days before this strip. I didn’t tear up until today.