Sedgwick’s description in the 1st panel sounds more like “playing hard to get” but he acted out “negging” just fine which is less acting disinterested in someone and more being negative towards and about them (the word “negging” is obviously short for negative) Supposedly if you do that you can undermine & bring down someone’s confidence and self worth which can cause them to respond by seeking out your approval or feeling like they don’t deserve you or couldn’t do better than you anyway. Though Sedgwick’s dialogue is a bit on the nose as he just outright insults her, negging is more like backhanded compliments.
That Sedgwick would use such emotional manipulation in his 1st forays into dating and at his young age is truly terrible and says nothing good about his character which may very well be beyond redemption
The problem with my trying to be tall, dark, handsome, and mysterious is that I couldn’t honestly do any of them. Fortunately, my wife has a heart of gold. Either that or very low standards.
oldpine52 over 1 year ago
Yeah, right.
maureenmck Premium Member over 1 year ago
Better 4 eyes than bug eyes
Enter.Name.Here over 1 year ago
Looks like he failed the “show disinterest” part and acted very interested, only it was NEGATIVE interest. Rookies.
Doug K over 1 year ago
I she was really interested, she would have slugged him (and likely have knocked him off of his swing).
noktar Premium Member over 1 year ago
It would have been better if he hadn’t gotten into this business at all.
Frankie5466 over 1 year ago
Sedgwick’s description in the 1st panel sounds more like “playing hard to get” but he acted out “negging” just fine which is less acting disinterested in someone and more being negative towards and about them (the word “negging” is obviously short for negative) Supposedly if you do that you can undermine & bring down someone’s confidence and self worth which can cause them to respond by seeking out your approval or feeling like they don’t deserve you or couldn’t do better than you anyway. Though Sedgwick’s dialogue is a bit on the nose as he just outright insults her, negging is more like backhanded compliments.
That Sedgwick would use such emotional manipulation in his 1st forays into dating and at his young age is truly terrible and says nothing good about his character which may very well be beyond redemption
Jayalexander over 1 year ago
It’s DISINTERESTED NOT DISS. The other person. Numbnuts.
Indiana Guy over 1 year ago
Some girls are attracted to “bad boys”, Sedgwick. So get a black bicycle and always keep a candy cigarette dangling out of your mouth.
e.groves over 1 year ago
What a charming little twit.
F-Flash over 1 year ago
I hope she goes home and tells her big brother, then Sir Sedgwick will get the “Negging” he deserves. Pow ! Right in the kisser.
Chris over 1 year ago
or a good rock chuck to the head. :J
Twelve Badgers in a Suit Premium Member over 1 year ago
I like to think children are too smart to fall for that kind of shìt.
Budster01 over 1 year ago
You had me at “four eyes”…
Serial Pedant over 1 year ago
It’s UNinteresting.
snowedin, now known as Missy's mom over 1 year ago
Yeah, I don’t think so.
Spoonbone over 1 year ago
I think Sedgie has confused “the strong silent type” with “abusive a$$hole”.
Frank Burns Eats Worms over 1 year ago
If he does get a playdate, maybe they can become swingers.
mistercatworks over 1 year ago
Disinterest is not the same as insulting. It used to be called “playing hard to get” but “negging” sounds so much uglier.
LoneDog over 1 year ago
I shudder to think of the young adult that Sedgwick will grow up to be.
Impkins Premium Member over 1 year ago
Jarvis thinks this is gonna be a looooooooooong week! :)
Mayor Snorkum over 1 year ago
Time for an arc of Moondog at the art gallery, I’m thinking.
Richard S Russell Premium Member over 1 year ago
The problem with my trying to be tall, dark, handsome, and mysterious is that I couldn’t honestly do any of them. Fortunately, my wife has a heart of gold. Either that or very low standards.
Sisyphos over 1 year ago
That’s going to be a long wait, Sedgwick. Your “negging” seems more like like blunt dissing….