If this so called pandemic has shown me anything it’s I’m not ready to sit around every day and do nothing. She’s already tempted to give up walking and gardening. Just how old is she supposed to be?
A big motivator for me is remembering two gentlemen I knew when I was young, one a farmer had to stop at ninety six because his family wouldn’t get him another horse to replace the one that died of old age. He admitted to getting old when he needed a stump to get on his horse bareback at eighty eight. The other was a mechanic who was still working at ninety, he started in the eighteen nineties.
My Great Grandmother was in her 90’s and she was upset because her two sons (both in their 70’s) hadn’t come over to shovel the snow off of her roof yet. So she got out a ladder and started to do it herself. It took the neighbor 10 min to convince her to come down and let someone else do it.
Condo living can be unpleasant because of HOAs. One friend got in trouble for leaving his garage door when working in shop/garage. Another friend had the audacity to plant flowers, and the HOA came and dug them up because he had failed to get the HOA’s permission. So be careful what you ask for and be sure to the read restrictions and see if you tolerate them.
One acquaintance sold the dairy farm when her husband died, moved from Minnesota to Seattle, WA and bought a condo on the 15th floor. She said she’d see enough dirt to last her.
My parents tried that. They moved to a condo. Shortly after, they again bought a house with a yard. Then they bought 10 acres out beyond the suburbs and were much happier.
At 71, I still “garden” over an acre, surrounded by trees I have planted, while my husband sleeps 20 hours a day and watches TV the other 4. I would rather be dead than live in a condo.
I think this arc is about falling out of love with something. She gardened because she liked it and liked living among her plants. Having somebody come in and garden would be like hiring the Cabana Boy to take care of his wife.
Pick one within easy walking distance of a park with nature trails. Read the HOA Agreement carefully, can you stand to live by those restrictions? If they have some, sign up to spend a week in a “Guest Apartment>”
Nope, keeping the house, property including the big garden. No problem doing it a 70. You move to condo and you will be sorry. HOA, no space. You can hear the neighbor flush. Crime like crazy even the gated communities. Serveral of my friends made that move and they look like they are ready to die. Not happy at all.
When we were hit by unusually terrible snow storms this past winter and had to deal with the snow (no, there is no one to help, even for money, around here) including one storm we which shoveled and blew snow with the snow blower for 5 days to get the driveway clear (forget about the sidewalk – that was where we had to put the snow) husband started in again on moving to someplace with no snow. After my usual speech about the weather problems which come up in other places, I pointed out to him what it would entail to deal with everything in the house – and he would probably not be able to bring his wood workshop – aka our garage. He thought about it and then dropped the subject (at least until next winter).
Tyge over 3 years ago
Like Gus has? And be near the kids?
Da'Dad over 3 years ago
Wow, Ahuehuete hit it on the head yesterday, and the day before.
SpacedInvader Premium Member over 3 years ago
If this so called pandemic has shown me anything it’s I’m not ready to sit around every day and do nothing. She’s already tempted to give up walking and gardening. Just how old is she supposed to be?
Its just me over 3 years ago
A big motivator for me is remembering two gentlemen I knew when I was young, one a farmer had to stop at ninety six because his family wouldn’t get him another horse to replace the one that died of old age. He admitted to getting old when he needed a stump to get on his horse bareback at eighty eight. The other was a mechanic who was still working at ninety, he started in the eighteen nineties.
biglar over 3 years ago
My Great Grandmother was in her 90’s and she was upset because her two sons (both in their 70’s) hadn’t come over to shovel the snow off of her roof yet. So she got out a ladder and started to do it herself. It took the neighbor 10 min to convince her to come down and let someone else do it.
Julius Marold Premium Member over 3 years ago
You should see the jungle on the balcony of my condo. You can’t escape!
NeedaChuckle Premium Member over 3 years ago
Yeah with an HOA just like prison.
Lotus over 3 years ago
Condo living can be unpleasant because of HOAs. One friend got in trouble for leaving his garage door when working in shop/garage. Another friend had the audacity to plant flowers, and the HOA came and dug them up because he had failed to get the HOA’s permission. So be careful what you ask for and be sure to the read restrictions and see if you tolerate them.
Michael G. over 3 years ago
Happiness does not lie with the bureaucracy of condos.
Weakstream over 3 years ago
What happened to the boat?
Jhony-Yermo over 3 years ago
Why not a tiny house w a tiny yard and make it a wildlife sanctuary?
daveoverpar over 3 years ago
One word. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Arlo, run away.
david_42 over 3 years ago
One acquaintance sold the dairy farm when her husband died, moved from Minnesota to Seattle, WA and bought a condo on the 15th floor. She said she’d see enough dirt to last her.
mourdac Premium Member over 3 years ago
No birds, bears, deer, chipmunks, rabbits, squirrels? No to condos.
Jeffin Premium Member over 3 years ago
J’s can do attitude is becoming a condo attitude?
gammaguy over 3 years ago
My parents tried that. They moved to a condo. Shortly after, they again bought a house with a yard. Then they bought 10 acres out beyond the suburbs and were much happier.
judirapelje over 3 years ago
Sometimes we just need to adjust a little, not stop doing what we love!
mountainclimber over 3 years ago
I am grateful for, but not envious of all those people who prefer living in their exciting, but crowded cities. My youth in NYC was like a bad dream.
The Pro from Dover over 3 years ago
Another Grey Divorce?
exness Premium Member over 3 years ago
At 71, I still “garden” over an acre, surrounded by trees I have planted, while my husband sleeps 20 hours a day and watches TV the other 4. I would rather be dead than live in a condo.
alexius23 over 3 years ago
I know my sibs have urged me to move a location with less upkeep
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 3 years ago
Condo’s have many restrictions, rules and less Liberty.
KEA over 3 years ago
NO Don’t Do It!! just my personal opinion
KEA over 3 years ago
2nd thought… it would be cheaper and more enjoyable just to hire a landscaping service.
soapy1976 over 3 years ago
Not to worry, she just over did it the past two days. She’ll come to her senses with a couple of ibuprofen and a good night’s sleep.
flagmichael over 3 years ago
I think this arc is about falling out of love with something. She gardened because she liked it and liked living among her plants. Having somebody come in and garden would be like hiring the Cabana Boy to take care of his wife.
joefearsnothing over 3 years ago
That’s exactly how it started for us and we love Condo living now! Beautiful landscaping and someone else did all the work! ;o)
BeckyHedges over 3 years ago
I love my 1919 house in town. I created a monster when I built my beautiful gardens. Now I’m giving away perennials.
fuzzbucket Premium Member over 3 years ago
Then your neighbors are too close.
Vangoghdog01 over 3 years ago
Pick one within easy walking distance of a park with nature trails. Read the HOA Agreement carefully, can you stand to live by those restrictions? If they have some, sign up to spend a week in a “Guest Apartment>”
becida over 3 years ago
The words “moving to a condo” have been uttered!
Tetonbil over 3 years ago
Yikes! Red Alert! Arroogah! Arrooogah! Battle stations! This is not a drill!
ira.crank over 3 years ago
Keep the house and let the yard go.
scaeva Premium Member over 3 years ago
Condo? IT’S A TRAP!
squireobrien over 3 years ago
Good luck finding one. The middle of housing is missing.
hk Premium Member over 3 years ago
Nope, keeping the house, property including the big garden. No problem doing it a 70. You move to condo and you will be sorry. HOA, no space. You can hear the neighbor flush. Crime like crazy even the gated communities. Serveral of my friends made that move and they look like they are ready to die. Not happy at all.
Dr_Fogg over 3 years ago
All right Jimmy… This has gone too far! You’ve got her feeling frumpy and now she wants to move to a condo!? Poor Janice! :-(
cuzinron47 over 3 years ago
Ye shall reap your reward when things are blooming.
car2ner over 3 years ago
never mind the condo. I like an RV better
TennesseeFran over 3 years ago
I thought it but didn’t type it.
Raymond Powell over 3 years ago
I’m with Janis
Bruce1253 over 3 years ago
I understand, the mind says,“You can do this”, but the body says “Oh hell no.”
mafastore over 3 years ago
When we were hit by unusually terrible snow storms this past winter and had to deal with the snow (no, there is no one to help, even for money, around here) including one storm we which shoveled and blew snow with the snow blower for 5 days to get the driveway clear (forget about the sidewalk – that was where we had to put the snow) husband started in again on moving to someplace with no snow. After my usual speech about the weather problems which come up in other places, I pointed out to him what it would entail to deal with everything in the house – and he would probably not be able to bring his wood workshop – aka our garage. He thought about it and then dropped the subject (at least until next winter).
tomfromthe50s Premium Member 10 months ago
They’ve been reading your comments!