I actually agree with the kids. Our first house was right next door to my parents’ house. My dad stayed home but my mother was always interfering and my son preferred his grandmother’s kitchen to ours.
There are two houses in town that are not only next to each other but connected. The parents built it for one of the kids to live with their family. I don’t know how well that worked but eventually it/they went up for sale and were on the market for a long long time.
We have heard how this pandemic has strained some relationships. Some couples have broken apart because they were spending all their time together and were forced to confront and acknowledge the ugly truth about their marital difficulties. That is sad but it has happened. As for the strip today this has played out in reality of course. My step-father’s parents lived across the street from us but they did not interfer in any way. People respond to situations in different ways. Some parents in this scenario are gracious, understanding, emotionally secure and although perhaps disappointed they do not begrudge their kids moving. Some on the other hand invoke guilt trips, are angry, resentful and bring being hurt to a new level. If the relationship with the kids is solid it will not be impacted negatively by them moving further away. If not, then problems will arise for the long term.
First there should be boundaries…Opal with the binoculars is way over the line! Too close for comfort for me! Depends on how much privacy one wants from family! I saw my grandparents everyday growing up…cherished every minute! Now they’re all gone, parents, grandparents, including all my aunts and uncles! So sad!
Wow, harsh. I feel badly for Opal. I don’t remember this strip getting into so serious an arc. Earl and Opal’s relationship with Nelson is wonderful. Can’t see that ending. Or seeing more of the daughter and son in law?
I always liked to keep a little distance between my home and my parents’ home – preferably around 2,500 miles!
My daughter and grandson lived with me for several years in Florida, and my stepson, his wife, and two kids lived downstairs from us in Ecuador for about 3 years. While I love them all and enjoyed being around them, I was elated when they moved out.
I am surrounded by relatives. To the right of me are my nephew’s home and business. On the left is my sister-in-law’s house and next to her is the house of my 3 brothers-in-law. The whole block is owned by my wife’s family! ( It’s why we built a little get-away cottage in the country. )
I live in a retirement community and my wife is still a practicing Psychotherapist. Sad how many people have moved here so they could connect… sometimes daily… with their kid’s family. It almost always doesn’t turn out well for either.
jagedlo over 3 years ago
And where Earl doesn’t create holes in the roof (see Friday’s Pickles)?
sirbadger over 3 years ago
and they are willing to pay thousands of dollars to real estate agents to get away from Earl and Opal.
Ratkin Premium Member over 3 years ago
I know of at least two couples who sold their houses and moved to get away from their 30-something live at home kids.
Wilde Bill over 3 years ago
You’re going to miss the free babysitting.
Leojim over 3 years ago
Painful……
wiatr over 3 years ago
I actually agree with the kids. Our first house was right next door to my parents’ house. My dad stayed home but my mother was always interfering and my son preferred his grandmother’s kitchen to ours.
cubswin2016 over 3 years ago
Is she trying to kill her mother?
Charliegirl Premium Member over 3 years ago
Never live close to your relatives!!!!
Orcatime over 3 years ago
Rip off the Band-Aid.
Sanspareil over 3 years ago
At least she had the fortitude to tell the truth!
To grow as a person, you often have to hurt people!
Doug K over 3 years ago
If they move, will we see Nelson less often?
Breadboard over 3 years ago
What Arnold said " I’LL be back "
Cminuscomics&stories Premium Member over 3 years ago
How to make your parents wish they had been childless…
andrew5 over 3 years ago
She shoulda taken “more upscale, newer, closer to shopping” when she had the option. Hell Hath No Fury Like A Grandmother Spurned. Not even close.
tremaine53 over 3 years ago
That Opal is shocked here is two-thirds of the problem.
sandpiper over 3 years ago
Some truths arrive with a bump, some with a crash.
Less Monday... More Friday over 3 years ago
I wonder if Opal knows how a quad drone works?
Grace Premium Member over 3 years ago
Sure, they were ok being there while Nelson was little and they needed the free babysitting.
Chris over 3 years ago
they must’ve found out that you were spying on them. I meant watching them. :D
NeedaChuckle Premium Member over 3 years ago
There are two houses in town that are not only next to each other but connected. The parents built it for one of the kids to live with their family. I don’t know how well that worked but eventually it/they went up for sale and were on the market for a long long time.
ksu71 over 3 years ago
The comments here today saddened me.
Redd Panda over 3 years ago
Oslo?
Rodeo Boy over 3 years ago
We have heard how this pandemic has strained some relationships. Some couples have broken apart because they were spending all their time together and were forced to confront and acknowledge the ugly truth about their marital difficulties. That is sad but it has happened. As for the strip today this has played out in reality of course. My step-father’s parents lived across the street from us but they did not interfer in any way. People respond to situations in different ways. Some parents in this scenario are gracious, understanding, emotionally secure and although perhaps disappointed they do not begrudge their kids moving. Some on the other hand invoke guilt trips, are angry, resentful and bring being hurt to a new level. If the relationship with the kids is solid it will not be impacted negatively by them moving further away. If not, then problems will arise for the long term.
DawnQuinn1 over 3 years ago
No Nelson in this comic? There goes most of the reason for reading it.
iggyman over 3 years ago
My mother called my Grandmother the Queen Bee! My brother and I still laugh about it!
1BlackLivesMatter over 3 years ago
This story will have a happy ending- for Opal.
Watchdog over 3 years ago
Sad all around especially for grandchild
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 3 years ago
That did call for a “gasp”!
Zebrastripes over 3 years ago
First there should be boundaries…Opal with the binoculars is way over the line! Too close for comfort for me! Depends on how much privacy one wants from family! I saw my grandparents everyday growing up…cherished every minute! Now they’re all gone, parents, grandparents, including all my aunts and uncles! So sad!
jmworacle over 3 years ago
Ouch!
YorkGirl Premium Member over 3 years ago
Wow, harsh. I feel badly for Opal. I don’t remember this strip getting into so serious an arc. Earl and Opal’s relationship with Nelson is wonderful. Can’t see that ending. Or seeing more of the daughter and son in law?
jimmeh over 3 years ago
This had as much chance of happening as Ray and Debra moving away from his parents!
Linguist over 3 years ago
I always liked to keep a little distance between my home and my parents’ home – preferably around 2,500 miles!
My daughter and grandson lived with me for several years in Florida, and my stepson, his wife, and two kids lived downstairs from us in Ecuador for about 3 years. While I love them all and enjoyed being around them, I was elated when they moved out.
I am surrounded by relatives. To the right of me are my nephew’s home and business. On the left is my sister-in-law’s house and next to her is the house of my 3 brothers-in-law. The whole block is owned by my wife’s family! ( It’s why we built a little get-away cottage in the country. )
w16521 over 3 years ago
I saw that coming from a mile away.
Natarose over 3 years ago
What about Nelson? Did you even stop to think what this will do to him?
kab2rb over 3 years ago
What about grandson Nelson?
reedkomicks Premium Member over 3 years ago
As much as I understand, I would give anything to be able to pick up the phone and call my mom again.
That girl is selfish for telling that truth to her mom! There is nothing wrong with holding certain information back.
Jimmyk939 over 3 years ago
Truth hurts. Don’t ask a question that you don’t want to know the answer to
Publius10608218 over 3 years ago
Shots fired.
zeexenon over 3 years ago
As for us, we moved to a new job in another state, but not far enough away as we drove ‘home’ for holidays.
Smug King (Bonky Apprentice) over 3 years ago
Oh no!
rstove428 Premium Member over 3 years ago
I live in a retirement community and my wife is still a practicing Psychotherapist. Sad how many people have moved here so they could connect… sometimes daily… with their kid’s family. It almost always doesn’t turn out well for either.
hk Premium Member over 3 years ago
Don’t move, get rid the husband or boyfriend, whatever it is.
WhoDat over 3 years ago
Sometimes honesty is the best policy…
Jaymi Cee Premium Member over 3 years ago
Called it. Cue the tantrums from gramma. I think gramps will be cool with it, though.
mikeywilly over 3 years ago
It’s not Earl using the binoculars!
mistercatworks over 3 years ago
Called it.
Laurie Stoker Premium Member over 3 years ago
Oh, no … You should have picked one of her ideas. Seriously.
GaryDavid Premium Member over 3 years ago
Well, Sylvia, it’s about time (you told your parents)!