Would anyone care to educate me about the etiquette of sending these seasonal greeting cards? It is not part of my cultural experience, so I wonder occasionally how one decides about adding or removing someone from their list of recipients. Is there a time limit or a recency requirement of receiving from them in prior years? If one cannot remember, should one reply to request info? Presumably physical mail should include return info on the envelope. Who are the likely recipients? Immediate friends, family and current acquaintances? Distant family? Acquaintances from past associations with schools, military comrades, business contacts, religious institutions? Understand that I’m guessing, here. Must the greetings be in a physical paper medium, or has the time-honored practice been updated to include electronic media? If so, do recipients print out for themselves samples that include special graphics in order to display them? I ask because I have seen such physical greeting-cards displayed in some homes. Is the purpose of that to foster a feeling that the senders are participating remotely in the family celebration? I do not know how this custom originated, but it seems to me reasonable that a sense of remote participation and family connection might have played a significant part in it. If this is its primary purpose, does that bear upon the decisions about whom to include in the list of recipients?
Christmas card lists become cumulative and combined, then become automatic as each season comes and goes. If the list is anything like Frank and Nancy’s, the hand-written paper is folded, yellow, hard to read, scratched out, lined through.
Sadly, the tradition is dying. I am still one of those people who not only SEND Christmas cards, but search diligently for cards I deem appropriate to the recipient. (For example, I always send skating-motif cards to my fellow skating friends, religious cards to 90 year old aunts, ….you get the idea). My daughter used to make fun of me for doing this but she had an epiphany this year, telling me how wonderful it is to receive cards in the mail rather than bills and “junk” mail. She sent me a great card! My biggest pet peeve, though, are people who send those photo-of-their-family cards. First of all, with social media (and they are all on Facebook), I’ve SEEN recent photos of your kids/grandkids. And I cannot easily display a postcard as I can a “real” card. Because of the dying tradition and receiving fewer and fewer cards each year, I have started saving my favorites and re-displaying those each year along with one or two “new” ones. >sigh<
Never have that problem. Barely get back cards from those friends we stay in regular contact with and send cards to. Probably why our list gets smaller every year.
Another name to put on the mailing list. How many are there because Frank and Nancy got a card from them, even though they have no clue who these people are.
I’m one of those annoying people who sends Christmas cards every year. Being “of an age” as they say, I try to write a small note in each one that will hopefully remind the recipient who I am. People seem to appreciate it, and that gladdens me as I thoroughly enjoy doing it. Happy Holidays.
Sent this privately in the past, decided to share it here for those who want.
My Mother’s “Green” Soup, (as we called it) amazing for winter.
Ingredients:
2 larger onions, 3-4 potatoes medium, ¼ to 1/3 of an average stalk or 1 package of frozen spinach, 1-2 leeks or leek soup, Salt, pepper, nutmeg, garlic, thyme, Butter or margarine
To prepare:
Cut the onions into cubes, glaze the onions in butter, add the spinach, celery, fresh leeks, potatoes, thyme, salt, pepper, garlic, & nutmeg in water. Bring to a low boil for at least 30 minutes or until everything is tender. If you are using packaged leek soup, cook it separately, and puree it, meanwhile the rest can be boiling.
In a larger pot, place the pureed soup mixture and set it on low. Puree the other vegetables and add them to the soup mix. If you are using fresh leeks, just puree all the vegetables. Either way, check your seasoning to taste, add more water if needed. The soup should be thick but not too creamy. As long as the water does not separate from the floating vegetable, the puree is the correct consistency. Bring to a final boil, adding a little more butter if desired.
It will keep in a closed jar for a week refrigerated. Freezes indefinitely and reheats the same as when cooked.
I keep saying I’m not going to get cards out this year, but then I do anyway. About 10 or 12, to family and select friends. I don’t care if I don’t get cards back. I’m doing it to feel like I’m keeping in touch, important to me the older I get.
I got a graduation announcement from Carolyn Tidd for her daughter. I asked Patsy who she was. She thought I knew.
I emailed back to say we were glad she was graduating but how do we know them?
“You’re our aunt and uncle Patsy and David in Florida aren’t you?”
“We ARE David and Patsy, but give us some details.”
I found eleven David and Patsy Greens in Florida but from the other details I figured which was the one she actually intended. We kept in touch through her graduation from Georgia and a child or two. We have never met.
We had that happen more than a few times, with 30 years in the USN and moving every few years, quite often we got cards that took awhile to figure out exactly when and where we were stationed with them.
lvlax about 2 years ago
John and Renee must be a couple they knew from back in their old swinging days. LOL
This also reminds me of the 2003 movie, We’re The Millers with Jennifer Aniston and Jason Sudeikis. That was actually quite funny.
Not as many people send real Christmas cards these days. It’s a dying art. Which is too bad.
.
So does anyone have a guess on who John and Renee really are?
J. Scarbrough about 2 years ago
“Thending Chrithmath cardths! Oh, I don’t even know half these people!” ~ Bob Rivers
Tyge about 2 years ago
It’ll come to you… about January 6th! 8^ )
Templo S.U.D. about 2 years ago
at least it’s not Roger and Barbara, Leah, or Mary, right?
Joe1962 about 2 years ago
It come to you Nancy who the Miller’s are.
Mordock999 Premium Member about 2 years ago
That’s okay, DeGroots.
“Folks” tend to forget things when they reach a certain “age.” ;-)
[DUCKS]
nightflight about 2 years ago
They have full names and a return address to work with. Get on it Sherlock.
ProclaimLiberty about 2 years ago
Would anyone care to educate me about the etiquette of sending these seasonal greeting cards? It is not part of my cultural experience, so I wonder occasionally how one decides about adding or removing someone from their list of recipients. Is there a time limit or a recency requirement of receiving from them in prior years? If one cannot remember, should one reply to request info? Presumably physical mail should include return info on the envelope. Who are the likely recipients? Immediate friends, family and current acquaintances? Distant family? Acquaintances from past associations with schools, military comrades, business contacts, religious institutions? Understand that I’m guessing, here. Must the greetings be in a physical paper medium, or has the time-honored practice been updated to include electronic media? If so, do recipients print out for themselves samples that include special graphics in order to display them? I ask because I have seen such physical greeting-cards displayed in some homes. Is the purpose of that to foster a feeling that the senders are participating remotely in the family celebration? I do not know how this custom originated, but it seems to me reasonable that a sense of remote participation and family connection might have played a significant part in it. If this is its primary purpose, does that bear upon the decisions about whom to include in the list of recipients?
Lord Hearteater about 2 years ago
Nobody does massive Christmas card mailings, any more. Facebook proved to be more efficient and effective; it’s not all bad.
Brdshtt Premium Member about 2 years ago
The Millers own a beer company, and since I do not drink Miller Low Life beer, I do not send them a card.
Troglodyte about 2 years ago
I was half expecting it to be Moose and Molly.
OneTime59 about 2 years ago
Christmas card lists become cumulative and combined, then become automatic as each season comes and goes. If the list is anything like Frank and Nancy’s, the hand-written paper is folded, yellow, hard to read, scratched out, lined through.
dlkrueger33 about 2 years ago
Sadly, the tradition is dying. I am still one of those people who not only SEND Christmas cards, but search diligently for cards I deem appropriate to the recipient. (For example, I always send skating-motif cards to my fellow skating friends, religious cards to 90 year old aunts, ….you get the idea). My daughter used to make fun of me for doing this but she had an epiphany this year, telling me how wonderful it is to receive cards in the mail rather than bills and “junk” mail. She sent me a great card! My biggest pet peeve, though, are people who send those photo-of-their-family cards. First of all, with social media (and they are all on Facebook), I’ve SEEN recent photos of your kids/grandkids. And I cannot easily display a postcard as I can a “real” card. Because of the dying tradition and receiving fewer and fewer cards each year, I have started saving my favorites and re-displaying those each year along with one or two “new” ones. >sigh<
TekoaMT about 2 years ago
Props to Greg, though, her expression in the last panel is brilliant.
Johnnyrico about 2 years ago
I can’t stand doing Christmas cards. I send none, I receive none, and that’s just fine with me.
bestframeforward Premium Member about 2 years ago
Obviously, it’s Jon Moxley and Renee Paquette!! The DeGroots run in some exciting circles!! #AEW :D
Wizard of Ahz-no relation about 2 years ago
We had one of those cards this year. it had my name first on the envelope but i had no idea. my wife said “I used to work with her.”
Aladar30 Premium Member about 2 years ago
Yes, i know this awkward situation.
ctolson about 2 years ago
Never have that problem. Barely get back cards from those friends we stay in regular contact with and send cards to. Probably why our list gets smaller every year.
mindjob about 2 years ago
Not sending cards out has really hurt the Post Office. They keep threatening to close offices and reduce hours, but our taxes keep them working
Ceeg22 Premium Member about 2 years ago
Miller is one of the most common last names. If I was told we had a card from the Millers I’d need to know which Millers
WilliamVollmer about 2 years ago
Another name to put on the mailing list. How many are there because Frank and Nancy got a card from them, even though they have no clue who these people are.
Bookworm about 2 years ago
I’m one of those annoying people who sends Christmas cards every year. Being “of an age” as they say, I try to write a small note in each one that will hopefully remind the recipient who I am. People seem to appreciate it, and that gladdens me as I thoroughly enjoy doing it. Happy Holidays.
rshive about 2 years ago
We knew John and Renee. About 30 years and several states away. Think that they’ve moved since.
comic reader 22 about 2 years ago
Nowadays it seems like sending a Christmas email has gotten popular – with a family picture and season message.
darcyandsimon about 2 years ago
LOL!!!
Terminal Frost Premium Member about 2 years ago
OFF TOPIC
Sent this privately in the past, decided to share it here for those who want.My Mother’s “Green” Soup, (as we called it) amazing for winter.
Ingredients:
2 larger onions, 3-4 potatoes medium, ¼ to 1/3 of an average stalk or 1 package of frozen spinach, 1-2 leeks or leek soup, Salt, pepper, nutmeg, garlic, thyme, Butter or margarine
To prepare:
Cut the onions into cubes, glaze the onions in butter, add the spinach, celery, fresh leeks, potatoes, thyme, salt, pepper, garlic, & nutmeg in water. Bring to a low boil for at least 30 minutes or until everything is tender. If you are using packaged leek soup, cook it separately, and puree it, meanwhile the rest can be boiling.
In a larger pot, place the pureed soup mixture and set it on low. Puree the other vegetables and add them to the soup mix. If you are using fresh leeks, just puree all the vegetables. Either way, check your seasoning to taste, add more water if needed. The soup should be thick but not too creamy. As long as the water does not separate from the floating vegetable, the puree is the correct consistency. Bring to a final boil, adding a little more butter if desired.
It will keep in a closed jar for a week refrigerated. Freezes indefinitely and reheats the same as when cooked.
tcayer about 2 years ago
I became a reactionary Christmas Card sender, only sending them to people who sent us one. I curse the ones that show up late!
overtherainbow about 2 years ago
I keep saying I’m not going to get cards out this year, but then I do anyway. About 10 or 12, to family and select friends. I don’t care if I don’t get cards back. I’m doing it to feel like I’m keeping in touch, important to me the older I get.
RolloTheGrouch about 2 years ago
Judging from the ages of their children, Frank and Nancy have been married 25 years or so.
After 25+ years of marriage, most couples aren’t this coy with each other. We sure weren’t.
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace about 2 years ago
I got a graduation announcement from Carolyn Tidd for her daughter. I asked Patsy who she was. She thought I knew.
I emailed back to say we were glad she was graduating but how do we know them?
“You’re our aunt and uncle Patsy and David in Florida aren’t you?”
“We ARE David and Patsy, but give us some details.”
I found eleven David and Patsy Greens in Florida but from the other details I figured which was the one she actually intended. We kept in touch through her graduation from Georgia and a child or two. We have never met.
MuddyUSA Premium Member about 2 years ago
Sometimes that does happen……
katzpawz1a about 2 years ago
This made me laugh out loud….mostly because it’s so, so true!
Otis Rufus Driftwood about 2 years ago
This week of strips with DeGroots at home for Christmas had been quite enjoyable.
Deogheh about 2 years ago
My uncle, I thought he was your uncle. (What old beer commercial was that?
Luann's BFF Premium Member about 2 years ago
I love where Greg signed this one! Cute.
Angry Indeed Premium Member about 2 years ago
Maybe it’s like a recent Pickles strip where the mailman delivered the Christmas card to their house by mistake.
The Quiet One about 2 years ago
That memorable huh?
Sailor46 USN 65-95 about 2 years ago
We had that happen more than a few times, with 30 years in the USN and moving every few years, quite often we got cards that took awhile to figure out exactly when and where we were stationed with them.
BuckarooDave about 2 years ago
tomorrow: back to Puddles?
Sisyphos about 2 years ago
Whosoever they may be, John and Renee have the right gracious sentiment. So, be of good cheer, Frank and Nancy.
And be sure to keep or copy their return address from the card’s envelope!