Many things we enjoy in early years shrink as we age. Activity, scope, conversation, interaction. Takes a bit of hunting and seeking to find replacements that keep the mind sharp and comfortable.
It’s called the age of acknowledgement, adjustment, and accommodation. First one recognizes the change. Then one makes adjustments to life to accommodate the new pattern. The 4th step is acceptance of things one can’t change or improve.
Not always a sad thing nor a happy thing. Just another thing in life.
Earl really wasn’t helpful with Opal’s attempt to have a normal dinner conversation. But Opal didn’t help by playing his childish game with him, either.
I thought about walking across America, then I didn’t. I thought about that redhaired girl I wanted to marry, but didn’t. I thought about six things that I know that would only be useful if I still had my old job. I thought about those cats that would go for long walks in the forest with me …
I knew a couple who always bickered, argued and complained at each other all the time. He passed away. She then talked about what a saint and wonderful person he was and how much she missed him. Hahaha!
My beloved was mad at me so she quit talking to me for a couple of weeks. I thought she was just being moody, so I left it alone. Then she decided I hadn’t noticed so she kept not talking to me for a couple more.
(She never did tell me my sin in the beginning. I wonder if she remembered.)
My parents (married 63 years ) used to look at the Obituaries in the newspaper every morning, and then sit there, for hours, and discuss whether or not they knew the person who had died. And then discuss, if they knew them enough to attend the funeral or send a card. It was conversation, but depressing conversation.
Sounds like husband and I, only I never ask how his day was, same with me, each day too me the same, only difference I have continued my exercise therapy when out patient therapy ended. For my left upper hip and leg. Husband has to help me out. Simple part of each day, I cannot time my shoe laces. My knees will not bed sideways. My shoes I use a shoe horn long handle. Husband does not do what Earl does sleep all day.More special over all, Each day is a blessing as my husband is still here, we celebrate Tuesday 42 years of marriage.
allen@home over 1 year ago
Well arguing is a form of talking. Sort of.
Argythree over 1 year ago
So did Earl’s mustache grow back, or are Sunday ’toons different from the daily ones?
mwooooo over 1 year ago
Argument Clinic
ArcticFox Premium Member over 1 year ago
And now all the food’s cold.
Doug K over 1 year ago
For some any kind of conversation is better than no conversation.
For others no conversation is better than a conversation like this.
C over 1 year ago
Once a drama queen, always a drama queen
iggyman over 1 year ago
Earl, you are supposed to say “Yes, Dear”!
Judy Hendrickson [Unnamed Reader - 852856] over 1 year ago
I used to tell my husband ,something is wron ,we haven’t argued for over a week
akiprev04 over 1 year ago
Yep, Eve so liked to chat with the serpent…
ʲᔆ over 1 year ago
seems apt…
https://i.ibb.co/rFqcZ1S/nut-in.jpg
Pharmakeus Ubik over 1 year ago
Did you book the five minute argument, or the full half hour ?
mywifeslover over 1 year ago
A little less conversation, a little more action please…
LawrenceS over 1 year ago
“A contradiction is not an argument.” (Or, for that matter, a discussion.)
Pet over 1 year ago
We never argue.
Yes we do.
No we don’t.
Yes we DO.
No we DON’T.
beachfatman over 1 year ago
I thought he used glue and some of the dog’s hair to replace the mustache?
ʲᔆ over 1 year ago
THIS needs to happen more often ↴
https://www.gocomics.com/pickles/2015/04/19
PraiseofFolly over 1 year ago
Love is a many-splattered thing …
Lady loves a joke over 1 year ago
“Competitors, to your corners”!
thebashfulone over 1 year ago
John Prine. Angel From Montgomery.
Lee26 Premium Member over 1 year ago
I know of two couples who retired and got divorced within 5 years. I guess 24/7 was a bit much for them.
Chris over 1 year ago
she just wanted it to be more lively.
sandpiper over 1 year ago
Many things we enjoy in early years shrink as we age. Activity, scope, conversation, interaction. Takes a bit of hunting and seeking to find replacements that keep the mind sharp and comfortable.
It’s called the age of acknowledgement, adjustment, and accommodation. First one recognizes the change. Then one makes adjustments to life to accommodate the new pattern. The 4th step is acceptance of things one can’t change or improve.
Not always a sad thing nor a happy thing. Just another thing in life.
Comics are the first thing to read over 1 year ago
John Cleese: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argument_Clinic
Templo S.U.D. over 1 year ago
Good job, Opal.
Zebrastripes over 1 year ago
Frick N Frack
brick10 over 1 year ago
“My stomach hurts from the arguments.”
Dkram over 1 year ago
There seems to be a little discourse in their discourse.
\\//_
indysteve9 over 1 year ago
“See, isn’t this better”? NO
i_am_the_jam over 1 year ago
“We used to tell each other everything. Now we don’t talk anymore. We told each other everything.” :D :D :D
ladykat over 1 year ago
So – want to argue childishly all evening?
MuddyUSA Premium Member over 1 year ago
All better after diner conversation?
ex window inspector over 1 year ago
Is this why some retired couples finally call it quits?
ANIMAL over 1 year ago
Arguing is actually considered CONVERSATION.? (good to know)
Moonkey Premium Member over 1 year ago
Earl really wasn’t helpful with Opal’s attempt to have a normal dinner conversation. But Opal didn’t help by playing his childish game with him, either.
mistercatworks over 1 year ago
I thought about walking across America, then I didn’t. I thought about that redhaired girl I wanted to marry, but didn’t. I thought about six things that I know that would only be useful if I still had my old job. I thought about those cats that would go for long walks in the forest with me …
Slatsmagee I over 1 year ago
OMG, can I ever relate…
monya_43 over 1 year ago
I knew a couple who always bickered, argued and complained at each other all the time. He passed away. She then talked about what a saint and wonderful person he was and how much she missed him. Hahaha!
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace over 1 year ago
My beloved was mad at me so she quit talking to me for a couple of weeks. I thought she was just being moody, so I left it alone. Then she decided I hadn’t noticed so she kept not talking to me for a couple more.
(She never did tell me my sin in the beginning. I wonder if she remembered.)
Jwhitcomb1966 over 1 year ago
My parents (married 63 years ) used to look at the Obituaries in the newspaper every morning, and then sit there, for hours, and discuss whether or not they knew the person who had died. And then discuss, if they knew them enough to attend the funeral or send a card. It was conversation, but depressing conversation.
kab2rb over 1 year ago
Sounds like husband and I, only I never ask how his day was, same with me, each day too me the same, only difference I have continued my exercise therapy when out patient therapy ended. For my left upper hip and leg. Husband has to help me out. Simple part of each day, I cannot time my shoe laces. My knees will not bed sideways. My shoes I use a shoe horn long handle. Husband does not do what Earl does sleep all day.More special over all, Each day is a blessing as my husband is still here, we celebrate Tuesday 42 years of marriage.