It isn’t just facebook. Consider what could be figured out by reading all of your postings on this site, and combine that with all other sites you visit. Before I hit the comment button, here or anywhere else, I ask myself how I would feel to see that on the front page of the Post-Dispatch. That’s caused the deletion or editing of quite a few comments. But, the composite of all of my postings would tell anyone who cared enough to composite them pretty much everything about me. They would know all about my finances and my secrets. Fortunately, I don’t have enough of either to make it worth the effort.
My wife talks like even without Facebook about people I neither know nor care about like the Safeway’s cashier’s daughter’s neighbour et al. I’m glad she’s not on Facebook as well, although I’ve long ago mastered the act of pretending to listen, like most husbands have to.
I was impressed with how Lost Wages dealt with BIG winners. Not a word released until after you’ve left town! ’Course the IRS guy is there grinning the whole time.
FaceBook is just a phishing site. It convinces you to give details about yourself. FB & others collect that info for profit purposes. Some people aren’t as lucky as Jarvis’ cousin.
People like sharing and some tend to overshare but that doesn’t give Facebook or any company permission to “secretly” give data to other companies that try to change your political stance.
At the same time; those who do share personal details on social media should be aware that even if they have their settings configured to private so that only a few select friends/family can read it, there is no stopping said friends and family from screenshotting your status and passing it around to others. “Say it forget it, write it regret it.” Never post something that you wouldn’t want the general public to know about you even if you think it’s private. I love social media as it’s connected me to long lost friends and family and even gave me a career that I love but it’s a double-edged sword. You have to be careful with your words. A slip up can destroy your life (loss of job, can make you a public laughing stalk, etc) and follow you around for years.
Luckily, I learned that lesson even before the internet as a girl gossiping and complaining about others behind their backs; of course, it got back to them and I was confronted. I learned to only whisper in someone’s ear something that I wouldn’t mind saying to the face of the person I’m talking about. That served me well in the future. I generally don’t talk about others but when I do, I make sure it’s something I either have already told them myself or something I would tell them if they were standing there.
Nachikethass over 6 years ago
So true!
Sisu60 over 6 years ago
no such thing as privacy amazing what they consider a matter of public record
Charliegirl Premium Member over 6 years ago
I really don’t care. Do you?
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace over 6 years ago
It makes you wonder what they’re not sharing when you consider what they are.
nosirrom over 6 years ago
I doubt Facebook has a “Reaction” for Arlo’s reaction.
WaitingMan over 6 years ago
The crazy thing is, Marianne, Pat, Jen and the Murphys are people they don’t even know.
gypsywolf59 over 6 years ago
And you know that how?
Tyge over 6 years ago
Facebook. A world of self-isolated people thinking they can relate to the world.
DDrazen over 6 years ago
We used to get these “organ recitals” in annual holiday letters; now they happen in real time.
jarvisloop over 6 years ago
I have a cousin who is an idiot, but the gods must protect fools.
She, her husband, and their three children went to Hawaii, and she updated her FB page on a daily basis.
Remarkably, their house and all their belongings were still intact when they returned.
Little Caesar over 6 years ago
Not much different than some of the comments you see on Gocomics.
Diane Lee Premium Member over 6 years ago
It isn’t just facebook. Consider what could be figured out by reading all of your postings on this site, and combine that with all other sites you visit. Before I hit the comment button, here or anywhere else, I ask myself how I would feel to see that on the front page of the Post-Dispatch. That’s caused the deletion or editing of quite a few comments. But, the composite of all of my postings would tell anyone who cared enough to composite them pretty much everything about me. They would know all about my finances and my secrets. Fortunately, I don’t have enough of either to make it worth the effort.
Dixie Lee over 6 years ago
Facebook the narcissists best friend.
Clotty Peristalt over 6 years ago
My wife talks like even without Facebook about people I neither know nor care about like the Safeway’s cashier’s daughter’s neighbour et al. I’m glad she’s not on Facebook as well, although I’ve long ago mastered the act of pretending to listen, like most husbands have to.
Scoutmaster77 over 6 years ago
The privacy train left the station years ago.
Mema Jean over 6 years ago
Its just another addiction. No treatment available though.
whahoppened over 6 years ago
I was impressed with how Lost Wages dealt with BIG winners. Not a word released until after you’ve left town! ’Course the IRS guy is there grinning the whole time.
VictoryRider over 6 years ago
Commenting on here is the closest I come to any form of social media.
JastMe over 6 years ago
FaceBook is just a phishing site. It convinces you to give details about yourself. FB & others collect that info for profit purposes. Some people aren’t as lucky as Jarvis’ cousin.
Nicole ♫ ⊱✿ ◕‿◕✿⊰♫ Premium Member over 6 years ago
People like sharing and some tend to overshare but that doesn’t give Facebook or any company permission to “secretly” give data to other companies that try to change your political stance.
At the same time; those who do share personal details on social media should be aware that even if they have their settings configured to private so that only a few select friends/family can read it, there is no stopping said friends and family from screenshotting your status and passing it around to others. “Say it forget it, write it regret it.” Never post something that you wouldn’t want the general public to know about you even if you think it’s private. I love social media as it’s connected me to long lost friends and family and even gave me a career that I love but it’s a double-edged sword. You have to be careful with your words. A slip up can destroy your life (loss of job, can make you a public laughing stalk, etc) and follow you around for years.
Luckily, I learned that lesson even before the internet as a girl gossiping and complaining about others behind their backs; of course, it got back to them and I was confronted. I learned to only whisper in someone’s ear something that I wouldn’t mind saying to the face of the person I’m talking about. That served me well in the future. I generally don’t talk about others but when I do, I make sure it’s something I either have already told them myself or something I would tell them if they were standing there.