There have been plenty of studies that have shown attractive females get the best tips. Tiffany may think it’s because of “acting”, but it’s really a lot more about being a pretty young woman. Sorry, Ox. You will never get the tips that Tiffany does.
For all the people acting like Tiffany hasn’t grown from this one comic, I would like to remind you she’s working in customer service. Learning how to act around customers is an important skill if you want to make those tips. You can’t for instance let a bad mood on your part ruin the customer’s experience.
And as for the money, we all need money and there is nothing wrong with Tiffany feeling good about having gotten a good tip.
Tiff – you’re talking doubles. Ox has it correct. You are faking an interest in Mr A for a big tip. Well, that’s a server’s bread and butter – the tips. My son, who is now a manager of a restaurant chain, used to do what Tiff did. Memorized his regular’s orders, their names, their families’ names, etc. They loved him and he regularly brought around $200-400 in tips daily. A lot of servers, including my other son, quit because they did not get the tips he got. They couldn’t – they all wanted him. My son misses serving – hard work, yes, but the money was good. He accepted a promotion just for better hours so he could be home with family on a more regular basis. The server’s hours are unpredictable.
It’s called being a suck up, an insincere form of flattery for personal gain. Tiffany doesn’t like work but LOVES money. So she’ll do whatever it take to make maximum $$$$ with minimal effort. And if this means throwing cheap flattery around, so be it.
One of the reasons I always prefer fast food joints. People pretending to give a rats rear end about me and/or my ‘experience’ for a gratuity. I always prefer the bottom line in what something will cost me.
Tiff “performs” a service. What’s good for you is good for her, and she plays her role very well. Old guys enjoy getting attention from attractive young ladies, so they too, are performing under a spotlight in a fake world. Everyone is happy, no one gets hurt, and anybody who denies this is a liar. Remember, even Nancy drew favorable attention when she was behind the bar.
The commentary in the middle panel could be used in a number of situations. Greg shows Tiff and OX after a date, and they are leaning back against the pillows in bed.
I think she means she can really feel good interacting with customers, but the front stage performance is a what is it important. I never acted but I have had two careers with front stage as part, as a trial lawyer, and later as a community college instructor. You have to put in a persona and if you believe in what you’re doing that makes the resulting “performances” better. Does this mean Tiffany is less shallow. Yes, but it remains to be seen if she realizes herself.
Tiffany can say what she wants, but hearing the stories of regular consumers and remembering it to talk to them is a big effort. It’s impossible to act out being kind and care of everyone every day without being able at doing it in reality. Tiffany may not even realize it, but the way she treats others has changed a lot since she’s been a waitress. Now, let’s see what she do if Stefi is one of the consumers!
Don’t be dissuaded and take Tiff’s words as “shallowness,” as far too many good natured but judgmental “folks” are doing here today.
The gal has had it hard the last few years, “thanks” to her “creators.”
You don’t have everything but then, suddenly have everything taken away from you, and not be affected.
And during the course of all those bad experiences over the las few years, Tiffany’s heart has grown three sizes bigger. And NOT because of any “health problems.”
She now appreciates making a living on her own.
She’d make you a good first G/F.
You’d make her a great first B/F.
A far better “B/F” than that joker currently washing dishes in the kitchen who’s been helping himself to a percentage of Tiffany’s tips.
When you work with for tips you have to be “on” to be successful. If you don’t learn how to do it you won’t make good money or have return customers. The customers don’t really want you as a personal friend, but they do want you to engage and be interested in them and their order. I’ve noticed that older men are the ones that want to chat the most, not in a creepy way, just in a kind of “need to talk to someone” way.
Tiff has learned how to hone her waitress skills to provide the service her customers appreciate. She has incorporated her acting experience into this new phase in her life.
I wonder if Greg had always assumed that Tiffany’s future would be as a waitress? Surely not, as her father is still an entrepreneur. But she hasn’t reaped the rewards of that life in a very long time. It would be sad to think that the GnK team would relegate Tiff to such a future.
Tiff remembers details about her customers. She remembers what they share with her. This is beyond acting. She has moved in to caring and even though she is getting reimbursed for it, much of it would still have to be genuine.
And since her dad no longer has the leech, Tiff probably does not need the money. She appears to be actually enjoying her work and the fact that people appreciate her for the work she does. Yes, they show that appreciation with money but if gifts is your love language, that can make you feel appreciated.
We are all actors every day. That’s the socialization we are taught as children, if we are well raised. Shakespeare said the world is a stage and we are the actors.
Did I not forecast a while back that the acting bug would return? I’ll double down: Tiff will get another opportunity, and guess who she’ll be paired with for a male lead?
I know Tiffany gets dumped on a lot, but getting attacked for being good at customer service? Do you think other customer service people just legitimately like you and are always in a good mood?
It’s odd she considers her behavior acting, rather than just being nice. Even if her motive is to get tips, she’s still pleasant to customers, unless it’s Ann Awful!
If you work with people in any capacity, whether it’s customer service or colleagues we wear a face that isn’t necessarily who we really are. It’s the face that gets the job done. Everyone of us will put on a fake face if it will get us paid and the more the better.
For those of you who are commenting believing that Tiff is shallow and money-grubbing, I want you all to consider how a public servant (like a public librarian) should behave to an annoying patron. Currently, we are facing an upswing of “Constitutional Rights Audits” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Amendment_audits. Often this includes a patron wanting to enter a public library with a gun, then trying to film the ensuing conflict. “I have a right to bring this here AK 47 into this here public library and enter the children’s area” I have yet to see a librarian lose their cool while blocking the patron from entering the library. Do you really want us to behave poorly and make the six o’clock news? Are we faking it? You betcha. But we are required to be polite and civil.
I can eat something tasty at home for under $10. When I go out, I consider $10 was the value of the food, and the rest of my tab was for ambiance, company and entertainment. Over the years, I became personal friends with several servers.
I learned to act. I am basically a shy, reserved person. But I can act like the life of the party and people believe it. I’ve learned to act the part that is expected for the situation.
I think it was Sam Goldwyn who said that once you strip away all the fake tinsel in Hollywood, you find the real tinsel underneath. Tiff will fit right in.
To be a good server, you have to act. You have to smile, act cheerful and happy around all types of customers, to include the dreaded Karen. Tiffany is a survivor. She will adapt to whatever situation she is in and do what she needs to do to come out ahead.
Good point. There are actually living, breathing people who think that fiction writing (novels, short stories, plays, etc.) are no different from “lying”.
While I understand the performance aspect of public service jobs I’m pretty sure that if Bernice (or even Bets) were a waitress and saying the same things, commentators here would be posting far more scathing attacks than they are to Tiffany.
My sister worked as a Waitress all her life. She had customers whom she had known for over 30 years who would follow her to whichever restaurant she worked in whenever the Previous restaurant went out of business. Since 60% of restaurants tend to go out of business within 5 years, she & her customers had to move on more than once.
Heck, one in three restaurants won’t survive their first year. The Failure rate does level off a bit if they make it past the first year. And, for a lot of the ones that go out of business after 3 years, it is often because the Owners decided to “Refresh” the business and either Moved or Renamed it.
I know of one locally owned restaurant that was successful for over 30 years, even keeping about half of their Original Employees the entire time. Also an awful lot of their “Original Customers”. The place finally went out of business when the Owner decided to retire and none of his Kids wanted to take over that part of the business. They were able to sell the Real Estate the place sat on for a Huge amount of money. I think a Condo Developer bought the property. A one story Restaurant & its parking lot just doesn’t generate the kind of profits a Multi story Condo can.
It used to bother me a lot when running into fakes in public. But with all the acrimony out there now, a bit of smiles and B.S. would be downright wonderful in comparison.
I was going to criticize Tiffany’s attitude, but I thought it through and I can’t do it because how many people don’t pretend in their job, waiters, customer service people, even co-workers, there are many who pretend to be nice and in reality they are not, Tiffany is just being like any other human being at work!
lvlax almost 3 years ago
Tiffany loves $$$!
AnyFace almost 3 years ago
SJhapamama almost 3 years ago
Hmm, maybe the money is fake…
beb01 almost 3 years ago
And after all those good thoughts yesterday about how much Tiffany has grown up we learn that she hasn’t grown a bit.
Chocolate almost 3 years ago
Something Tiffany shouldn’t say in the dining room!
Templo S.U.D. almost 3 years ago
Something tells me Ox has never watched many movies, TV shows, or theatrical performances.
Jogger2 almost 3 years ago
Someone said “If an actor can fake sincerity, he has it made.”
Joe1962 almost 3 years ago
One day Tiffany was nice and sweet the next she is back to her old self.
lvlax almost 3 years ago
Isn’t it odd that Mr. A is giving her a tip before he’s even finished his meal??
Ruth Brown almost 3 years ago
I think Tiff overestimates her acting skills. She showed good banter skills.
howtheduck almost 3 years ago
There have been plenty of studies that have shown attractive females get the best tips. Tiffany may think it’s because of “acting”, but it’s really a lot more about being a pretty young woman. Sorry, Ox. You will never get the tips that Tiffany does.
Geeky Meerkat almost 3 years ago
For all the people acting like Tiffany hasn’t grown from this one comic, I would like to remind you she’s working in customer service. Learning how to act around customers is an important skill if you want to make those tips. You can’t for instance let a bad mood on your part ruin the customer’s experience.
And as for the money, we all need money and there is nothing wrong with Tiffany feeling good about having gotten a good tip.
mfought almost 3 years ago
an actress doesn’t remember the names of 3 grandkids of somebody she is not even related to, tiff’s ok in my book
eromlig almost 3 years ago
Sincerity is the most important past of acting… (anybody??)
Rhetorical_Question almost 3 years ago
Acting is a performance art.
capricorn9th almost 3 years ago
Tiff – you’re talking doubles. Ox has it correct. You are faking an interest in Mr A for a big tip. Well, that’s a server’s bread and butter – the tips. My son, who is now a manager of a restaurant chain, used to do what Tiff did. Memorized his regular’s orders, their names, their families’ names, etc. They loved him and he regularly brought around $200-400 in tips daily. A lot of servers, including my other son, quit because they did not get the tips he got. They couldn’t – they all wanted him. My son misses serving – hard work, yes, but the money was good. He accepted a promotion just for better hours so he could be home with family on a more regular basis. The server’s hours are unpredictable.
Johnny Q Premium Member almost 3 years ago
“If you can fake sincerity, you’ve got it made!”—George Burns
gnmnrbl almost 3 years ago
It’s called being a suck up, an insincere form of flattery for personal gain. Tiffany doesn’t like work but LOVES money. So she’ll do whatever it take to make maximum $$$$ with minimal effort. And if this means throwing cheap flattery around, so be it.
Enter.Name.Here almost 3 years ago
Fake is fake. Acting is working.
TwilightFaze almost 3 years ago
Dammit, Tiffany….just…..just dammit….
syzygy47 almost 3 years ago
One of the reasons I always prefer fast food joints. People pretending to give a rats rear end about me and/or my ‘experience’ for a gratuity. I always prefer the bottom line in what something will cost me.
J. Scarbrough almost 3 years ago
What about the breathing? The panting? The moaning? The screaming?
Whoops, wrong program.
Airman almost 3 years ago
Tiff “performs” a service. What’s good for you is good for her, and she plays her role very well. Old guys enjoy getting attention from attractive young ladies, so they too, are performing under a spotlight in a fake world. Everyone is happy, no one gets hurt, and anybody who denies this is a liar. Remember, even Nancy drew favorable attention when she was behind the bar.
Alabama Al almost 3 years ago
The key to success in life is displaying sincerity. If you can fake that, you’ve got it made.
kenhense almost 3 years ago
Tiff’s comment is the fourth wall screaming from one Swiss Alp to another.
Brdshtt Premium Member almost 3 years ago
The commentary in the middle panel could be used in a number of situations. Greg shows Tiff and OX after a date, and they are leaning back against the pillows in bed.
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“You mean you’re just faking it?”
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“No, I’m acting…”
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“Oh… Well, that’s OK, Tiffany”
luann1212 almost 3 years ago
I think she means she can really feel good interacting with customers, but the front stage performance is a what is it important. I never acted but I have had two careers with front stage as part, as a trial lawyer, and later as a community college instructor. You have to put in a persona and if you believe in what you’re doing that makes the resulting “performances” better. Does this mean Tiffany is less shallow. Yes, but it remains to be seen if she realizes herself.
Shirl Summ Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Acting is faking for [pay.
Johnnyrico almost 3 years ago
I think I will reserve comment…
daddo52 almost 3 years ago
I retract my earlier statement
Decepticomic almost 3 years ago
Oh hey! It’s Moose— I mean, Ox. I forgot he exists.
Aladar30 Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Tiffany can say what she wants, but hearing the stories of regular consumers and remembering it to talk to them is a big effort. It’s impossible to act out being kind and care of everyone every day without being able at doing it in reality. Tiffany may not even realize it, but the way she treats others has changed a lot since she’s been a waitress. Now, let’s see what she do if Stefi is one of the consumers!
Mordock999 Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Now, Now, Ox.
Don’t be dissuaded and take Tiff’s words as “shallowness,” as far too many good natured but judgmental “folks” are doing here today.
The gal has had it hard the last few years, “thanks” to her “creators.”
You don’t have everything but then, suddenly have everything taken away from you, and not be affected.
And during the course of all those bad experiences over the las few years, Tiffany’s heart has grown three sizes bigger. And NOT because of any “health problems.”
She now appreciates making a living on her own.
She’d make you a good first G/F.
You’d make her a great first B/F.
A far better “B/F” than that joker currently washing dishes in the kitchen who’s been helping himself to a percentage of Tiffany’s tips.
And “mutual agreement,” be damned. ;-)Ellis97 almost 3 years ago
So, Tiffany doesn’t actually appreciate the people in her life after all? She’s just bluffing?
Susan00100 almost 3 years ago
If that really is Snr. Aragones, we should be reading “Luann en Espagnol”.
rickmac1937 Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Finally another story line
comic reader 22 almost 3 years ago
When you work with for tips you have to be “on” to be successful. If you don’t learn how to do it you won’t make good money or have return customers. The customers don’t really want you as a personal friend, but they do want you to engage and be interested in them and their order. I’ve noticed that older men are the ones that want to chat the most, not in a creepy way, just in a kind of “need to talk to someone” way.
Tyge almost 3 years ago
Tiff has learned how to hone her waitress skills to provide the service her customers appreciate. She has incorporated her acting experience into this new phase in her life.
mourdac Premium Member almost 3 years ago
From having been a waiter when younger, the right attitude and treatment of customers helps overcome little issues which come up.
Wubbie almost 3 years ago
More disappointment for Ox.
Tyge almost 3 years ago
I wonder if Greg had always assumed that Tiffany’s future would be as a waitress? Surely not, as her father is still an entrepreneur. But she hasn’t reaped the rewards of that life in a very long time. It would be sad to think that the GnK team would relegate Tiff to such a future.
ElwoodP almost 3 years ago
she HAS grown up
DM2860 almost 3 years ago
Tiff remembers details about her customers. She remembers what they share with her. This is beyond acting. She has moved in to caring and even though she is getting reimbursed for it, much of it would still have to be genuine.
And since her dad no longer has the leech, Tiff probably does not need the money. She appears to be actually enjoying her work and the fact that people appreciate her for the work she does. Yes, they show that appreciation with money but if gifts is your love language, that can make you feel appreciated.
mckeonfuneralhomebx almost 3 years ago
So every married woman is an actress???
mjgaillard almost 3 years ago
We are all actors every day. That’s the socialization we are taught as children, if we are well raised. Shakespeare said the world is a stage and we are the actors.
Lord Hearteater almost 3 years ago
Did I not forecast a while back that the acting bug would return? I’ll double down: Tiff will get another opportunity, and guess who she’ll be paired with for a male lead?
Quill.
oakie817 almost 3 years ago
i still see these two together one day
BJShipley1 almost 3 years ago
I know Tiffany gets dumped on a lot, but getting attacked for being good at customer service? Do you think other customer service people just legitimately like you and are always in a good mood?
OHSOFUN almost 3 years ago
It doesn’t matter if her kindness is genuine or if she’s acting. The recipients benefit either way.
Tyge almost 3 years ago
I wonder if Sergio Aragonés’ grandkids are really named Ruby, Opal and Amber?
Huckleberry Hiroshima almost 3 years ago
Faking. Lying. Acting. All reap rewards, sadly.
kaycstamper almost 3 years ago
And I was thinking good thoughts about her yesterday! All taken back…
Same2Ubuddy almost 3 years ago
My comments deserve more upvotes.
YorkGirl Premium Member almost 3 years ago
It’s odd she considers her behavior acting, rather than just being nice. Even if her motive is to get tips, she’s still pleasant to customers, unless it’s Ann Awful!
katzpawz1a almost 3 years ago
Maybe she’s “acting” with Ox and being honest with the customers?
LFate almost 3 years ago
If you work with people in any capacity, whether it’s customer service or colleagues we wear a face that isn’t necessarily who we really are. It’s the face that gets the job done. Everyone of us will put on a fake face if it will get us paid and the more the better.
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace almost 3 years ago
Good practice for better paying acting, too.
198.23.5.11 almost 3 years ago
Kiss my grits.
dbradway1 almost 3 years ago
Sigh. I shoulda known.
Katecst almost 3 years ago
For those of you who are commenting believing that Tiff is shallow and money-grubbing, I want you all to consider how a public servant (like a public librarian) should behave to an annoying patron. Currently, we are facing an upswing of “Constitutional Rights Audits” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Amendment_audits. Often this includes a patron wanting to enter a public library with a gun, then trying to film the ensuing conflict. “I have a right to bring this here AK 47 into this here public library and enter the children’s area” I have yet to see a librarian lose their cool while blocking the patron from entering the library. Do you really want us to behave poorly and make the six o’clock news? Are we faking it? You betcha. But we are required to be polite and civil.
kenhense almost 3 years ago
I can eat something tasty at home for under $10. When I go out, I consider $10 was the value of the food, and the rest of my tab was for ambiance, company and entertainment. Over the years, I became personal friends with several servers.
GirlGeek Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Honestly it’s how I get through work.
CitizenOfTheValley almost 3 years ago
I learned to act. I am basically a shy, reserved person. But I can act like the life of the party and people believe it. I’ve learned to act the part that is expected for the situation.
craig kisro almost 3 years ago
Just noticed the K2 on their uniforms. Thought I was in the Bizarro strip for a second.
Need coffee almost 3 years ago
I think it was Sam Goldwyn who said that once you strip away all the fake tinsel in Hollywood, you find the real tinsel underneath. Tiff will fit right in.
DG almost 3 years ago
To be a good server, you have to act. You have to smile, act cheerful and happy around all types of customers, to include the dreaded Karen. Tiffany is a survivor. She will adapt to whatever situation she is in and do what she needs to do to come out ahead.
AndrewSihler almost 3 years ago
Good point. There are actually living, breathing people who think that fiction writing (novels, short stories, plays, etc.) are no different from “lying”.
BuckarooDave almost 3 years ago
Does Ox ask Tiffany out on a date before the week is out?
stay tooned !!!
jimsndguy Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Well…. You can’t pay people to care, but you can certainly pay them to pretend (to care).
kauri44 almost 3 years ago
While I understand the performance aspect of public service jobs I’m pretty sure that if Bernice (or even Bets) were a waitress and saying the same things, commentators here would be posting far more scathing attacks than they are to Tiffany.
RonBerg13 Premium Member almost 3 years ago
Honesty is the best policy.
bakana almost 3 years ago
Making Friends with customers can pay off.
My sister worked as a Waitress all her life. She had customers whom she had known for over 30 years who would follow her to whichever restaurant she worked in whenever the Previous restaurant went out of business. Since 60% of restaurants tend to go out of business within 5 years, she & her customers had to move on more than once.
Heck, one in three restaurants won’t survive their first year. The Failure rate does level off a bit if they make it past the first year. And, for a lot of the ones that go out of business after 3 years, it is often because the Owners decided to “Refresh” the business and either Moved or Renamed it.
I know of one locally owned restaurant that was successful for over 30 years, even keeping about half of their Original Employees the entire time. Also an awful lot of their “Original Customers”. The place finally went out of business when the Owner decided to retire and none of his Kids wanted to take over that part of the business. They were able to sell the Real Estate the place sat on for a Huge amount of money. I think a Condo Developer bought the property. A one story Restaurant & its parking lot just doesn’t generate the kind of profits a Multi story Condo can.
kittysquared Premium Member almost 3 years ago
I wish Tiffany hadn’t diminished her own gracious behavior by making a mercenary excuse for it.
Alia Noora almost 3 years ago
Seriously? I THOUGHT Tiffany was being nice.
Sisyphos almost 3 years ago
I’m sure Tiffany understands her distinction, but I’m not sure I do.
But if her acting keeps the customers happy, and her happy, I deem it a Good Thing ( fake or not)….
BlitzMcD almost 3 years ago
It used to bother me a lot when running into fakes in public. But with all the acrimony out there now, a bit of smiles and B.S. would be downright wonderful in comparison.
Black76Manta almost 3 years ago
I was going to criticize Tiffany’s attitude, but I thought it through and I can’t do it because how many people don’t pretend in their job, waiters, customer service people, even co-workers, there are many who pretend to be nice and in reality they are not, Tiffany is just being like any other human being at work!