I thought of a new game today. When will Ben remember why he came over to Luann’s house? He said why yesterday but Luann never answered him. So how long is it going to take for him to ask again?
Well, OK…Ben is not offended at all… he even volunteered the description of himself as “pudgy, shaggy and sloppy” with no defensiveness or anger. He knows what he looks like to people, and, with a smile, owns it.
But, this is not a real advancement in the story. Still waiting to hear more backstory, and whether he will own the other “elephant in the room”.
Just how long has it been, Ben? Can we reconcile real time here, with Luann time? Two kids, acquired the normal way, or maybe rescued or adopted to justify a shortened time required to obtain a family?
Ben nails it. “yeah.. I mean no.. I didn’t mean what I meant…” the constant confusion and inability to be focused (the unchanged part of Luann); the response of a thirteen year old who blurts out thoughts as they come, only to take them back and re-think them…. out loud.
God the Luann haters! She is just flustered and embarrassed an entirely normal human emotion; she hasn’t seen this young man for years. I have critiqued that anytime any man is shown in a set of panels with Luann some muse romance, silly I think. I have also speculated that Ben could be a romance interest, mutually, with Luann, also silly. But for some odd reason I think it is more likely now that not. We shall see as the panels march on.
Ben’s right. Luann hasn’t changed much. But, this isn’t the first time Luann “has inserted foot in mouth.” I can recall Lu making a rather careless unflattering reference “about heavy set” folks around Dez. Several times as I recall. And it was to point where Luann wished someone would tell her shoosh.
But to be fair, Luann isn’t the only young adult that has made thoughtless remarks. Tiffany once “fat shamed” a cafeteria worker to her face back in HS. And she once remarked to Crystal about how some “folks let themselves go” after spotting an overweight couple. But of course, Karma eventually caught up with Tiff, and she found herself in the SAME “boat.”
Still you gotta hand it to Ben. After all he’s been through, he’s smiling and taking Luann’s unfortunate “comments” in stride. However, if Bernice continues to live at Casa DeGroot, he may want to seriously consider calling or texting his sis instead of just “dropping over,” to avoid any future “unpleasantness.” ;)
In the first panel, Puddles is pulling the leash hard. He’s basically saying, “No, don’t get involved with him! Stay away! You’ll be sorry! And anyway, I need to pee! Let’s go!”
Ban looks so happy to see Luann after years♡. He’s really a nice man. I hope more and more to know what happened to him to have to ask his biological parents for help.
I am reading through the comments. Ben has spent a few terms in the military. He has opportunities. He can look for a GS job. He can look into his educational benefits. He can look into VA benefits. Ben has the ability to land on his feet.
Except for being pudgy, he looks like my husband when I met him. He was back from Vietnam, and had just gone thru a heartbreaking divorce. He cleaned himself up after meety me. I didn’t ask him to. He just did it. By giving him a chance, I gave him something to live for.
I see no romance. I do see a lot of asinine comments about his appearance, even after the character mentioned it himself, almost to disarm and defuse the awkwardness, and then is slightly amused, (not condescending) with Luann’s awkwardness nevertheless. He also seems comfortable in his own skin. But that will still inspire comments about him, and her, mostly negative. Of course
Ben’s actually looking pretty good and I’m meaning mentally/emotionally. The physical look is his to do as he picks or to fit the environment he’s in comfortably. The reason I comment on the mental/emotional appearance is for some who’ve served (while focused for military/former military first responders also qualify) it’s easy to get “lost in the fog”/1000 yard stare/PTSD because of the experience they go through. To help understand some of it for those who haven’t met people who’ve “been there” I’ll suggest the movie Restrepo. It’s a documentary that’s done very well and is very open.
Luann would be so much more interesting if she quit being an idiot. Or is there a medical reason for this decline in her behavior? Does she have Tourette’s? ADD? Did she fall and hit her head? I’m serious. They write her character like someone with a disability.
Yep, still either overthinking things or engaging mouth before brain. But, lovable in her own way. When do we get Ben’s story? And will Bernice show up in time to interrupt?
I think Ben needs to be introduced to Jack. Ben is close enough in age, Jack is active. Maybe an active friend would be able to help Ben with some of his weight issues.
the interesting thing is that Ben’s comments about Luann may very well have to do with her having NOT changed physically, just as her comments (hemming and hawing) refer to his physical changes. While Ben is a perceptive guy, he’s still a guy. But i think he’s referring to the whole package i.e. she looks the same… she acts the same.
Templo S.U.D. about 4 years ago
that’s (somehow) a relief
AnyFace about 4 years ago
New boyfriend? ✨
Space_Owl on GoComics about 4 years ago
He looks like Bernice with a beard.
Argythree about 4 years ago
To those who were certain that a love interest had entered the picture: not.
beb01 about 4 years ago
I thought of a new game today. When will Ben remember why he came over to Luann’s house? He said why yesterday but Luann never answered him. So how long is it going to take for him to ask again?
Brdshtt Premium Member about 4 years ago
When he says she has not changed at all, it could be taken several ways.
Prescott_Philosopher about 4 years ago
Hmm, Ben has come to the same conclusion that many readers have
Namrepus about 4 years ago
She still has Porky Pig Speech Syndrome.
Cheapskate0 about 4 years ago
Prescott_Philosopher beat me to it.
ZeMastor about 4 years ago
Well, OK…Ben is not offended at all… he even volunteered the description of himself as “pudgy, shaggy and sloppy” with no defensiveness or anger. He knows what he looks like to people, and, with a smile, owns it.
But, this is not a real advancement in the story. Still waiting to hear more backstory, and whether he will own the other “elephant in the room”.
capricorn9th about 4 years ago
Yep, Ben, you said it. You can count on her not changing. She’s quite dependable in that area.
Airman about 4 years ago
Just how long has it been, Ben? Can we reconcile real time here, with Luann time? Two kids, acquired the normal way, or maybe rescued or adopted to justify a shortened time required to obtain a family?
PeterPirate about 4 years ago
Pudgy, shaggy, sloppy, and condescending.
Caldonia about 4 years ago
We know, Ben. We know.
Joe1962 about 4 years ago
Luann is very condescending.
RSH about 4 years ago
Ben nails it. “yeah.. I mean no.. I didn’t mean what I meant…” the constant confusion and inability to be focused (the unchanged part of Luann); the response of a thirteen year old who blurts out thoughts as they come, only to take them back and re-think them…. out loud.
luann1212 about 4 years ago
God the Luann haters! She is just flustered and embarrassed an entirely normal human emotion; she hasn’t seen this young man for years. I have critiqued that anytime any man is shown in a set of panels with Luann some muse romance, silly I think. I have also speculated that Ben could be a romance interest, mutually, with Luann, also silly. But for some odd reason I think it is more likely now that not. We shall see as the panels march on.
SJhapamama about 4 years ago
Ben has a “dad body”! ;-)
Don Draper about 4 years ago
How does that foot taste, Luann?
Jabroniville Premium Member about 4 years ago
I’m reminded of Bern’s casual “Tiff got fat” remark. How many people are gonna gain weight over a break in this strip, lol?
kenhense about 4 years ago
Luann means well…
Rhetorical_Question about 4 years ago
Here is Luann and Bernice ( 16 yrs old in High School) when Sergeant Ben York is introduced to the strip.
https://www.gocomics.com/luann/2007/01/22Romantic Fantasy https://www.gocomics.com/luann/2007/02/13
It has been 4 years since high school.
Mordock999 Premium Member about 4 years ago
Ben’s right. Luann hasn’t changed much. But, this isn’t the first time Luann “has inserted foot in mouth.” I can recall Lu making a rather careless unflattering reference “about heavy set” folks around Dez. Several times as I recall. And it was to point where Luann wished someone would tell her shoosh.
But to be fair, Luann isn’t the only young adult that has made thoughtless remarks. Tiffany once “fat shamed” a cafeteria worker to her face back in HS. And she once remarked to Crystal about how some “folks let themselves go” after spotting an overweight couple. But of course, Karma eventually caught up with Tiff, and she found herself in the SAME “boat.”
Still you gotta hand it to Ben. After all he’s been through, he’s smiling and taking Luann’s unfortunate “comments” in stride. However, if Bernice continues to live at Casa DeGroot, he may want to seriously consider calling or texting his sis instead of just “dropping over,” to avoid any future “unpleasantness.” ;)
ACTIVIST1234 about 4 years ago
Ben apparently thinks cluster is flattering. At least on Luann
BradFilippone about 4 years ago
In the first panel, Puddles is pulling the leash hard. He’s basically saying, “No, don’t get involved with him! Stay away! You’ll be sorry! And anyway, I need to pee! Let’s go!”
FassEddie about 4 years ago
PTSD? There’s a lotta bad stuff to see in-country. Maybe we should get the heck out of those places and give our youngsters a better future.
Aladar30 Premium Member about 4 years ago
Ban looks so happy to see Luann after years♡. He’s really a nice man. I hope more and more to know what happened to him to have to ask his biological parents for help.
Rocknaww about 4 years ago
I am reading through the comments. Ben has spent a few terms in the military. He has opportunities. He can look for a GS job. He can look into his educational benefits. He can look into VA benefits. Ben has the ability to land on his feet.
dv1093 about 4 years ago
Not a good first impression for me.
cabalonrye about 4 years ago
I love it when Luann trips over her own tongue.
monkeyhead about 4 years ago
“I was trying to say you looked happy.”
jaydogg187 about 4 years ago
For years I was wondering if Aaron Hill was to receive this treatment if ever they were to bring him back.
Otis Rufus Driftwood about 4 years ago
Ben of course expresses in the last panel what lots of commenters have said here about Luann for months now.
Willow Mt Lyon about 4 years ago
Except for being pudgy, he looks like my husband when I met him. He was back from Vietnam, and had just gone thru a heartbreaking divorce. He cleaned himself up after meety me. I didn’t ask him to. He just did it. By giving him a chance, I gave him something to live for.
Terminal Frost Premium Member about 4 years ago
I see no romance. I do see a lot of asinine comments about his appearance, even after the character mentioned it himself, almost to disarm and defuse the awkwardness, and then is slightly amused, (not condescending) with Luann’s awkwardness nevertheless. He also seems comfortable in his own skin. But that will still inspire comments about him, and her, mostly negative. Of course
ahess247 about 4 years ago
Ugh. Why talk about boyfriends? Why does that matter?
Pohka about 4 years ago
Ben’s actually looking pretty good and I’m meaning mentally/emotionally. The physical look is his to do as he picks or to fit the environment he’s in comfortably. The reason I comment on the mental/emotional appearance is for some who’ve served (while focused for military/former military first responders also qualify) it’s easy to get “lost in the fog”/1000 yard stare/PTSD because of the experience they go through. To help understand some of it for those who haven’t met people who’ve “been there” I’ll suggest the movie Restrepo. It’s a documentary that’s done very well and is very open.
comic reader 22 about 4 years ago
Luann would be so much more interesting if she quit being an idiot. Or is there a medical reason for this decline in her behavior? Does she have Tourette’s? ADD? Did she fall and hit her head? I’m serious. They write her character like someone with a disability.
Camiyami Premium Member about 4 years ago
He looks a bit like John Lennon.
Michael G. about 4 years ago
Did you wash those feet this morning, Luann?
Tyge about 4 years ago
That’s the point, isn’t it! Luann hasn’t changed at all!
ForrestOverin about 4 years ago
AND WE HAVE A WINNER! Good Gawdamighty, Ben, that was PERFECT!
ForrestOverin about 4 years ago
Jebus, Luann, put your mouth in neutral instead of revving it like that!
timbob2313 Premium Member about 4 years ago
Luann does not have a filter on her mouth, this has been a running “gag” since the strip started.
YorkGirl Premium Member about 4 years ago
Yep, still either overthinking things or engaging mouth before brain. But, lovable in her own way. When do we get Ben’s story? And will Bernice show up in time to interrupt?
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace about 4 years ago
People who aren’t afraid of the truth are good unless they aren’t afraid because they distance themselves from it.
swanridge about 4 years ago
WAY too close. Keep your six foot distance! Yes, comic strip characters have died in the past too.
DG about 4 years ago
I think Ben needs to be introduced to Jack. Ben is close enough in age, Jack is active. Maybe an active friend would be able to help Ben with some of his weight issues.
RSH about 4 years ago
the interesting thing is that Ben’s comments about Luann may very well have to do with her having NOT changed physically, just as her comments (hemming and hawing) refer to his physical changes. While Ben is a perceptive guy, he’s still a guy. But i think he’s referring to the whole package i.e. she looks the same… she acts the same.
Ellis97 about 4 years ago
Boy, at this point, I assumed the writers kinda forgot that Bernice had a brother.
percheronhitch6 about 4 years ago
Actually, Ben might ground her a bit. He’s older and wiser. Appearances aren’t everything.
rklynch about 4 years ago
I dunno… It looks like he’s wearing a wig to me..
Troglodyte about 4 years ago
Ben there, done that?
rhonda Premium Member about 4 years ago
Brutal bluntness must be a family trait. Sheesh. Bern and Ben both need a LuAnn filter.
Johnnyrico about 4 years ago
I don’t remember this Jerry Garcia wannabe.
kenhense about 4 years ago
Time for Luann to look a little more slutty (just a little).
LeighBurton about 4 years ago
He will not get a free meal on Veteran’s Day looking like that!
LeighBurton about 4 years ago
Bernice’s brother has not had a haircut or shave in 13 years, which is about 4 Luann years!
BlitzMcD about 4 years ago
Touche! in the final panel. He nailed it.
Sisyphos about 4 years ago
Ben says it all!
He’s grown, aged.
Luann hasn’t changed at all, and that’s sad….
realdeedizzle about 4 years ago
legend of a mind – moody blues. have most of their albums ( yes vinyl)
jea9hrkr about 4 years ago
He has done a lot – but now not only is he married, but how shall we say this – not a healthy choice.
Ceeg22 Premium Member about 4 years ago
Pretty judgy comment from a fat slob