The chief memory I have of when our daughter was born was spending the night while she was being induced. I fell asleep to the cries of a young girl “Momma make it stop!” I woke up in the morning to “Momma, make it stop!” Only it was a different girl.
My other memory was being unexpected handed a seven pound swaddled baby fresh from being washed. My wife was strapped down for the C-Section so I had to hold it for her. It was one of the scariest moment in my life, I had no idea what to do next (aside from not dropping her).
A fearless, selfless, young woman, who, on a DAILY basis, puts her life on the line to save others, afraid to have a heart to heart talk with her husband about having children.
Good girl, Toni. Finally being honest with your feelings rather than being rational and come up with all reasons why you shouldn’t. You’re a good aunt to Shannon and you rearranged the house to add a room to give Shannon a bedroom while she’s at your house. You’ve got mother instincts that helped you raise your brother. Yes it must have been tough as a young single woman. You survived and made it. At that time you were not ready for being responsible for a minor child but now you are. It’ll be your own child and not a sibling. You have Brad and his whole family and TJ who of course will be the family uncle. Your child will be blessed.
When you’re conflicted about a decision, flip a coin. You will feel a certain way depending on how the coin flip goes. That is an indication of which decision you want to make.
Don’t worry, we’ll probably go to a new arc on Monday and this will be forgotten completely, just like that time Toni tried standing up to Jonah, only to cave in again and then never try again in the seven years since then.
Asking someone else if they think you’re ready to be a mom is not the way to go.. a woman is the only one who can answer that. Many years ago my daughter asked me " Mom, would you be upset if you were never a grandmother?" I said " honey, you have a child because you want to have a child, not because someone wants to be a dad, or your brother wants to be an uncle…you have a child because you want to, or you won’t be a good mom
There are people out there who’s big goal in life is to be a parent and raise a family. Those are the only people who are ever really ready to have a baby. With most people, when it happens, it happens, and they either just sort of fall into the parenthood role, or they fail at it.
“Kinda” is not something you think about with having kids Toni. Remember they are a 24 Hour, 7 Days A Week, 52 Weeks A Year for 18-21 Years Responsibility!So many people do not realize that till after they have a Child then it’s to late.
A lot of us saw the end of today’s strip coming; solid arc here. We’ll get a different arc on Monday, in all probability, but this one will linger in the background, and resurface again during 2024. We’re about due to revisit Bets & Gun.
According to The Zen of Our Be❤️loved Ann❤️Eiffel… Kind Of Feeling Like You’re Ready to be a Mom Means You Ain’t, Even worse, According to the Gospel of Our Wise Ann❤️Eiffel Not Being Ready for a Rug Rat and Not Wanting a Cracker Cruncher and Having the Pee Stick Indictor go to Plus… is Really Bad Hoo Doo, Bro. And thusly heretofore the Sage Advice and Wisdom of Exotic Ann❤️Eiffel Kicks In: “People Cause Accidents and Accidents Cause People”. Boom! So let’s be careful out there. With that Your Be❤️ed Hero, The Patriotic❤️Count must bid you fondu adieu …. And like Incredible Ann❤️Eiffle tells us… Let’s Be Careful Out There… TTFN… Onward and Upward and On to St Patrick’s Day!!! A ❤️Favorite! Count… OUT!
The big question is – are Toni and TJ going to keep this secret from Brad? And what happens when TJ slips up and mentions the test? I really don’t like the way Toni is leaving her husband out of this very important development. It makes her, well, both of them, conspirators against poor dumb Brad.
Toni has a really sweet and melancholy expression. It’s really nice to see how the possibility of being pregnant made her rethink about the whole thing. Now really looks like the fear she had has gone away. I think TJ’s opinion that she would be a good mother helped her clear her mind. Brad adores Toni, but maybe that for her might mean that his judgment about her abilities is unreliable. Because he thinks she’s exceptional, while she doesn’t feel to be exceptional but to be very confused and unprepared.
I am not surprised this arc ended this way, but given potential, misdirection plays I hesitated to predict. Anyone pick up how loving and skilfull TJ is in being a really good friend.
I’m glad Toni is having these doubts and thinking first. That means she takes seriously this decision about whether to have kids. This is not a decision to make lightly because it involves raising babies who will become adults; the people raising them should be absolutely sure they want to be doing it and for the right reasons. Otherwise, they will screw up the kids. Unfortunately, far too many people don’t realize what a serious job it is and do it for the wrong reasons.
When I was 34, I went to my GYN, because I had been “late”, and he did some test and said that I wasn’t, but I insisted I was, so he said he would do a blood test.. later he called me at home, and said that I was right!
I want to know why she’s confiding all this stuff to TJ. This is something that Brad should hear before anyone else, ESPECIALLY TJ. Sometimes I think G&K aren’t thinking straight. Will Brad & Toni end up divorced? weird.
My wife’s whole goal in life was to be a Mom. She was devastated when she wasn’t pregnant within six weeks of marriage. We corrected that in a couple more months.
lvlax 8 months ago
Well, I’m sure Brad will love to hear this new development
Would Toni completely quit being a firefighter if she had a child?
Would TJ split? Lot of questions…
Namrepus 8 months ago
Somebody pretty crucial is still missing in this conversation.
Joe1962 8 months ago
Toni and Brad have a serious discussion, about when if they want a family, and what it entails.
alasko 8 months ago
Adopt Shannon.
GirlGeek Premium Member 8 months ago
I knew Karen would do this…don’t give Toni and Brad a bad arc
ronaldspence 8 months ago
you certainly have the practice caring for Shannon!
beb01 8 months ago
The chief memory I have of when our daughter was born was spending the night while she was being induced. I fell asleep to the cries of a young girl “Momma make it stop!” I woke up in the morning to “Momma, make it stop!” Only it was a different girl.
My other memory was being unexpected handed a seven pound swaddled baby fresh from being washed. My wife was strapped down for the C-Section so I had to hold it for her. It was one of the scariest moment in my life, I had no idea what to do next (aside from not dropping her).
diazch408 8 months ago
Toni will be ready for parenthood, no doubt.
Mordock999 Premium Member 8 months ago
Toni Daytona DeGroot:
A fearless, selfless, young woman, who, on a DAILY basis, puts her life on the line to save others, afraid to have a heart to heart talk with her husband about having children.
Yeah, riiiiiiiiiiiight…….,
Dinner had better be GOOD.
e.professor 8 months ago
Leaving the pee-stick on the kitchen table cannot be sanitary. I hope she moves it or Brad might use it as a soup spoon.
Caldonia 8 months ago
TJ, you look weird. Are you on the goofballs? Is that why you thought it was okay to invade her privacy?
9thCapricorn 8 months ago
Good girl, Toni. Finally being honest with your feelings rather than being rational and come up with all reasons why you shouldn’t. You’re a good aunt to Shannon and you rearranged the house to add a room to give Shannon a bedroom while she’s at your house. You’ve got mother instincts that helped you raise your brother. Yes it must have been tough as a young single woman. You survived and made it. At that time you were not ready for being responsible for a minor child but now you are. It’ll be your own child and not a sibling. You have Brad and his whole family and TJ who of course will be the family uncle. Your child will be blessed.
pearlsbs 8 months ago
If we all waited until we were ready to be parents, humans would become extinct.
Ahuehuete 8 months ago
They’re going to find out that they can’t have kids
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace 8 months ago
Go for it. Doubts will follow.
Jason Allen 8 months ago
When you’re conflicted about a decision, flip a coin. You will feel a certain way depending on how the coin flip goes. That is an indication of which decision you want to make.
BJShipley1 8 months ago
Don’t worry, we’ll probably go to a new arc on Monday and this will be forgotten completely, just like that time Toni tried standing up to Jonah, only to cave in again and then never try again in the seven years since then.
WomanWarrior 8 months ago
So Toni leaves the peed-on stick on the kitchen table? Well, alrighty then….
Ordinary Average Guy 8 months ago
NAILED IT!
Last Rose Of Summer Premium Member 8 months ago
Something tells me this is gonna be a long arc.
Rhetorical_Question 8 months ago
Is it time for TJ and Tiffany?
overtherainbow 8 months ago
So cool seeing TJ and Toni having a serious conversation. TJ’s doing a great job!
PoodleGroomer 8 months ago
Practice, practice, practice.
Rhetorical_Question 8 months ago
The stick is negative and she is late?
fretlessman71 8 months ago
Kinda digging the grown-up responsible sounding board TJ. He’s come a long way.
nightflight 8 months ago
I don’t remember. Did Toni ask TJ’s advice on whether or not to marry Brad? The decisions don’t get any easier.
snsurone76 8 months ago
Toni is already “mother” to a 6-year old hellion! That enough should be a discouragement to real-life parenthood.
R.W.Singer -SF 8 months ago
TJ can help!! Brad isn’t getting it done…..TJ to the rescue!!
howtheduck 8 months ago
You can have it all Toni. Be a modern woman and be both pregnant and not pregnant.
Fedup Bear 8 months ago
Asking someone else if they think you’re ready to be a mom is not the way to go.. a woman is the only one who can answer that. Many years ago my daughter asked me " Mom, would you be upset if you were never a grandmother?" I said " honey, you have a child because you want to have a child, not because someone wants to be a dad, or your brother wants to be an uncle…you have a child because you want to, or you won’t be a good mom
blunebottle 8 months ago
Aww…I’ve seen women go through this range of emotions when this happens.
Wilkins068 8 months ago
Next week: Bets is showin Gunter a stick just like this one here
The week after: Irma is showing Al a stick just like this one here
Who goes the week after that to keep this all running? Mark Trail an Cherry? Alley Oop an Ooola? Mary Worth and Judge Parker?
Right in to April Fool’s
Dave.wood 8 months ago
Lucky Brad is gonna get jumped tonight!
bh05150 8 months ago
I think at this point, most of us are just glad they didn’t turn this into a Roe vs Wade situation.
French Persons Premium Member 8 months ago
There are people out there who’s big goal in life is to be a parent and raise a family. Those are the only people who are ever really ready to have a baby. With most people, when it happens, it happens, and they either just sort of fall into the parenthood role, or they fail at it.
JohnWThompsonIII 8 months ago
She has been a mom to her niece all these years she is ready.
sueb1863 8 months ago
Test again or go to the doctor and make sure it’s not a false negative.
stealth694 8 months ago
“Kinda” is not something you think about with having kids Toni. Remember they are a 24 Hour, 7 Days A Week, 52 Weeks A Year for 18-21 Years Responsibility!So many people do not realize that till after they have a Child then it’s to late.
Rasslebear 8 months ago
Has TJ ever given anyone good advice?
DawnQuinn1 8 months ago
Why would she quit being a firefighter? There are lots of firefighting moms.
cdillon85 8 months ago
She is already half-raising her irresponsible brother’s daughter.
Ellis97 8 months ago
Could this development be a foreshadowing of something really big? Maybe a new chapter in Brad and Toni’s lives?
wolfiiig 8 months ago
Marriage implies children. And I recognize relationships that don’t. We’re all adults here.
Ichabod Ferguson 8 months ago
Toni puts the stick down and TJ accidentally stirs the pot with it.
steveconkey2003 8 months ago
Brad’s not going to be happy that see is sharing all this with TJ and and him.
reedkomicks Premium Member 8 months ago
Is Brad shooting blanks?!
Call me Ishmael 8 months ago
I kinda miss Tiffany.
lemonbaskt 8 months ago
what a sleeping pill
BuckarooDave 8 months ago
Monday: Bets & Gun, a new adventure! :-/
mountainclimber 8 months ago
I guess a lot of readers might look forward to many weeks/months of pregnancy and infant care. Speaking only for myself, I hope not.
Lord Hearteater 8 months ago
A lot of us saw the end of today’s strip coming; solid arc here. We’ll get a different arc on Monday, in all probability, but this one will linger in the background, and resurface again during 2024. We’re about due to revisit Bets & Gun.
poppacapsmokeblower 8 months ago
“You don’t always get what you want, but sometimes you get what you need.”
Count Olaf Premium Member 8 months ago
According to The Zen of Our Be❤️loved Ann❤️Eiffel… Kind Of Feeling Like You’re Ready to be a Mom Means You Ain’t, Even worse, According to the Gospel of Our Wise Ann❤️Eiffel Not Being Ready for a Rug Rat and Not Wanting a Cracker Cruncher and Having the Pee Stick Indictor go to Plus… is Really Bad Hoo Doo, Bro. And thusly heretofore the Sage Advice and Wisdom of Exotic Ann❤️Eiffel Kicks In: “People Cause Accidents and Accidents Cause People”. Boom! So let’s be careful out there. With that Your Be❤️ed Hero, The Patriotic❤️Count must bid you fondu adieu …. And like Incredible Ann❤️Eiffle tells us… Let’s Be Careful Out There… TTFN… Onward and Upward and On to St Patrick’s Day!!! A ❤️Favorite! Count… OUT!
dblbaraje 8 months ago
Maybe she didn’t wait long enough. Maybe next week, the second line will appear!
GaryCooper 8 months ago
Toni, don’t put that nasty thing on the dining table.
tcayer 8 months ago
NONE of this conversation should be happening with TJ!
Bruce1253 8 months ago
Well while you are making up your mind, its time for more practice. Keep going at it until you get it right.
preacherman Premium Member 8 months ago
Toni has always been the real beauty of this strip. But, now that she’s contemplating motherhood, there’s a special beauty about her.
Tetonbil 8 months ago
It is the biological imperative! Can’t fight it. When that clock goes off, look out!
comic reader 22 8 months ago
The big question is – are Toni and TJ going to keep this secret from Brad? And what happens when TJ slips up and mentions the test? I really don’t like the way Toni is leaving her husband out of this very important development. It makes her, well, both of them, conspirators against poor dumb Brad.
Aladar30 Premium Member 8 months ago
Toni has a really sweet and melancholy expression. It’s really nice to see how the possibility of being pregnant made her rethink about the whole thing. Now really looks like the fear she had has gone away. I think TJ’s opinion that she would be a good mother helped her clear her mind. Brad adores Toni, but maybe that for her might mean that his judgment about her abilities is unreliable. Because he thinks she’s exceptional, while she doesn’t feel to be exceptional but to be very confused and unprepared.
ridenslide65 8 months ago
It’s so ridiculous these conversations always involve TJ..
johnaapc 8 months ago
A real mom wouldn’t have laid the pee soaked test strip down on the table!
Will E. Makeit Premium Member 8 months ago
Three’s Company or a crowd…TJ take a hint will ya…Toni take a hint will ya…HEY BRAD, take a hint will ya?
Drbarb71 Premium Member 8 months ago
She’s putting her pee stick on the table. EW
luann1212 8 months ago
I am not surprised this arc ended this way, but given potential, misdirection plays I hesitated to predict. Anyone pick up how loving and skilfull TJ is in being a really good friend.
MuddyUSA Premium Member 8 months ago
Live a little first…….
Sir Toby 8 months ago
Shouldn’t Toni be having this conversation with Brad?
bdmiles1 8 months ago
Get that urine-soaked stick off the kitchen table, wash the table & then go wash your hands, Toni. Ew!
Riskfinder Premium Member 8 months ago
Wow, TJ being the adult in the room.
(Meh) 8 months ago
GET THE PEED-ON STICK OFF THE FOOD TABLE!!! GEEZ!!!
live2read 8 months ago
I’m glad Toni is having these doubts and thinking first. That means she takes seriously this decision about whether to have kids. This is not a decision to make lightly because it involves raising babies who will become adults; the people raising them should be absolutely sure they want to be doing it and for the right reasons. Otherwise, they will screw up the kids. Unfortunately, far too many people don’t realize what a serious job it is and do it for the wrong reasons.
suelou 8 months ago
When I was 34, I went to my GYN, because I had been “late”, and he did some test and said that I wasn’t, but I insisted I was, so he said he would do a blood test.. later he called me at home, and said that I was right!
Fuzzy Kombu 8 months ago
Our authors know how to keep the audience engaged, don’t they just.
The Quiet One 8 months ago
Of course you are, and you would be a good mom.
stevenfrey 8 months ago
Why is Toni even discussing any of this with TJ before Brad?
TravelinMan 8 months ago
Plot twist: Toni accidentally purchased the menopause-indicator test.
Otis Rufus Driftwood 8 months ago
Will we see Brad and Toni discuss this next week? Stay tuned.
StoicLion1973 8 months ago
Toni, get therapy!
Amina Rush 8 months ago
Tj is a great friend and therapist!
JPuzzleWhiz 8 months ago
Oh, look — it’s the month of Greg! (See panel 1.)
FunnyPageLover 8 months ago
I want to know why she’s confiding all this stuff to TJ. This is something that Brad should hear before anyone else, ESPECIALLY TJ. Sometimes I think G&K aren’t thinking straight. Will Brad & Toni end up divorced? weird.
Ukko wilko 8 months ago
Moms are the best things in the world.
Ukko wilko 8 months ago
My wife’s whole goal in life was to be a Mom. She was devastated when she wasn’t pregnant within six weeks of marriage. We corrected that in a couple more months.
MarieStanford 8 months ago
Yay!!
majobis. 8 months ago
Judging from having Shannon around they would be excellent parents
[Unnamed Reader - 14b4ce] 8 months ago
She’ll just teach the kid to climb ladders at an early age
Ceeg22 Premium Member 8 months ago
You’re having this conversation with the wrong person