I was expecting a week of Luann applying for jobs and getting shot down every time. A week of people badgering Toni about getting pregnant? I think Greg has found the formula to keep me away for the week, (Don’t cheer all at once).
That is way too personal of a question. Never ask that to a childless couple. Same as at a class reunion, never say, “I thought you would be the last one to have a baby at 20.” Two people who never even talked to me in high school said that to me at our 20th reunion. I almost cried because that wasn’t my first pregnancy, and I didn’t go to my 25th reunion because of it.
They trained to make rescues and fight fires, having a baby is something that is almost possible to prepare for…plus, fires eventually go out…parenting…well…
Okay, I suspect that the loudmouth, who thanks to Mordy I will now call Mr Jetson, has just given Brad the idea to push this issue and it will likely blow up in the dude’s face. Look, a lot of people really want a family but its one of the biggest decision Toni Daytona has to consider in her life. There are lots of reasons to wait or not want a kid right now such as:
A) Financial, do they have the coin to have a kid. It appears that they are not floating in the money, if they were, I suspect they would have already said bon voyage to TJ. Perhaps she tells Brad that they have to support themselves without a boarder before they start a family. Plus the privacy would be nice.
B) Medical: Maybe Toni has an issue she needs to tell Brad about.
C) Personal: Perhaps she is wary of having a baby as she has issues from her own childhood and having to deal with Shannon and her slacker Dad might heighten this uneasiness. She would not be the first person to simply think that she does not want to start a family for personal reasons.
D) Shannon: maybe Toni D is thinking of asking Brad if they can officially adopt Shannon as she is finally fed up with her deadbeat brother and his selfish acts. Shannon needs a stable family and bouncing between the slacker, Brad/Toni and Luann is not getting that done. Perhaps Toni wants to make sure Shannon has a better childhood than her and her brother’s. This is what I personally think could happen.
E) My least likely reason and the one I really hope does not come to fruition but it has to be mentioned: she is beginning to have doubts about her marriage to Brad. Not every marriage works though in Brad and Toni’s case you would think it would after all Brad did to get to this point. .
My wife and I had this discussion long before we got married, and we were on the same page. After we had been dating for about two months, we had already picked out a boy’s name and a girl’s name. Just prior to being married, we decided to wait for a couple of years before having a child just to make sure we were more financially stable. As it turned out, we had a boy, then years later, we had a girl – we used both of the names we decided on at first. Last August, we had been married 31 years.
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Now, for the real question: Was Bernie joking with Luann about the $35, or will Luann have to cough up?
My wife & I are infertile, so we take in foreign exchange students. The questions can be tougher. “So why do Americans act this way?” My response has sometimes been, “Uhhhh…”
Something similar happened over at FBoFW (affectionately known as “The FOOB”)… Granthony wanted kids, Therese did not… Or at least she wasn’t ready for them yet… but he did everything he could to cram a kid on her right away. It was one of the big things which led to their split.
Finally an arc on this topic! Brad and Toni have to discuss it again and very seriously. It’s not okay when you let the fear stop you, especially if Toni actually wants to have children. Brad is on her side and will respect every decision she will take. But it’s clear that he wants to have children.
Because Toni wants her career and doesn’t want kids. She already has a handful with Shannon. Clearly Brad does, but this was an important a conversation they should have had before marriage.
Old Smiley’s back with the questions most Luann commenters are asking. But after Sunday’s strip we’re beginning to have a suspicion. In fact, today’s strip gives all the appearances of a Sunday stand-alone gag strip!
I realize this is just another will-they-have-a-baby storyline (I’m guessing that Toni will get pressured into it eventually) but getting a glimpse of the exciting daily life these two lead that we usually never get to see makes me wish we could see a full on firefighting arc again.
Toni knew what she was getting into when she signed up for this strip. I’m sure there were standard clauses in the Evan’s character contract she signed. Son gets pretty girl after conflict clause. Young couple get new baby clause and become helicopter parents clause. Et cetera!
Wow, is that in your face or what?! But Toni and Brad seem to know him well enough not to get offended. It used to be quite common in Asian cultures for relatives to ask such questions to young (or even not-so-young) couples, but with increasing westernisation, it’s not tolerated that much any longer, especially by educated, urban folk.
Not having been a parent myself, I can’t speak from experience. But, I do understand it’s a big thing in a couples life. But scarier than what Toni, and, Brad, experience at a major fore scene? I don’t know, probably an apples and oranges comparison.Unless Gregg is setting us up for what Frank, and, Nancy, have been hoping for a while.
I love the level of insensitivity Greg and Karen consistently display. There are women out there who desperately want to bear a child, but are unable to, who will not appreciate this story line.
Yep – I’m thinking Toni doesn’t want one. Maybe Shannon is enough. This could be a problem for Brad – as I believe he wanted kids. We’ll see where this arc goes.
Now we may know why Toni was brushing off Brad yesterday. If they are getting asked this question by EVERYONE she may feel so pressed into a corner about it that she is now avoiding intimacy with Brad. Where before she enjoyed it, all this “baby talk” is now attached to it and she is clearly not ready. She’s described it as “scary” and that says a lot about her, her upbringing and her fears.
Pretty sure we saw the real reason yesterday: Toni is so against the idea of having sex with Brad that she changes the subject whenever he brings it up. And since he’s so whipped by her he allows her to play coy instead of insisting on an honest conversation.
If asked that question again, they should tell the nosy slug about Shannon IN DETAIL. She would put anyone off the idea of having kids. They should get a dog.
I agree with all the people who have said, “It’s none of your business, bud!” But, with the world in the shape it’s in because of global warming, I can’t imagine bringing a child into the world at this time. They’re talking about getting the carbon under control by 2050?? Way too late!check out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FqXTCvDLeo
I was always just as blunt back when asked. I’d say “Nope..I didn’t get the Mommy gene.” Which was true. But I had hundreds of “children” as a riding instructor..I’m on my equal of third generation of students. I always added that I’ve had lots of kids..they just went home with the people who had to pay for their stuff and their college tuition!
For maximum butting in, with 100% entitlement and zero compassion, this:
“When my husband and I got engaged, my mother-in-law threw a family party where, in the blessing she gave before eating, she blessed my womb. Walking vessel [for grandchildren], indeed.”
From last Friday’s Carolyn Hax chat: https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2021/11/05/live-chat-carolyn-hax/
If Toni doesn’t want to be pregnant all she needs to do is be on birth control; she doesn’t have to resist having sex w/ Brad as she appeared to be doing yesterday. But yes, Brad was so thrilled to be just marrying Toni that he did not want to tackle any subject that could get in the way. Now he’s dealing with it along with the fact that he may never have the family that he wants.
People who ask questions like that have too many teeth, and any effort made to reduce the amount (e.g. a solid blow to the jaw by a fist) is acceptable.
It may have been a rude question,but it’s the question more than half of the readers are thinking.
Hey,Shannon would be a protective big sister,standing over the baby’s crib with a baseball bat.
Look at the superhero comics.People who save the world every day,but they’re scared yellow to have a long term romance.Does Batman even know what a girl IS???
Hey, if Brad wants to carry it, miss out on work, give birth to it and stay home with it (instead of letting a sitter raise it) then they should have a baby. Say what you will, babies are still mostly a women’s responsibility. What makes people think all women want that? If you have a baby itch as an outside party, go volunteer with kids somewhere-
That used to drive me up the wall when my late and much, much missed wife were newlyweds decades ago. Paul Reiser said it best on one episode of Mad About You: “What is it with you people? You’re single and it’s when you gonna get married? You get married and it’s when you gonna have a baby? Your kids grow up and it’s when you gonna be grandparents? What’s next? When you gonna die??” The implication is that no matter where you are in life, it’s never good enough for them. Rick Nelson was right. You can’t please everyone, so you’ve got to please yourself.
Templo S.U.D. about 3 years ago
Stay out of your coworkers’ lives, bub.
mfought about 3 years ago
tomorrow is another day
mfought about 3 years ago
carry over from sunday
live2read about 3 years ago
Hey, how come you don’t mind your own business?
mfought about 3 years ago
firefighters go to work with lipstick on?
linus82 about 3 years ago
Siendo ambos Toni y Brad bomberos, alguno tendría que retirarse para hacerse cargo del bebé, o bien Nancy y Frank tomarían ese rol.
AnyFace about 3 years ago
capricorn9th about 3 years ago
It seems from Brad’s expression that you’re speaking for yourself, Toni.
Dreamdeer about 3 years ago
Next time they get a call for a treed kitten, why don’t they leave Mr. Rudemouth up in the tree in the kitten’s place?
Rhetorical_Question about 3 years ago
Yay! Toni N Brad arc
Joe1962 about 3 years ago
Brad would like a child it’s Toni who is not ready she has said in the past.
beb01 about 3 years ago
I was expecting a week of Luann applying for jobs and getting shot down every time. A week of people badgering Toni about getting pregnant? I think Greg has found the formula to keep me away for the week, (Don’t cheer all at once).
Rhetorical_Question about 3 years ago
Who would stay home? Frank and Nancy? Or Luann?
Dreamdeer about 3 years ago
Kudos to Greg Evans for doing his research on firefighter equipment.
C about 3 years ago
Where’s the joke? This is simple fact.
Mordock999 Premium Member about 3 years ago
Oh brother.
Old “George Jetson” gets right to the point, doesn’t he?
But to answer his question in one word, “Shannon.”
And to answer it in five words, “Because Toni is not interested.”
About a year ago the subject of “baby” came up and Toni practically drove to Cleveland to avoid the subject.
Instead, she attempted to talk Brad into buying an overpriced junker of a “car.”
So, what is her excuse going to be this year?
“Work?”
“I’m not ready?”
“WE are not ready?”
“We need to save more money?”
“COVID?”
“The weather?”
Or perhaps Toni will finally fess up and admit she doesn’t want to have a baby. Ever. Something she should have specified from the beginning.
Of course, there’s a long shot that she might be ready to be a momma.
But I have My doubts.
There may be an honest discussion arc.
Culminating with news that Brad (And a lot of “folks”) doesn’t want to hear.
Rhetorical_Question about 3 years ago
adaption is a possiblity?
Willow Mt Lyon about 3 years ago
That is way too personal of a question. Never ask that to a childless couple. Same as at a class reunion, never say, “I thought you would be the last one to have a baby at 20.” Two people who never even talked to me in high school said that to me at our 20th reunion. I almost cried because that wasn’t my first pregnancy, and I didn’t go to my 25th reunion because of it.
Rhetorical_Question about 3 years ago
Toni still wants a home.
lvlax about 3 years ago
When you think how often they take care of Shannon…it’s like they already did!
Caldonia about 3 years ago
Look at yesterday’s comic. You’ll know why they haven’t had a baby yet.
ronaldspence about 3 years ago
They trained to make rescues and fight fires, having a baby is something that is almost possible to prepare for…plus, fires eventually go out…parenting…well…
alasko about 3 years ago
Because they eat popcorn.
Cheapskate0 about 3 years ago
Looks like a Sunday strip.
TampaFanatic1 about 3 years ago
Okay, I suspect that the loudmouth, who thanks to Mordy I will now call Mr Jetson, has just given Brad the idea to push this issue and it will likely blow up in the dude’s face. Look, a lot of people really want a family but its one of the biggest decision Toni Daytona has to consider in her life. There are lots of reasons to wait or not want a kid right now such as:
A) Financial, do they have the coin to have a kid. It appears that they are not floating in the money, if they were, I suspect they would have already said bon voyage to TJ. Perhaps she tells Brad that they have to support themselves without a boarder before they start a family. Plus the privacy would be nice.
B) Medical: Maybe Toni has an issue she needs to tell Brad about.
C) Personal: Perhaps she is wary of having a baby as she has issues from her own childhood and having to deal with Shannon and her slacker Dad might heighten this uneasiness. She would not be the first person to simply think that she does not want to start a family for personal reasons.
D) Shannon: maybe Toni D is thinking of asking Brad if they can officially adopt Shannon as she is finally fed up with her deadbeat brother and his selfish acts. Shannon needs a stable family and bouncing between the slacker, Brad/Toni and Luann is not getting that done. Perhaps Toni wants to make sure Shannon has a better childhood than her and her brother’s. This is what I personally think could happen.
E) My least likely reason and the one I really hope does not come to fruition but it has to be mentioned: she is beginning to have doubts about her marriage to Brad. Not every marriage works though in Brad and Toni’s case you would think it would after all Brad did to get to this point. .
Brdshtt Premium Member about 3 years ago
My wife and I had this discussion long before we got married, and we were on the same page. After we had been dating for about two months, we had already picked out a boy’s name and a girl’s name. Just prior to being married, we decided to wait for a couple of years before having a child just to make sure we were more financially stable. As it turned out, we had a boy, then years later, we had a girl – we used both of the names we decided on at first. Last August, we had been married 31 years.
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Now, for the real question: Was Bernie joking with Luann about the $35, or will Luann have to cough up?
jea9hrkr about 3 years ago
I hope she was joking because if it not a joke it was very rude – Luann did not askfor that help.
cdillon85 about 3 years ago
My wife & I are infertile, so we take in foreign exchange students. The questions can be tougher. “So why do Americans act this way?” My response has sometimes been, “Uhhhh…”
jazzfan619 about 3 years ago
Isn’t this usually first asked by their parents?
Johnnyrico about 3 years ago
Something similar happened over at FBoFW (affectionately known as “The FOOB”)… Granthony wanted kids, Therese did not… Or at least she wasn’t ready for them yet… but he did everything he could to cram a kid on her right away. It was one of the big things which led to their split.
Decepticomic about 3 years ago
That’s pretty funny.
scott.rouse about 3 years ago
Yeah it would be too scary to unleash a brain dead pig mutant on an unsuspecting world.
bestframeforward Premium Member about 3 years ago
YES! We haven’t had a dedicated Brad/Toni storyline in far too long!!
Bernedoodle about 3 years ago
We commoners can be blunt at times.
tremaine53 about 3 years ago
That’s among the very rudest of questions out there. And AS IF it’s anyone else’s business.
Aladar30 Premium Member about 3 years ago
Finally an arc on this topic! Brad and Toni have to discuss it again and very seriously. It’s not okay when you let the fear stop you, especially if Toni actually wants to have children. Brad is on her side and will respect every decision she will take. But it’s clear that he wants to have children.
Johnnyrico about 3 years ago
Mr. pickle-nose needs to have a fire extinguisher crammed into his big open mouth.
Chris about 3 years ago
and fighting fires isn’t?
rrsltx about 3 years ago
Because Toni wants her career and doesn’t want kids. She already has a handful with Shannon. Clearly Brad does, but this was an important a conversation they should have had before marriage.
Tyge about 3 years ago
Old Smiley’s back with the questions most Luann commenters are asking. But after Sunday’s strip we’re beginning to have a suspicion. In fact, today’s strip gives all the appearances of a Sunday stand-alone gag strip!
Khpg about 3 years ago
Wow, Tony and Brad on a weekday strip. Rare sighting! Much needed and welcome change!!
Yakety Sax about 3 years ago
Nun ya.
Nun ya?
Nun ya business!
Call me Ishmael about 3 years ago
“Just lucky, I guess.”
luann1212 about 3 years ago
Aha, the question is afoot; what will the answer be? That is the arc I think.
kauri44 about 3 years ago
I realize this is just another will-they-have-a-baby storyline (I’m guessing that Toni will get pressured into it eventually) but getting a glimpse of the exciting daily life these two lead that we usually never get to see makes me wish we could see a full on firefighting arc again.
Tyge about 3 years ago
And Luann is still underfunded.
Ellis97 about 3 years ago
You guys put out fires and save lives, so you should be brave enough to have a little boy of your own.
Tyge about 3 years ago
Toni knew what she was getting into when she signed up for this strip. I’m sure there were standard clauses in the Evan’s character contract she signed. Son gets pretty girl after conflict clause. Young couple get new baby clause and become helicopter parents clause. Et cetera!
wongo about 3 years ago
Humm, what’s the scary part ?
Katsuro Premium Member about 3 years ago
Never, ever ask that unless you’re 100% sure that there are no miscarriages in their past.
Rhetorical_Question about 3 years ago
1st panel is a collage. Toni has a chain saw?
Troglodyte about 3 years ago
Wow, is that in your face or what?! But Toni and Brad seem to know him well enough not to get offended. It used to be quite common in Asian cultures for relatives to ask such questions to young (or even not-so-young) couples, but with increasing westernisation, it’s not tolerated that much any longer, especially by educated, urban folk.
WilliamVollmer about 3 years ago
Not having been a parent myself, I can’t speak from experience. But, I do understand it’s a big thing in a couples life. But scarier than what Toni, and, Brad, experience at a major fore scene? I don’t know, probably an apples and oranges comparison.Unless Gregg is setting us up for what Frank, and, Nancy, have been hoping for a while.
Binky about 3 years ago
Would be a bit much having a baby under the same roof as an undisciplined Shannon.
gigagrouch about 3 years ago
“None of your g—damned business!!”
Billys mom2022 about 3 years ago
None of your business.
Cincoflex about 3 years ago
Given Sunday’s strip I’d say it’s because they’re not having sex
ctolson about 3 years ago
Got to do the deed to plant the seed, and from yesterdays strip, that hasn’t happened for awhile.
comic reader 22 about 3 years ago
I love the level of insensitivity Greg and Karen consistently display. There are women out there who desperately want to bear a child, but are unable to, who will not appreciate this story line.
poppacapsmokeblower about 3 years ago
They’ve studied fire fighting and child raising and chosen the safer job.
Mary Sullivan Premium Member about 3 years ago
Has he met Shannon?
kenhense about 3 years ago
Yep – I’m thinking Toni doesn’t want one. Maybe Shannon is enough. This could be a problem for Brad – as I believe he wanted kids. We’ll see where this arc goes.
eladee AKA Wally about 3 years ago
Now we may know why Toni was brushing off Brad yesterday. If they are getting asked this question by EVERYONE she may feel so pressed into a corner about it that she is now avoiding intimacy with Brad. Where before she enjoyed it, all this “baby talk” is now attached to it and she is clearly not ready. She’s described it as “scary” and that says a lot about her, her upbringing and her fears.
BJShipley1 about 3 years ago
Pretty sure we saw the real reason yesterday: Toni is so against the idea of having sex with Brad that she changes the subject whenever he brings it up. And since he’s so whipped by her he allows her to play coy instead of insisting on an honest conversation.
Flatlander, purveyor of fine covfefe about 3 years ago
I was our volunteer department’s training officer, so much wrong with those first panels
KEA about 3 years ago
She is so Smart!
WaywardWind about 3 years ago
If asked that question again, they should tell the nosy slug about Shannon IN DETAIL. She would put anyone off the idea of having kids. They should get a dog.
tcayer about 3 years ago
She makes fun of Brad every time he tries to get frisky!
mindjob about 3 years ago
Brad’s thinking, “I still have that hot butter from yesterday…”
paulscon about 3 years ago
I agree with all the people who have said, “It’s none of your business, bud!” But, with the world in the shape it’s in because of global warming, I can’t imagine bringing a child into the world at this time. They’re talking about getting the carbon under control by 2050?? Way too late!check out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FqXTCvDLeo
Enter.Name.Here about 3 years ago
“Too expensive.”
percheronhitch6 about 3 years ago
I was always just as blunt back when asked. I’d say “Nope..I didn’t get the Mommy gene.” Which was true. But I had hundreds of “children” as a riding instructor..I’m on my equal of third generation of students. I always added that I’ve had lots of kids..they just went home with the people who had to pay for their stuff and their college tuition!
CynthiaLeigh about 3 years ago
Geese, not a week of this!
locake about 3 years ago
No one should have a child unless they really want a child. Every child deserves to have parents who wanted them.
dbradway1 about 3 years ago
OK, I’m going to say this once to Greg . . . DON’T YOU EVER DO ANYTHING TO HARM TONI!
oakie817 about 3 years ago
could this be new storyline starting????
cmxx about 3 years ago
For maximum butting in, with 100% entitlement and zero compassion, this:
“When my husband and I got engaged, my mother-in-law threw a family party where, in the blessing she gave before eating, she blessed my womb. Walking vessel [for grandchildren], indeed.”
From last Friday’s Carolyn Hax chat: https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2021/11/05/live-chat-carolyn-hax/
NatureBatsLast about 3 years ago
Yeah, we sure need more babies.
alexius23 about 3 years ago
Setting up serious home conversations…..or a pregnancy story line
broncalo8 about 3 years ago
Leaving all this laborious analysis aside. I’m just glad we have a Brad and Toni arc for, at least, a little while. Because I like reading comics.
Scoutmaster77 about 3 years ago
They need to talk…
RSH about 3 years ago
If Toni doesn’t want to be pregnant all she needs to do is be on birth control; she doesn’t have to resist having sex w/ Brad as she appeared to be doing yesterday. But yes, Brad was so thrilled to be just marrying Toni that he did not want to tackle any subject that could get in the way. Now he’s dealing with it along with the fact that he may never have the family that he wants.
bob-droid12 about 3 years ago
I thought the problem was financial
D.E.N. about 3 years ago
I guess after the past two weeks of “The Educator” fiasco, we in for another week of “Sunday Moring” style comics.
MuddyUSA Premium Member about 3 years ago
Especially from nosey people!
AndrewSihler about 3 years ago
Is that just a clumsy stab at “making conversation”, or an unwholesome interest in other people’s genitals?
The Wolf In Your Midst about 3 years ago
People who ask questions like that have too many teeth, and any effort made to reduce the amount (e.g. a solid blow to the jaw by a fist) is acceptable.
DG about 3 years ago
I think its all on Toni. If it was up to Brad, they would have a kid.
198.23.5.11 about 3 years ago
It may have been a rude question,but it’s the question more than half of the readers are thinking.
Hey,Shannon would be a protective big sister,standing over the baby’s crib with a baseball bat.
Look at the superhero comics.People who save the world every day,but they’re scared yellow to have a long term romance.Does Batman even know what a girl IS???
Treehggr87 Premium Member about 3 years ago
Hey, if Brad wants to carry it, miss out on work, give birth to it and stay home with it (instead of letting a sitter raise it) then they should have a baby. Say what you will, babies are still mostly a women’s responsibility. What makes people think all women want that? If you have a baby itch as an outside party, go volunteer with kids somewhere-
davidpepper71 about 3 years ago
“Mr. Jetson” could make a few suggestions for a boy and a girl name: Elroy and Judy!
asrialfeeple about 3 years ago
One word : Shannon.
Lightpainter about 3 years ago
What a nosy doofus!!!!
BlitzMcD about 3 years ago
That used to drive me up the wall when my late and much, much missed wife were newlyweds decades ago. Paul Reiser said it best on one episode of Mad About You: “What is it with you people? You’re single and it’s when you gonna get married? You get married and it’s when you gonna have a baby? Your kids grow up and it’s when you gonna be grandparents? What’s next? When you gonna die??” The implication is that no matter where you are in life, it’s never good enough for them. Rick Nelson was right. You can’t please everyone, so you’ve got to please yourself.
Night-Gaunt49[Bozo is Boffo] about 3 years ago
Babies cost money, time, effort and concentration. NOT a good idea for the serious fire fighter.
Ukko wilko about 3 years ago
And, they have her niece as a strong negative incentive.
Sisyphos about 3 years ago
I suppose it’s meant as a joke; but I take Toni at her word. Being a parent is indeed a scary thing, nowadays for sure….
browniscool about 3 years ago
scary indeed
David Huie Green LoveJoyAndPeace about 3 years ago
She has a point.
The_Cracker about 3 years ago
Wow, that dude is aggressive.
GOGOPOWERANGERS about 3 years ago
Is the new stop late I thought only 1 HR DLST
ttuerff about 3 years ago
I have a better idea, jerk— why don’t you mind your own frikkin’ business? Punch him in the face, Toni…
Naldrin 10 months ago
I kinda like this firefighter, he always has a really big smile on his face.